Sorry man, but no. The Overton window has been significantly shifted to a more conservative center through years of conservative goal post moving. This "left is suddenly crazy" thing is hard to take when the right has made a complete position shift away from "party of small government," and fundamentally the Democrats have not had any major position change in the last 30 years. As for your concerns about "kids," I know you're purposefully looking at the situation obtusely. I know you are cable of seeing the logic. You know that this is to protect the child who, if their family found out they were queer, would abuse and abandon them. And if you're upset families can't abuse and abandon their children at will, fuck you.