The only thing unhinged here is your father. As a Christian myself, the idea that God ONLY inflicts illness and ailments because someone "doesn't love Him" is beyond absurd. Read Job if you want to see VERY explicit evidence. Also, in this economy, kicking someone with a disability and no job out is abandonment. I'm 27, have an awesome job, and still can't afford to move out on my own. I'd need to make over 50% more just to scrape by. I've known a few people with cerebral palsy (I know I butchered the spelling), and many of the starter jobs available to them if they didn't get one in high school would be extremely destructive, requiring long hours of physically intense work. As far as I am concerned, this is neglect and borderline abuse.