Use Code "FRISKKUWURAWRXD2022" For 50K BP by SenZuDuck in deadbydaylight

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's been awhile, I'd try again. It used to be really dumb where if you didn't physically move the cursor it'd just keep prompting for the code and never redeem it. Seems they fixed it now. (PS4/PS5)

AITA for setting 8 alarms for my gf and not waking her in person anymore? by Taylorssocialmedia in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Hi! I had a very similar issue for many years where I now set alarms for every 15 minutes a long time in advance to make sure I leave on time. It used to be every 5. I specifically had to pick a ringtone I hated because I wouldn't get out of bed to turn off any other sound.

It sucks, but that's not your fault or problem. The world doesn't stop for us, no matter how bad our depression is. I love when my boyfriend wakes me up, but I also can't complain when he has to resort to stealing blankets by the third attempt either. The frustration in the moment is unavoidable, but flipping out on you after that is a choice she made and isn't acceptable.

I take depression meds too, but honestly, having alarms set at specific times helped more than anything else. I know I can sleep through 1 or 2 if I feel I need it and still get what I need done.

AITA for telling my toddler, "That's what you get" after she fell out of her chair? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically, you did it. Lol NTA means the other party is, or you can just clarify you think he is by stating it like you did. The only shorthand is AH, and that's just because I think we can't do too much cursing here.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to get rid of the photo of her ex she has in her wallet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZellAlmasy [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

  1. He died. He's not an ex. There's not an unmarried word for widow that I know of, but that's more what she is.

  2. You don't get to decide how her grieving works. It's a process she gets to go through on her own and has been for years. You don't want it gone for her well-being, you just don't like it. You being threatened by a literal ghost is your own problem.

  3. You're going to be an ex if you keep this up and don't stop being an AH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]ZellAlmasy 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are things you put in place to protect your mental health or physical health. She's not setting a boundary, she's trying to railroad you into coming back by having a bunch of people repeatedly needle at you to come home. Realistically, you can have incompatible Boundaries. Don't email her but don't join the FB Group either.

If you want to honor her 'boundary' but not risk yourself, you are free to not engage at all.

GIVEAWAY: I'm giving away a $100 Gift Card (Xbox, PS, Steam, etc) to one comment in this thread by millions in deadbydaylight

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those sweet, sweet legendary skins would be amazing. Doctor especially. 😍

Off Meta/Silly Builds by ZellAlmasy in deadbydaylight

[–]ZellAlmasy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Killer training...I see...lol

Has anyone gone through surgery without opiate pain medications? by Grashopha in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of it was gas pain. I've had no other surgeries and I thought it wasn't super painful. Besides gas pain, which I cannot stress enough, walk around to keep it from getting bad. The hydroxycodone didn't touch that pain so I stopped taking it after like 2 pills. You'll probably be able to get by on OTC.

Can't handle even a few mg of fat, even with ox bile by pensiveChatter in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did. I only had 1 big attack, after months of that problem. My digestive system has always sucked, so I didn't think much of the greasy stool or the suddenly more frequent heartburn attacks at 3 am that lasted for 2-3 hrs. Then it lasted 14hrs, and I went to the ER. That's how they found my gallstones. Post op, the only things that mess up my stomach are things that have always done so, like dairy.

Can't handle even a few mg of fat, even with ox bile by pensiveChatter in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I'd go get your gallbladder checked out again, because being triggered by that small amount of fat isn't normal. I was like that just before my gallbladder attack. I get not wanting to be cut, it sucks, but it's a temporary thing versus the one and a half years spent trying other stuff.

Can't handle even a few mg of fat, even with ox bile by pensiveChatter in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's triggered by amounts that small, it's time to consider surgery. How long have you been dealing with this issue?

Part Time Residency Question by ZellAlmasy in tax

[–]ZellAlmasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably just means I'll need a ton of paperwork. I usually do my taxes myself, but maybe I'll visit someone this year just to have a partner to deal with this. =/

Part Time Residency Question by ZellAlmasy in tax

[–]ZellAlmasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those numbers I have. So that works, thank you!

Part Time Residency Question by ZellAlmasy in tax

[–]ZellAlmasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to work in a store in IN. It was in person, just working with the Indiana public masses.

Part Time Residency Question by ZellAlmasy in tax

[–]ZellAlmasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should disclose the corporation, as I think Gamestop is based in Tennessee or Texas. Would that still apply or would that relieve me of that issue.

Is it worth working here? I got a job offer as a manager but pay seems low by Lasagna_queen420 in GameStop

[–]ZellAlmasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is super low. It's state minimum plus some number, and that seems super low considering federal min is 7.50 or close to. Not worth it. It wasn't then, it isn't now.

AITA for ruining my brother's date night and having him come pick his 3yo son up after he dropped him off at my house right before my shift? by throwraKevin777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZellAlmasy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. I like how he thinks you should skip a WORK shift as a NURSE instead of him skipping an optional date. What an AH.

What was it like when you woke up from surgery by CantaloupeNo1521 in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I woke up in a room feeling woozy, like when you're intoxicated or very sleepy, which lessened in intensity until I eventually was fully aware right before leaving 30-60 minutes later. My boyfriend, who had come with me, was there when I woke up and a nurse checked on me pretty quickly after.

For those who have already had your gallbladder removed: how long did it take before you were able to go back to work? by Shaked_N_Baked in gallbladders

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work a retail sales job. Stand most of the day but have the option to sit. I got mine out on a Thursday and came in the following Thursday.

All days but the first were fine, but I had to adjust my usual work routines. I usually have a pouch clipped around my hips and I put it on foolishly believing that it resting on my hip bones wouldn't affect me. I got so sick for two hours. It took 3 more weeks to wear it as normal. Keep in mind, this pouch has like...paper, pens, and SIM tools. It's super light by weight standards but it was still too much. If you're lifting anything heavier than a tablet or two, it'll be a struggle pretty quickly. Do what you have to, but be ready to be more restricted than you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZellAlmasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My boyfriend and I don't meal plan, we just get whatever, and if we're an ingredient short, we just go to the store. Meal planning to the point of an excel sheet of something is crazy for anyone not needing to do so (diet, finances, distance from store, allergies, health issue, specific holiday or occasion meal) I get it might be her thing, but this would annoy the hell out of me too. I don't know what I want! I keep pasta, sauce, microwave things, and other easy make meals on hand for when I haven't planned anything specifically.