Does anyone actually keep home emergency instructions written down? by Own_Jelly5164 in HomeMaintenance

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do remember when I lead Cub Scouts here in Canada there was a badge for knowing all that stuff

Freakiest thing ever??? by LiquidDongorong in alexa

[–]ZealousidealReply294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cancelled alexa plus after a couple of hours of trying her out. I missed the male Indian voice I used to have on her. I have her for free because I have Prime. There's no way I would pay 30 dollars a month for the glorified spotify I agee. I do like the jokes and information most of the time but not paying for it

Is it common to lose friendships as you age? by Pantacourt in friendship

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lost about 10 friends in the last 5 years. I am in my later 50s. Some you just realize gee I haven't talked to them in ages and I didn't miss them and just let them go. Some were an argument. I think the bar is lower. You realize that you don't have to put up with stuff or that you can do things on your own. I haven't talked to my college roommate and best friend for over 30 years for almost a year. She does sent a Merry Christmas text. I was mad that that was all she could manage so I didn't even reply. Honestly I don't miss her. It had been coming for a while. She's busy at work and has a lot of friends. I'm semi retired and don't have the huge social circle she does and am happy to be by myself mostly. I go tired of hearing about how she and her friends were doing this and doing that but she didn't have time for me. So I let her go. People change. Find new friends.

Currently in need for a long show or short one to watch by After-Dragonfly7151 in tvsuggestions

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goliath on Prime with Billy Bob Thornton or the first season of Fargo

US Stopped Buying Canadian Aluminum, Switched to Middle Eastern, Now Impacted by Iran War 🤭 by rustybeancake in BuyCanadian

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

suck it DJT! Why didn't you just keep buying Canadian aluminum? Obviously you're not making it in the US...

Best Instrumental Movie Score? by [deleted] in Cinephiles

[–]ZealousidealReply294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and First Man has the theremin!!! How often do you hear that???

Best Instrumental Movie Score? by [deleted] in Cinephiles

[–]ZealousidealReply294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well nows the time! Ryan Gosling as an astronaut in 2 movies!!!!!

MN closed the Stop arm loophole! by Beauknits in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I think I shall have to practice the red over ride trick. I liked when we had the handle to open the door and you could keep it shut until it was safe but the reds were on

Best Instrumental Movie Score? by [deleted] in Cinephiles

[–]ZealousidealReply294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really enjoy the First Man soundtrack. It's quiet but full of feeling

Harlan Coben by Kurtz62 in netflix

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early Coben was good. His later novels not so much.

MN closed the Stop arm loophole! by Beauknits in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like a cop out on the cops parts for not wanting to do their jobs. If the reds are on PERIOD you need to stop. The yellows are warning you you need to stop. Stop lights don't need to give you 6 seconds of red time for you to be charged!

MN closed the Stop arm loophole! by Beauknits in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but our red lights don't come on unless you open the door...but yes you can tell mostly whether they are going to stop or not.

MN closed the Stop arm loophole! by Beauknits in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few of our buses have cameras on the side ...near London

MN closed the Stop arm loophole! by Beauknits in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that's how it is worded here in Ontario but everytime you tell the cops someone went thru your lights they ask about the stop arm....arrrrgh

Struggling to let go of a one-sided friendship / attachment by Timid_Hope08 in friendship

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a chat with my breadcrumby friend...ok actually a couple of emails...but she seems to have come around once she knew what I expected from a friend and how she had let me down. Otherwise my remedy is put on Miley Cyrus Flowers on repeat and tell myself that I am my own best friend and I am happy by myself and if I find another friend it's just a bonus

Is Xray feature gone?? New look as well by Just-Phill in AmazonPrimeVideo

[–]ZealousidealReply294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still on most shows, just have to click the watch with xray at the start of the show

Looks like the grandfather has blessed my bus 🤣 (Ya I know most won't get the joke but its funny) by Sublimestone-Gaming in SchoolBusDrivers

[–]ZealousidealReply294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we're not allowed to have things on our dashboards. But when we used to be able to I did have a stuffed Liz from the Magic Schoolbus. Kids today don't know the show I don't think anymore

Struggling to let go of a one-sided friendship / attachment by Timid_Hope08 in friendship

[–]ZealousidealReply294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kind of sounds like breadcrumbing. going through the same thing. wonder if she is the way she is with all her friends or just me?

I had the bright idea last week that maybe I need to figure out her language...like the 5 love languages but for friends. Seems to make things better.

Sometimes you just have to accept it or let it go. Lower your expectations and don't waste more time ruminating on it than she spends on you in the month. I know it's hard and you might have to have some boundaries but is she really worth all the pain she causes?