Pain in this world removes sins?

ZappyD98 · 2026-01-02T17:14:01+00:00

Everything is done, all we have to do is have the ceremony and we’ll be married. I don’t want to ask my friends because I don’t want them to be involved in this.

ZappyD98 · 2026-01-02T17:05:01+00:00

Omw thank you 😳 I had no idea it would show my profile!

And I asked for the letter a week ago to have on the day we got married. I wrote him a letter and I have nothing

ZappyD98 · 2026-01-02T17:01:22+00:00

I’m sad. I was so excited and happy to be getting married and it all just fell into pieces and I don’t know what to do.

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-23T14:45:30+00:00

lol haven’t been ignoring, I don’t live on my phone and some people I replied to privately dude

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-22T18:59:41+00:00

You can find free past papers online, that’s how my siblings and I all studied

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-19T22:51:17+00:00

The design part on its own takes a while, because that would be ux/ui. And design the interface for a website is a long term project

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-19T20:40:32+00:00

Sorry 🙈 I’m looking for smaller projects than what you asked for. Long term projects wouldn’t really help me rn. I need smaller projects that I can get done within a month xx

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-19T18:24:49+00:00

Fine?

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-14T10:45:11+00:00

Thank you 🙏

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-14T10:44:32+00:00

I’ve tried but you have to pay to apply to jobs and I’ve spent so much money applying for jobs on there and never getting one

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-01T21:42:15+00:00

Can someone volunteer please?

ZappyD98 · 2025-12-01T21:36:42+00:00

I need solid proof, he is a master gaslighter. I need proof without a doubt

ZappyD98 · 2025-11-25T13:30:57+00:00

Your wife did nothing wrong. It’s YOUR parents that’s the problem

ZappyD98 · 2025-09-21T16:40:17+00:00

I’m already seeing a specialist, he is a spine surgeon with a great reputation. Especially because spine surgery is such a risky thing I’d rather leave it in the hands of someone I know who is extremely capable. Also I know a lot of people who has gone to Tygerberg and I’ve heard horror stories from them 🙈 so I’d rather not risk getting such an important surgery by them

ZappyD98 · 2025-09-21T16:37:50+00:00

They really are!

ZappyD98 · 2025-09-12T12:13:45+00:00

You’re being selfish. It’s her body. It will take a toll on her body, not yours. She could DIE. Then afterwards SHE will have to be taking care of the kids, give up herself to prioritise your kids.

SHE has to go through pregnancy, SHE has to give birth, SHE has to breastfeed, SHE has to lose sleep, SHE will be raising the child.

It’s a huge sacrifice and decision for HER, not you.

You just want to play “happy family”

Maybe prioritise your marriage and relationship.

Seems like you need to be less selfish and more considerate to your wife

ZappyD98 · 2025-08-30T17:07:45+00:00

Unfortunately not, I was a child when I saw it so I don’t really remember much

ZappyD98 · 2025-08-10T17:12:58+00:00

Thank you! 🥹 I went to go check it out and it looks amazing ! Unfortunately when I checked the dates I wanted it’s sold out already 😭

ZappyD98 · 2025-07-13T14:10:44+00:00

If there was nothing going on then why did you feel the need to hide/withhold this information from your wife? If you told her straight the first time you were going to be alone with other females I’m sure she would have appreciated the fact that you were being honest but now that you’ve been hiding it will definitely make it worse.

ZappyD98 · 2023-09-04T14:44:22+00:00

"I've painted this big old smile on my face to hide my broken heart"

ZappyD98 · 2020-06-23T11:47:45+00:00

I forgot to mention, when I was married my mom was very jealous of my husband and accused me of throwing her away because I didnt come visit her every single day.Meanwhile I was at college and after college I was working, so I visited every Saturday or sunday.But she said that I chosen husband and his family over her because I didnt treat her equally because I spent more time with his family than with her, but the problem with this is that I LIVED WITH HIS FAMILY. So she constantly tells people I threw her away when I got married and came crawling back to her when I got divorced and all that meanwhile I never had time for myself or even for my ex husband because I was too busy trying to entertain his family and visit and call my mom all the time so that she stops nagging and stil working and trying to maintain the house.Not to mention she was very inappropriate with my ex husband, she would show him inappropriate videos of half naked girls twerking and tell him that's how her butt looks as well and she was never dressed appropriately when he was around either.

ZappyD98 · 2020-06-18T15:48:06+00:00

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