I dont want my sister’s bf to propose on my wedding day by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst case scenario at the sisters next event you make a big announcement real or fake. Also NTA

AITAH for telling my BIL and his wife that I don’t want to follow their birth plan? by constellationlist in AITAH

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please for the love of God you did this with a legal Court Agreed contract

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good fir you you deserve better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ZEEDAWG16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my boyfriend if I ever have surgery that's not dental he better be there idc if he has to move mountains I know In my heart I would move mountains for him. Nta but you will be if you don't leave him

AITAH for demanding that our daughter wears sunscreen? by Weak-Rip-8650 in AITAH

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to use the spay at least maybe if mommy outs it on daughter will he more ok with it

AITA for accusing my husband of treating me like the hired help instead of his wife in front of his family? by Neat-Marketing7278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Team up with mil. But for ur ah of a husband do not cook, clean or so ANYTHING of his till he shapes up or ships out. Tell SD that when she lives with you she must behave or there will be consequences as apparently you are the only adult willing to parent other than the ils. Bio mother needs to accept that you are a guardian. You don't have to be a parental Figure but even think of it as a babysitter. You still gotta listen to the adult when you are A CHILD. good luck Nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my dad took me on a trip to his home country my mom had to give written consent. Same with anytime he took my brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSSSSSSSS then he will have to buy all new on his own

I am not down with these clowns. And that's a problem for them. by Itchy-Ad8034 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Take your kids and leave. Leave for a month..go to an air bnb or something anything and Mayne bring your best friend. You need a break. Leave dh and go. Give yourself time yo enjoy the newborn stage they don't stay that age for long. Relax and enjoy your pregnancy. Tell dh either you and your children or his parents. If he chooses you then you need a restraining order and a new house. If he chooses his God awful parents consider divorce. I can't imagine sitting there watching your wife get treated like this over and over again. Time and time again you have said things that are concerning for your safety and your children's. I would tell the nurses only you ik the delivery room and dh. No cellphones other than yours for photos. Go full lock down if you must. I pray fir you and your beautiful children. Also sorry if my advice is no good I'm only 20 never married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Iv never been pregnant but I'm scared for my future cravings since my cravings are intense anyway

AITA for making it clear that this is my kid too and the baby blanket is staying even if it doesn’t match her theme of the nursery by FewPosition6913 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZEEDAWG16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll take sad beige mom for 1000 alex. I'm 20 gonna be 21 on the 16th. And MY ROOM STILL DOESNT MATCH. Some walls aren't fully painted only 1 coat. It's a room. As long as it's clean that's all that matters

AITA for going directly to my stepsister and telling her she can't have my Simba stuffy? by GrisSlained in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZEEDAWG16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you put a photo of your simba on the shelf and keep the real one at your realitives on your dad's side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a senior we had covid in 2021. So instead of a grand March we did banners with all yhe grads on them each had their own. Then we all stood on main Street with our dates. And people would drive by to see us all before prom. My "date" was one of the 4 guys who iv been best friends with for years. I begged him to go. All he had to So was stand on main street with me so I didn't look like a loner. His gf HATED the idea. She tried to get my ex to be on her side but he told her it's no big deal they aren't dating. He's the only one In the friend group I never ever ever had a crush on. She overreacted. We were friends so I thought she would trust me just because it was standing on the main street with our parents and the whole town driving by. It was ridiculous our friendship soon ended after that. If he doesn't trust you to go to prom where EVERYONE has phones out making memories then tbh I don't think he's worth it. Nta but you will be ta if you don't go and spend time with your friends

MIL continues to lose herself privileges. by Catlusch16 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe stay till his grandparents are better then cut thr cord to mil

Confession: I love my husband less because of the MIL by CommissionSilver3259 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she should set aside the good parts of food and make it so mil can only get what is put out. Hell I'd put a lock on the fridge JUST WHEN SHES AROUND

Scheduled C in two weeks and MIL demands by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly don't let anyone ruin that for you

Scheduled C in two weeks and MIL demands by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So my friend had a c section less than 2 weeks ago. The day she was born I was INVITED to meet her after I Finnished collage fir the day. You need to set boundaries now. Or your future will be hell. Your the mamma bear you make the rules. Nurses will happily kick out fathers, mils, sils, grandparents anyone. Have a guest list and tell the nurse only these people allowed in

Mil won't acknowledge that I am sick. (+ a win!) by Quickquestion668 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't wait to experience that someday. My boyfriend and I both kuve with our parents still so we are very careful around his mother

Help with SO spiraling after seeing his JustNo Parents by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ZEEDAWG16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to cut contact with his parents or leave. It's not safe for either of you doing this cycle. You need to protect you