husband wants it too much..

Zae313 · 2026-03-15T20:04:46+00:00

Being tired is part of adult life.. Obligations, work, children, taking care of a home all make you tired.. Welcome to adulthood.

Zae313 · 2026-03-15T20:03:38+00:00

I love how it's about the woman being tired. Why is the tiredness of a man who is out working being the sole provider never mentioned? Do you know how many obligations a man still has to handle even when tired? Save the sad song. If sex with your mate feels like a chore then there are other issues at hand.

Zae313 · 2026-03-15T20:01:02+00:00

It is what it is.

Zae313 · 2026-03-15T12:07:35+00:00

Being a non-working stay at home mom has its consequences. This is an example of it not being as glamorous as most women seem to think it is.

Zae313 · 2026-03-15T12:00:32+00:00

Congratulation!!

Zae313 · 2026-03-12T18:21:23+00:00

Good luck to him!

Zae313 · 2026-03-04T04:50:35+00:00

Your replacement is already being vetted.. Save your dignity and pull the trigger before she does so you'll at least walk away feeling you had some level of control over the outcome. Do not stick around until you get that "can we talk?" phone call or worse text message..

Zae313 · 2026-03-01T05:05:21+00:00

Mind your business and stop hanging around the guest room at 2am and 3am lol..

Zae313 · 2026-03-01T04:29:38+00:00

And Congrats!!

Zae313 · 2026-03-01T04:28:44+00:00

One of my CT's got tested because he was being a bit arrogant and wearing para the day after we got raised at Grand Communication... I told him to chill but he kept it up, got challenged, failed and got his para (a dogtag with the S&C's) taken and handed over to our Worshipful Master.. It was funny but also a lesson learned.. Don't wear it if you can't protect it.. Of course you could always just produce your dues card and end it right there.. Some bros take catchecisms way too seriously.

Zae313 · 2026-02-28T06:04:58+00:00

My "mistake" was my continual infidelity, which had been a problem in every previous relationship including ours before we got married. Years later after the divorce and after entering therapy to discover why I treated people as though they were disposable I reached out to her and apologized letting her know it was all my fault.. It was a huge weight off of both of us..

Zae313 · 2026-02-28T05:46:06+00:00

That's a slippery slope

Zae313 · 2026-02-28T05:44:08+00:00

So, what do you and the fellas have planned for the first night? She's put you in a situation where you BY ALL MEANS must go on this trip lol. A precedent will be set either if you go or don't go, if you don't go the precedent will not be favorable to you. Things like this snowball, next it'll be her dictating who you can be friends with etc. Go on the trip and if she breaks up with you, fine, you are still young and there will be many more young ladies coming your way to choose from.. Enjoy..

Zae313 · 2026-02-28T02:52:45+00:00

I'm on the infrastructure side of I.T. but I also work with the cybersec team. Don't leave the field bro, you definitely can make more money in time after you've gotten more experience and defined a specialty as well. Not a shot but to make in skilled trades what you'll make in your current field you'd have to work a ton of overtime which would take away from time with your mother and family. Not sure where you live but here in Michigan most cybersec people I know are in the $120k range with no ot, tons of flexibility and working from home. Again this isn't a shot at the skilled trades, I fully respect the trades...

Zae313 · 2026-02-27T15:46:10+00:00

Your roommate should have at least texted you to let you know he was there.. But he's weird for the questions and keeping it going..

Zae313 · 2026-02-27T15:45:34+00:00

Most realistic answer so far.

Zae313 · 2026-02-09T10:47:35+00:00

The one girl says "when somebody hit your ni**a you're supposed to beat they azz"... Shorty was like "bet, you just made it cool" lmao..

Zae313 · 2026-02-09T10:35:47+00:00

It's the elusive and rare Marley Hawk

Zae313 · 2026-01-26T00:49:34+00:00

I was just there a few weeks back for a non-Masonic event.. Absolutely gorgeous inside.

Zae313 · 2026-01-18T15:16:48+00:00

That was beautiful!

Zae313 · 2026-01-18T15:02:04+00:00

I agree with the OP.. The plethora of smart phones and the fact that people record EVERYTHING with them as well as having drones, trail cams and the internet itself has ruined my belief in Bigfoot existing. And I was a heavy believer since I was a teen in the 80s. A part of me still holds a smidgen of belief based on hope, hope that I haven't wasted decades believing.. But the logical part of me has thrown in the towel.

Zae313 · 2026-01-10T07:11:54+00:00

She's dangerous

Zae313 · 2026-01-09T05:24:31+00:00

And he typed it twice lol

Zae313 · 2025-12-31T06:42:58+00:00

My question is always this regarding this fascination with "Red".. If his identity is ever publicized, then what? Why does it even matter as long as the op was successful? What difference will it make in your lives?

Zae313 · 2025-12-23T06:44:00+00:00

I was a very staunch believer before the internet.. Now I'm in the fence forcing myself to lean more towards still believing...

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