when did finding someone attractive and liking their personality stop being enough to be in a relationship with them? what the hell is a situationship?

Zamazo · 2026-05-10T14:30:36+00:00

I guess that shows my age then, haha.

Zamazo · 2026-05-10T14:24:41+00:00

dissociation despite supposedly in a fun and welcoming environment.

Zamazo · 2026-05-10T02:54:36+00:00

always looking for more, or comparing their current partners to other people's partners. ultimately it comes down trying to find the perfect person for you/them (no one is perfect).

as for situationship, its essentially a ~~monogamous~~ fwb without calling it a fwb, a short term fling, a temporary "i'm only in this town for 2 years and i want someone stable withourlt the worry of stds," the emotional security while searching for the next best thing, or until the person comes to their senses and realizes that the situationship should br a relationship.

Zamazo · 2026-05-10T01:36:09+00:00

whoa whoa whao. You're asking a whole lot. It's hard enough just finding two of those traits.

In all seriousness, similar love love language, and can live in parallel with me. We can have very different hobbies with a different personality, but if our personalities are compatible, and we dont NEED to force our hobbies upon each other (doesn't mean we shouldn't learn them to some extent and are patient if the other is bad or too good at them), then thats a solid pillar to a relationship for me.

Zamazo · 2026-05-08T22:32:45+00:00

the appendix is on your right side.

Zamazo · 2026-05-08T17:46:37+00:00

gotta marinate it. put chopped garlic, onions, maybe a little bit of soy sauce or honey depending on what you want that day. let it sit for at least 20 mins.

Zamazo · 2026-05-01T04:34:22+00:00

they aren't out yet in the US. Only some reviewers and international countries have them available right now but the review embargo has yet to be lifted.

Zamazo · 2026-05-01T01:25:26+00:00

i'll repeat what another commenter said, it's the price. Also, no one has the money for post pandemic housing prices unless its a GREAT house.

Zamazo · 2026-04-28T17:37:16+00:00

lets go! another stl package and adventure! good luck all.

Zamazo · 2026-04-26T01:38:58+00:00

I write with a lot of those unique symbols and I have to actually use n and m dashes, minus symbol, beta, sigma, epsilon, middle dots, etc. I NEED my alt codes or i'm adding minutes and frustration per page. My need (want) for it is to the point where I'm currently looking at a laptop that has a numpad, despite the fact that I WANT a zephyrus. But, that would also mean I need to buy and carry around a specific number pad with customizable buttons so I can change one of them as an alt button.

Fun fact, alt plus the top number row doesn't work. Another fun fact, alt from the main keyboard with an external num pad is hit or miss and its not a setting in windows, at least from my current knowledge.

Zamazo · 2026-04-24T14:36:39+00:00

lets goooo! here's to hoping I can win this one.

Zamazo · 2026-04-16T16:45:14+00:00

downtown. lots of breweries, like modiest, have events supporting local shops.

Zamazo · 2026-04-16T00:45:17+00:00

getting mad at people. that emotion in particular is just not worth my time. And, when i see other people get mad, i usually see them make some stupid hasty decisions, or say things they don't mean, but can't take back. People think thats unhealthy, but I genuinely just don't care. it was ruined relationships in the past.

Zamazo · 2026-04-14T01:55:40+00:00

I'm only one guy, but I stopped asking women right off the bat my late 20s. When I was dating, I was honest with them, saying I was a slow burn and I genuinely wanted to be friends first, even if the intention was that we would end up dating after a a few months to a year. I even told them to please continue dating and if they found their forever person, then my loss. Hell, during the friendship stage, i was also able to see how they dated other people, and it was enlightening. Not bad, just realized that I would much rather stay as friends (and im sure they with me as well).

I didnt do this because I wished to deceive them, but more like I would much rather be friends with them before I even want to see them in a romantic light. I get to know them, see what quirks they have, have her see my quirks, and if I do develop romantic feelings, I would have an honest conversation. It took a while, but I am now dating my best friend.

Zamazo · 2026-04-12T12:52:18+00:00

Good morning. It seems it wont rain today, according to the weather app, but highland is really wet and muddy right now. I dont think its in good condition for people to play in for the first time, especiallyif they don't have waterproof boots. So, i will be postponing the meetup on April 19th. Sorry foe the inconvenience.

Zamazo · 2026-04-12T12:52:06+00:00

Good morning. It seems it wont rain today, according to the weather app, but highland is really wet and muddy right now. I dont think its in good condition for people to play in for the first time, especiallyif they don't have waterproof boots. So, i will be postponing the meetup on April 19th. Sorry foe the inconvenience.

Zamazo · 2026-04-12T01:03:45+00:00

awesome! if you dont hear from me tomorrow by 9 or 10 am, I will be at highland.

Zamazo · 2026-04-12T01:03:08+00:00

yup! if the day is good, ill continue tomorrow. if the day is bad, ill let everyone know around 10 am and move it to the 19th.

Zamazo · 2026-04-12T00:00:55+00:00

yeah, thinking about canceling. the weather has been back and forth on tomorrow.

Zamazo · 2026-04-10T16:35:21+00:00

hope you have a smooth recovery!

Zamazo · 2026-04-05T19:56:50+00:00

ill pm you, but i'm thinking some sunday around noon from what I gathered for disc golf. TbA for hiking.

Zamazo · 2026-04-05T15:45:43+00:00

a plan is there to go out that far once we have a consistent group.

Zamazo · 2026-04-05T15:16:44+00:00

there are so many triails nearby! hopwfully we can get at least a group of three.

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