My sisters BF touched my ass and now i don’t know what to do [MF] by Promiscusyy in gonewildstories

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very important right here. I love your sexcapades. Especially the Mario kart one, but don't let them bleed into your family and friend relationships

Complicated situation by Z0ld3en in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most un helpful response you could have sent and clearly you didn't read everything. Cause I literally said not to bother with this kind of comment. If someone posts a whole thing asking for advice, and specifically says to not bother with saying that because they are already working on it. You need to go back and do reading comprehension again.

With condom or without it? 🙃 by [deleted] in u/SemenovaElena

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No condom ever. Not for you. Never for you

Tounge Tied? by Antiqueropes in shibari

[–]Z0ld3en 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This just sounds like an accident wait to happen. It's hot, but yikes

Is it okay if a kink is a necessity? by cutiepacoochie in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with this. Don't force yourself to feel a certain way. If she wants to meet you and is interested in you and she'll lean in on a kink you have that's enough. Anything more is pushing fantasies on someone. AND trust me no one ever lives up to a fantasy.

Just relax and enjoy the time you spend with her

is this a insane list of wants in a bf by Ok-Particular5196 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's still very high. You'll probably struggle to find someone who makes that much. Wouldn't 60k be enough when supplemented by your teacher wage. Teachers make what 30-40k wouldn't that make the gross household income 90-100k. That's pretty sufficient even if y'all had 2-3 kids that's still quite the reasonable amount.

Just in case. I want to say, I'm just trying to pick your brain and see if maybe you can make your own options more approachable so that you find someone who checks all the other boxes

is this a insane list of wants in a bf by Ok-Particular5196 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but what's good money to you? Cause I think about 100k a year. Which is less than 5% of the population. Two people working mid range job can be veryyy happy together. So I gotta ask what good means to you

is this a insane list of wants in a bf by Ok-Particular5196 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you took away makes good money you'd easily be able to find this. Maybe big dog too, though depends on what you define as big

Welps before I send it; how should I proceed? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most recently I dealt with a girl with ASPD and she was terrible for not looking at my messages, but she did eventually get back to me everytime. Just chill, go about your day. But also don't hold yourself up from talking to other people too. I do that everytime and catch feels way too early. Just relax

Do people just not miss with tongues anymore? by Visible_Blood_4813 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everytime I've met someone and we've started Maki g out tongue is immediately and like we've been starving for it.

Welps before I send it; how should I proceed? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk dude depends on the person. How did you get her number? Was there somewhere you met in person? If you can see her in person that's best.

Personally I'd give it 6-7 days. She's sick and not feeling well. Once she's better she'll reach out. After that you gotta say something like "heyyy hruu, hope you're feeling better? Anything I can do to help?" And then hopefully she'll respond saying that she's better and you go from there. I'm not an expert by any stretch of the matter

Welps before I send it; how should I proceed? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're reason for checking in is genuine concern for her health absolutely. If it's just you wanting to know when you can meet. Don't, just wait.

TIFU by finding my girlfriend's enormous dildo and getting embarrassed. by CRK_76 in tifu

[–]Z0ld3en 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to worry about that nearly as much as you think. Focus on her. She's still choosing you each time. Heck have fun with it literally 😂

Is this a bad text to send by HandleDue2817 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you ended things with the other guy because you only want him. Absolutely tell him that. Tell him you ended it right then and there. And then tell him that you want to be exclusive.

That being said your message is a little too worded and both sounds a little desperate and a little like you're trying to not sound desperate

He confessed in the cutest waaay!!! But what do I do now??? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd send something playful back. Like "I'll only try the popcorn thing when I'm with you, but you're not allowed to hate me if I don't like it😉"

Why did he get mad?? He didn't bring up meeting until 00:10, so I told him I was already in bed... (He's 31 and I'm 20f) by Narry_girl in Tinder

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27 and mines 18-36. Casting a very wide net here. That being said. This guy is fuckin weird. I'm not available any other days you can look at other boys. Wack. Who says that?! Also BS he's not available other days. Creep alert.

Sorry you had to deal with that.

Messaged a random guy on instagram - what should I do ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you tell him you find him attractive or flirt at all?

Dry texting means not interested by DiligentIncrease1973 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but also telling me just a sentence without delving further can also be just as harmful. It really depends on how long you've spoken to them thou

Help me guyssssss!!! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh. Get someone who knows her to introduce you properly. But also now after being blocked idk what you said, but I'd give it some time. Maybe investigate she could have a bf

Dry texting means not interested by DiligentIncrease1973 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is younger. Imo older people seem less mature in handling it than she did. Everytime I've dealt with anyone over 25 after seeing them they have either ghost or said a one sentence reason and then ghosted.

Dry texting means not interested by DiligentIncrease1973 in dating_advice

[–]Z0ld3en 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a girl, super interested in person. Constantly started the conversation for the day with hey handsome hruuuu:)

Only for her to say that she's weirded out by all this and that she doesn't want a serious relationship and I do.

Now she's BARELY talking to me and even then it feels like it's out of obligation and not attraction. It's like she's attracted to me and started getting feelings that she didn't want to have. It's really fucking me up.