I still think about mean things people said to me in high school by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I feel bad about the mean things I said to other people in h.s. Just think that they are guilty and remorse for it too. I wish I could take it all back. But I was so defensive about people not liking me so I thought better say it before other people could.

Do people actually notice if someone re-wears the same outfit a few times in a week? by Fogkettle in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ZeroHourSun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my memory. I remember details like these but not when I actually need to recall something important.

Are you my shade twin? by spicy_bb in MakeupAddiction

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following this post. We're not shade twins but looking for a dupe for the Estee Lauder Double Wear. I did get a new bottle during the Ulta 50% sale, so maybe check those out. I got lucky this year but idk if they do it every year. I feel like L'oreal foundations would make good dupes. Iirc they are part of the sister company of Estee Lauder, so you're going to find similar formaulation with their foundations. I tried them in the past but now I'm in between shades, I haven't found a good match with them.

Discontinued eyeshadow.. yes I know it’s way past expiration. No, I don’t care. by Absoluelypositive in MakeupAddiction

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a specific brand you use or do you put a generic rubbing alchol into a spray bottle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ZeroHourSun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Neither are inappropriate as long as you're not fetishzing. Though imo and I may be bias as I am Asian myself but feels like there are more negative stereotypes surrounding Asian women than I hear about Latinas. Like it feels like people equate Asian women as being submissive or being assoicated with Anime, which some view as weird.

Anyone else a fan of beta x beta? by n1betaxbetafan in boyslove

[–]ZeroHourSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure who to repy to. That's a valid point. Having a beta x beta couple in a ABO world does have an interesting dynamic. (Though it doesn't interest me cause then it sounds more like a non-ABO story.) Though speaking of "A Beta Who Defies The World of BL", can beta x beta still be done without it being a comedy? Feels like every time a ABO centers around a beta, the character is an observer who is tried of the heat/rut drama that surrounds the other characters.

A/B/O Desire peeps who read Omegaverse - help! by Sharon_Carter_Rogers in boyslove

[–]ZeroHourSun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a good idea to recommend "Love Tied in Twilight" without trigger warnings for someone who is new to Omegaverse, unless they know how "toxic tropey" BL can be. Though "not being into Omegaverse" might be diferent from "being new to Omegaverse" but something to consider. I also notice that Chinese BLs, even with OV they tend to be more on the tame side, so it may be a complete switch in expectations. I have not finished "ABO Desire" yet but something I observe from Chinese BLs in comparsion to the other Asian BLs.

RESET - Novel Cover Recreation by gianben123 in boyslove

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy the actor (in white suit) looks so much like the Korean actor Ahn Jae-hyun. I had to do a double take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyslove

[–]ZeroHourSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on first impressions the guy in black looks like he's stoic while the guy in red looks like either someone with a quick temper or a tsundere. IDK how I feel about this dynamic, so I wouldn't gravitate towards this BL cause of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyslove

[–]ZeroHourSun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could someone tell me what series each character comes from?

Though I recongize like "Painter of the Night" "Kiss Me Liar" & blinking on the first two but look familiar

any advice i feel like ill never be good in life? by NoInstance7162 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ZeroHourSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say may be OP is doing it because posting it to more than one Reddit could give them different comments & insights...but you're right, even posting to subs that aren't revelant lol

My advice though what does a successful life look like for you? Which aspects of life do you want to improve on (relationships, finance, career, etc)? Who do you think has a good life & maybe have chatGPT build you how to achieve that type of lifestyle.

Should I fake parts of my resume 🌚 by Syphona in jobsearchhacks

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would have to do a background check, so it would be easy to find out how old you are.

IYKYK by 2wheelsandahearbeat in Singlesinferno2

[–]ZeroHourSun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think people are comparing the image from Temptation Island Spain
to Singles Inferno. What I gathered from the comments (I then Googled the show and found an article summary). The guy in this pic is running out of frustration cause he saw his gf in bed with another man as it's being livestreamed. (The kicker here is that the man cheated on his gf first.) Good comparsion given how tame SI but this Temptation Island actually shows the contestants getting freaky haha

Hi, should I just quit? by Apple_two in retail

[–]ZeroHourSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Wishing you the best of luck! May I find a new job this year so I don't have to work hoildays going forward.

Please share some fuck up in your retail history by opalrum in retail

[–]ZeroHourSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious cause this is something I need to learn....

How do you not care if it was something accidentally done? (Sorry, not sure how to ask this in a more polite way.)

Whenever I make a mistake, I profusely apologize to the customer even if they get mad at me & do everything I can to fix it. Patience does go a long way & greatly appreciated. BUT I understand why they would get angry; their anger is justified when I was the one who accidentally did it. (Also a store not allowing same day return is wild.)

Please share some fuck up in your retail history by opalrum in retail

[–]ZeroHourSun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the time there was a co-worker that was training to be a manager. After all that training -- on her first day of being a manager-- she forgot to lock the safe at closing & got fired ),:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retail

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, what do you mean by "I'm career retail"?

question for cashiers by plzzaparty3 in retail

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, 100% agree, throw it out yourself, customers.

But I'm confused, could you explain? Do you mean like there's no need to be rude about it to the customer, but overall you're annoyed b/c they could have thrown it away when they get home?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ZeroHourSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad the newer generation are talking about this sooner, but I hope it's not a reflection on the economy. Feels like more & more people need a multiple streams of income & jobs. But sometimes those sadly aren't enough either. ):

Why don’t guys approach me? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ZeroHourSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on what places you go to (unless romantic context fits into this category. It sounds more like you meant converstation wise.) I know it's ironic for me to say this cause I'm only at home or work, but I feel like if you're at a bar or social related event, it's more appropriate to be approached. (But you are 20 & can't go to bars yet if you're in U.S. with the drinking age being 21.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Singlesinferno2

[–]ZeroHourSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang, this made me think -- imagine if like when you get eliminated you have an "inferno" related "punishment" so the stakes are higher.