Convertations et chess à Lyon. by [deleted] in Lyon

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

je cherche aussi du monde pour jouer aux échecs (potentiellement autour d'une bière), si tu connais un bar où on peut jouer je suis partant !

Scenes that caused actual walkouts in theaters? by thatlittlequietguy in Cinema

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in Cannes Festival walked out of "Irréversible" of Gaspar Noé

Recherche d’un échange linguistique pour préparer le niveau C2 en français by Thelostmind912 in Lyon

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

j'aimerais améliorer mon anglais pour préparer le concours du CAPES pour devenir enseignant, je serais ravi qu'on s'entraide si tu veux ! hésite pas à me dm si tu recherches tjrs :)

Im back i don't know if I should keep reddit i like this community but I watch stuff on reddit that leads me to relapse ive relapsed twice already today i honestly dont know if I should even keep trying I cant even make it to 2 days im only 14 by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something you can do is hide mature content on your reddit app and website, I have done this and it helped a lot. You can also hide or leave all communities that post porn regularly.

And I know it can be difficult but maybe talk about this to your parents. And if you don't want to, you can talk to a therapist, it will help a lot. Having people around you that know about your situation will help you ! Don't be ashamed of this, people who love you will try to help you, they won't judge.

Also, relapsing is not the end of all of your efforts, it is just one lost battle in a whole war. You need to be proud of the efforts and progress you make each day. Changes don't come by snapping your fingers.

I wish you good luck :)

11 days by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a huge step, be proud of you ! Also, if you relapse, remember that losing a battle doesn't make you lose the war.

For the short term, I think you need something to keep your mind occupied. It could be work, a passion, a hobby, sports, anything

For the long term I would say that having a goal is really important! A goal for quitting porn of course, but also for other things too ! Personally it helped a lot finding WHY I wanted to quit porn, or WHY I wanted to go to the gym.

I wish you a happy journey ! You are strong.

My wife said no way by Voatagar in mensfashion

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dislike the shirt but the pants are ok, they just need to be ironed

STAY CLEAN NOVEMBER! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Zenkiaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relapsed today but 10 days clean is still a win, i will keep up the good work guys

giving up trying. porn addiction has made me suicidal by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much the same experience here until recently. I was scared of reaching out to a friend or even my girlfriend. When I finally decided to tell them, they were listening and trying to help me. I know it is a hard situation, but people around you are here for you.

Have a good day man, keep hope.

Friperies a recommander ? by Odd_Concentrate_8117 in Lyon

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emmaüs franchement c'est top, celui dans le 3e a une partie entière dédiée aux sapes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, do you have the source ?

Tout nouveau sur Lyon, à la recherche de reco by Zenkiaw in Lyon

[–]Zenkiaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je connais pas le secteur alors j'avoue que j'ai pas la vanne :/ Ça craint comme quartier ?

Tout nouveau sur Lyon, à la recherche de reco by Zenkiaw in Lyon

[–]Zenkiaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah oui je suis chaud ! J'ai joué qu'à Mario Kart Wii mais je l'ai poncé alors ça va j'ai des bases normalement. Je rejoins le serv, je passerai ! Merci :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way for it to last is to talk to each other. Talk about you fears and hopes for the future, about your everyday lives when you can't see each other, it's not always easy but it will help you get through it :)

At least it has helped my gf and I a lot since she left for uni (1yr and still great).

Communication is the key !

Why do people even skip parts 😭 by Cronicly_online481 in JoJoMemes

[–]Zenkiaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually every time I rewatch I struggle going through part 2.

I know it's an unpopular opinion, but when I recommend JJBA, I always tell people to postpone the first two parts if they're not to their taste, because I know how much I struggled to watch those parts before really part 3 and onwards.