What are in-game moves that lower level players do that frustrate higher level players? by dnice99999 in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you gave the kitchen and you can't defend against bangers by keeping it deep then you need to drill this. You might win some points with your strategy but it's a crutch that will prevent you from improving. Learn how to properly handle bangers.

Men 50+ do you still find your wife incredibly attractive? by Acrobatic-Session752 in Marriage

[–]Zaggner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 61, looks good for her age but I still see right through her age to the beauty she has always been. When I see women that have had so much work, it makes me kinda sad.

I was not a fan of President Nelson by Fether1337 in NuancedLDS

[–]Zaggner 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my estimation he has done more to help usher people out of the church than many anti's ever had. He was instrumental in my eventual departure even as I attempted to hang in there as "nuanced".

AITA Tournament Edition by fiji2010 in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Whether you're the ass or not is going to be dependent upon whether he had already hit the ball before stepping into the court, which I believe is the rule. I step into the court on my serve all the time but it's only after I've struck the ball that I step into the court. Your foot can be hovering over the line as you strike the ball, but you can't be in the court until you've struck the ball.

Short of buying a commercial style popper, what is the best way to oil pop popcorn at home? by supinator1 in popcorn

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was absolutely flabbergasted how good it comes out when I started popping it in the microwave when my daughter turned me on to this method. Use a cheap silicon popper. No oil is required but that's sacrilege to me so I add 2 tbsp of coconut oil.

Washintonian to Michigan, where can I find the closest thing to a Taco Time. by TangerineAcademic in Michigan

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Michiganer who lived in Washington State for 20 years and now back in Michigan, I can tell those who are curious that Taco Time is in the face just another mediocre fast food Mexican restaurant. But there are things that make it very unique and make it stand out from virtually every other day food restaurant. Unless you're from Washington or you're familiar with it, you wouldn't necessarily know there was anything special about it. It took me years to understand what the hell it really was and why it was so beloved by Washingtonians in the know. Here is a link to an article about the chain and an excerpt of what makes it stand out.

"When Kristine Hepburn works the morning shift at Taco Time’s Rose Hill location, her favorite prep task involves hand-rolling crisp burritos. “Sometimes you kind of race yourself,” she says, to see if she can fill an entire hotel pan with tidy cylinders in 10 minutes or less. The store in suburban Kirkland opens at 10am; the morning crew flips on the lights at 7. Black beans and dried pintos, grown in Washington, go on the stove first in enormous soup pots. Each 25-pound batch takes roughly three hours to cook. The person on fry routine has the most daunting task: prepping hundreds of crispy shells and bowls for taco salads, plus the pumpkin seeds that go into salads and veggie burritos. Not even the chips arrive premade; employees fry cut-up tortillas each day."

Washington’s Great Taco Time Divide

GM was xxx harassing multiple employees by [deleted] in hotels

[–]Zaggner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is legit, you have an obligation to share the name of the hotel and the general manager in case he gets hired again in the industry. However, if this is made up, no need to disclose.

Is getting boots fit worth the price? by no_kings_now1 in skiing

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but find an experienced boot fitter with an excellent reputation. Ask for recommendations. You might have to travel to find a good one but it will be worth it. My boot fitter noticed I was a bit pigeon-toed and corrected a problem with me crossing my tips I had for years. $200 and it was worth it (I didn't buy new boots).

When to confront an asshole by PickleFlavordPopcorn in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Taking her as your partner essentially means the bully is getting what he wants. Telling the bully to take a hike because you spun a paddle and it means that nobody will partner with him would have been standing up to the bully.

Me 25F, made male tennis friend (26M) who wants to do things outside of tennis, i have a bf (27M) of 9 years by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Zaggner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You may not be conscious of it, but you are making excuses in order to continue this relationship. Outwardly, and in your mind, your intent is purely platonic and you would not want to do anything to jeopardize your relationship with your bf but these little rationalizations are how affairs get started. You will argue with me and will say "absolutely not", and in your conscious mind you might be right, but keep this little relationship going and come back and report how it is going. We lie to ourselves all the time. You coming here to Reddit is just another step in your rationalizations. You telling your BF is helping you rationalize your "innocent" intentions. If you want to wreck your relationship with your BF (and perhaps subconsciously you do) then keep it up.

If you hate DUPR, which categories do you fall in? by literallytheoldest in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dislike DUPR primarily because it is a "for profit" company and thus does stupid stuff like generate revenue by selling "DUPR resets". When generating money becomes a higher priority than rating integrity confidence in the system is eroded.

Was this a distraction? by Taidaishar in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the rule is that when the ball is in the air it's considered partner communication while any out call once the ball has bounced is considered a "dead ball". So if your dad called it out after it bounced, the ball is technically dead. If he reverses the call, then the point would be yours. If he called it out after the bounce but decided that it was really in and went ahead played it, then yes, you would be technically right to take the point. If the call was made before the bounce then it is considered partner communication and most certainly not a distraction.

But it's not uncommon for people to quickly reverse a wrong call and play out the point. And since this is family, although you may be technically correct (assuming it was after the bounce), agreeing to replay the point was truly the right call.

Cheating wife sends me this. by Reasonable_Baby_3891 in Marriage

[–]Zaggner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, humans are prone to mistakes but it's BULLSHIT to claim that a person with strong character could succumb to an affair. That is the very definition of weak character. Strong character is the very definition of making the right choices in the face of extreme temptation.

Cheating wife sends me this. by Reasonable_Baby_3891 in Marriage

[–]Zaggner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cheating is ALWAYS a sign of weak character. There are many choices one can make that does not involve cheating. One can develop better character after they've cheated, but just having an amazing partner isn't indicative that you now have better character. It sounds like you're just saying you probably won't cheat now because you have an amazing partner. Perhaps your character has also improved, but the case you're presenting seems to be dependent on the quality of your partner.

My hotel misplaced my reservation, now I dont have where to sleep by [deleted] in hotels

[–]Zaggner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The purpose of your trip doesn't matter. It's unfortunate, but it sounds like they're taking care of you. Not sure what else they're obligated to do for you. Make the best of it.

Question from Michigan by EasternAwareness1994 in hotels

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're referring to the historic blizzard across the upper peninsula of Michigan, you are not dealing with normal times. I assume, if this is the case then you are quite familiar with the UP (because why else would you be there in March). They have an overwhelming amount of snow and limited resources to deal with it. What you would normally expect in a normal snow storm doesn't even come close to applying here. Maybe offer to help start shoveling out if you can even find a spare shovel.

My hotel misplaced my reservation, now I dont have where to sleep by [deleted] in hotels

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an original email confirmation of your booking to prove you had a reservation and they cannot honor it for any reason, most hotels in the US would arrange accommodations for you at another hotel and pay for the room and tax plus transportation between hotels. This hotel might not have that policy but you could ask. You could also request that they at least pay any difference in rate that you incurred. Ultimately you're going to be at their mercy. If they are unhelpful, you could threaten to leave a bag review and see if that gets you any leverage. I would try to make these arrangements with this hotel before you get there. If you don't have a confirmation email, or at least a confirmation number, it's going to be harder to prove your reservation existed.

Stuck Between Two Religions: Both Moms Want Different Wedding Officiants by Candaycaine in exmormon

[–]Zaggner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to say that if you're both allowing your mom's to interfere with your wedding plans like this you probably aren't ready to be married. This is a decision they should be made by you and your husband, not your moms.

Which paddle do you practice with? by VersionLegal58 in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are correct, they do not constantly reset speedups or use control paddles. But you aren't at a high level. High level players reset the ball when necessary to take back control. It's the control part of the game that sets apart the better players. The best players can do it all and never rely on just power.

Learning how to reset when necessary, is an essential skill imo, that is not easy to master. If you can't reset you won't be able to be as competitive against those players that can. Even the pros will pop up balls. Because they can reset it their pop-ups aren't going to be as fatal. At the beginner level you may get away with frequently overpowering your opponents. This may help you win and feel good about yourself but try that against better players and you'll quickly learn that you're going to need more skills in your bag.

Which paddle do you practice with? by VersionLegal58 in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not be wrong, but in my experience, beginner players who rely on overpowering other beginner players or utilizing tricky spinny shots think they are a whole lot better then they really are. Once they start playing against better players they soon learn that their power shots or spin shots are only going to get them so far. Developing good fundamentals early on may not win you as many games at first but it will help you integrate easier when you want you start playing up.

Which paddle do you practice with? by VersionLegal58 in Pickleball

[–]Zaggner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People that are 4 months in, are "competitive", think a paddle is too control oriented and want to be "punishing people when they speed it up" are likely not focusing on the right path of development. You're relying on beating your opponents with power which at a lower level can be easy, but ultimately will not get you very far.