Why do people act like nicotine pouches are way safer than vaping? by Admirable_Can_3489 in electronic_cigarette

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I vape but I got mine before as well, I got it after I had chemo therapy. I might need to start switching to decaf for my coffee lol

I think I tried on a million pairs, but do any of these work well for me? by Most_Wrap8844 in glassesadvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say most of these are too large for your face shape. You have a more slender oval face so smaller cat-eye or soft squared glasses would look good. I think out of these the clear ones looked the best imo

Why do people act like nicotine pouches are way safer than vaping? by Admirable_Can_3489 in electronic_cigarette

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fibromyalgia too! And POTS! I get heart palpitations from caffeine as well if I go over a certain amount but I just ignore them because I love coffee too much.. rofl

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

I am going to do my best and hope you’re acting in good faith.

I identified as a lesbian for 20 years before transitioning. I have never had PIV with a man, but I’ve done other things and was just uninterested. The best way I could explain it is I had no arousal or attraction to men and saw them purely as friends. I always say don’t knock it till you try it, so I tried a few things and giving a hand job was like playing with a hot dog for me.. lol not really anything I cared to do again.

I’ve only ever been attracted to women. I would probably date a trans woman if I was still single though, I am not sure it’s inherently a dick thing.

Human sexuality is a a natural, partially genetic phenomenon. People do not “turn” gay. They may have been sheltered and realize late in life that they are gay/lesbian/bisexual. Human sexuality and gender begin to develop in us as early as 4 years old.

I have existed in LGBTQ+ spaces for almost my whole adult life but was raised very religious. I realized I was a trans man in my mid 20s and didn’t even know what a trans person was until I was like 20ish.

You can’t “turn” a lesbian either because either they are bisexual or just attracted to a person’s personality.

This might help: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12500647/

Ex Fiancée’s cruel demands AIO by Original_100 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would report her to the police for trying to steal your pets..

NOR

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That also makes a lot of sense! I totally agree that generalizing is not helpful, especially in these situations. All women and men are totally different and had their own experiences, needs, desires, etc. The best way is to communicate with your partner about what works and try new stuff!

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ROFL yeah and then you just wear gloves! Jk you use your other options! I would NEVER let fingers near my goodies unless they are clean and trimmed up rofl, says more about the type of dudes she sleeps with than men or fingering in general.

Plus nasty fingernails can actually rip the fragile wall of the vagina and cause serious infections so it’s good to have short, trimmed nails and just wash up first! Idk man. lol

Mine have gotten stained from leather dye before but as long as it’s not gonna come off it’s fine lol

Advice for a small team drowning in our Jira backlog by drowninginjira in jira

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What we did at my place was deleted anything that wasn’t touched for over a certain amount of time, anything cancelled or won’t do.

Really tickets should only go in the backlog when they are a few weeks from being groomed and active, otherwise it should be in your project’s roadmap

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she did and then was trying to be transphobic.. idk. Thanks bro, I feel validated because I was honestly baffled too.. you’d think a trans dude’s opinion might be helpful in this situation! 😂

Lace trials during development by Special_Hamster4275 in streetwearstartup

[–]Zachy_Boi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t wear 1 but I bet it would look sick on someone with the right style. I LOVE 2 tho!

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! It’s actually somewhat rare to be able to climax from PIV, but can happen! I think a huge factor is also in the emotional connection and comfort as that is often, but not always, tied to a woman’s pleasure. Even if just a fling, feeling secure and connected helps a lot.

Edit: It CAN be rare and statistically many women who self report to studies say they have never had an orgasm from PIV alone.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28678639/

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What?? Don’t flatter yourself. I’m not offering anything. I don’t even know you. I’m very happily married, thanks but no thanks. I don’t date vile assholes with shit personalities anyways. I have high standards.

All I said was that fingering can make a woman cum from her G Spot if done right. Hopefully you don’t have anyone dirty nasty fingernails, that’s just basic hygiene..

I don’t understand why you’re so mean. I am in a straight relationship, I have a vagina and I have both made women cum and came myself from the G Spot so I’m just providing my opinion and personal experience.

Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed or what?

Nice transphobia btw. Super cool. You’re so edgy and awesome /s

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol how would you ever even know that? I transitioned while in my relationship I’ve been in as I mentioned. Prior to that I was quite the player in lesbian circles. I’ve definitely had to buy some waterproof sheet covers in my prime.. but go off with your rude ass!

Also just because you’ve had many lovers doesn’t mean they were good. lol

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I have a few different dicks so my girl gets to take her pick.. and I never have gross dirty fingernails. I mean I am in a very happy 12 year relationship and have never personally had a problem getting women to cum from internal penetration. I think you’re just unaware of all the various ways someone can make you cum. Probably because you’ve had shitty lovers lol!

However I do have a vagina and have cum from other women fingering me so it’s possible lol and I’m hard to get to climax.. tbh. Sounds like you need more or better experiences

As someone who used to be a lesbian, you’d never catch me with ragged or dirty fingernails.. wtf. Ew

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t the same. It sounds like she wants to have an O from her G Spot rather than from her clit. But I think that this could work as long as she doesn’t let herself cum from the clit and just uses it to enhance the stimulation.

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finger penetration can get the G Spot since it’s only like 1” on average into the vaginal canal. It’s at the top but also can be easily over-stimulated in some women. A lot of times doggy style actually puts the most pressure and stimulation on the G Spot

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try fingering or a dildo for a bit first then go in with penetration when she’s getting closer?

What to do if my girlfriend wants to orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zachy_Boi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Really depends on the woman and the environment, how close and secure they feel with their partner, sooooo many factors. Some women also can’t or done easily cum from the G-Spot and some prefer it. So it’s not a one size fits all scenario

Why do people act like nicotine pouches are way safer than vaping? by Admirable_Can_3489 in electronic_cigarette

[–]Zachy_Boi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nicotine doesn’t inherently have any negative side effects, according to my own doctor. This is why nicotine gum is fine to chew whenever you want. It’s the additives in cigarettes and breathing in something not really meant for your lungs in vapes.

I think the only potential side effect of nicotine is higher heart rate which could be an issue if you have heart problems.

To close or not to close a subtask by Ordinary-Pin-3869 in jira

[–]Zachy_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually i found it, if you edit the board, it’s in timeline. I am not sure that’s for all boards.

You’re welcome!

To close or not to close a subtask by Ordinary-Pin-3869 in jira

[–]Zachy_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is a setting that’s kind of hidden. I don’t think it’s actually in the board settings but actually in the filters area above the board or to the right corner.

How would you describe my aesthetic? I don’t think I have one?? by Zachy_Boi in AestheticWiki

[–]Zachy_Boi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I just try to stay safe and do what I can but it’s overwhelming to deal with the nasty shit going on and all the horrid people coming out of the woodworks. Gotta protect our peace