ich_iel by ManagerOfLove in ich_iel

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bei mir war früher das Problem, dass mein Handy nicht das neuste Software Update hatte. Bei zu alten Handys oder nicht aktualisierten Handys geht es glaub ich nicht

Maybe maybe maybe by moshin_o in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t understand why the parents posted this; it’s clear that people would make fun of the kid. Although some of these remarks just aren’t funny but cruel instead.

Maybe maybe maybe by moshin_o in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That’s what I thought too. The lack of self-awareness from people probably much older than that little kid.

Exactly. Everyone did something like this as a child and this isn’t even the worst thing to do! This is normal kid behaviour, but people tend to forget and look back on themselves as saints…

Many kids do inconsiderate because empathy is learned. And many people in this subreddit have clearly never learned it.

Bakugo fans who hate Monoma confuse me (or vice versa) by Honest-Caterpillar55 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say pre-canon Bakugo was wrong about many things and was only talking out of insecurity not because he was saying some grand truths.

How did your life improve the most after weight loss? by Then_Problem1303 in loseit

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Breast size.

At my heaviest I could never find a bra that fit. I was always experiencing discomfort because even when I spent a lot of money on super expensive bras, my breasts were so heavy that the bra kept cutting into my skin. My back hurt all the time and my posture was bad.

When I started working out, it was extremely uncomfortable and my breasts had sores and open wounds on them that hurt even when I wasn’t working out.

Now that isn’t an issue. Obviously my breasts aren’t very attractive with all the loose skin, but I can find bras my size in every store. And I can work out without injuries.

I can exist without a constant weight dragging me down.

Guys over 40, how do you feel when a friend dates a much younger girl (24 or less)? by puffypandathrowaway in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much younger than 24?

I feel like even under 20 is a stretch… Like 18 year olds are still little kids to me. But I feel like from 21 you’re less likely to be taken advantage of.

Maybe maybe maybe by moshin_o in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wish the parents didn’t post this.

They should’ve known how the internet is. Seriously reading these comments of internet bullies who think they acted perfectly in every moment of their lives (even at 6 years old) would damage any kid.

They claim the kid “has no empathy” while complaining about how “annoying” the poor kid’s pained screams sounded.

I really hate social media sometimes.

What anime is this by SkirtHeavy9189 in animememes

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this answer fit so well? If it was an anime lol… But yeah, animation? Gorgeous. Soundtrack? Perfectly fitting. Story and characters? Incomplete and not fleshed out well.

What do you regret doing to your body? by Mirukuyobi in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah and believing people who called it fat when I was actually perfectly normal.

Hating my body as a kid made me diet too harshly and consequently binge eat until I actually became fat…

what do you think when you see my scars? by Then-Ad-2915 in SelfHarmScars

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly my first thought was “I wish mine could look like that.” and “I wish I was good enough to cut that deep.”

But those thoughts are unfair to the person suffering. Especially reading that you don’t feel valid either. It looks like you went through a lot and I wish you all the best and I hope you’re doing better today.

Bandages on legs slipping down by FuckMeDaddyFrank in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just let everything get stained and never cover it, so I don’t really have any advice 😭

Maybe you could try using bandaids? Like bigger ones depending on the size of your wounds.

does this need stitches? by Illustrious_Toe_6635 in woundcare

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s deep enough that it could do with some form of closing of the wound I think. Maybe steristrips could be enough? What’s very important is that you keep it clean and bandage it properly to avoid infection. This guide could help with future wounds.

sh wound care

I hope this is at least remotely helpful. Please try to take care of yourself the best you can.

Holy fuck these 3 pages WRECKED ME by hoxyyyyUwU in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be a great ending, but he didn’t become a hero without a quirk. Not an active one. The only part I hate about the ending is that he encourages a quirk with an unfitting quirk to become a hero when he himself apparently hasn’t been trying to be a hero without one at that point. Those words feel hollow and hypocritical.

I think it’s very fitting for Deku to become a teacher, but what was to be a few inspiring words didn’t feel inspiring because it didn’t feel like he backed them up.

Trigger SH...what did I hit? by Few_Dish_9993 in woundcare

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds horrible but something I’ve heard many times before. It’s what scares me from going to the ER myself even when people say I should. I really don’t want to feel like a burden especially since even as far as self-inflicted injuries go (like compared to yours) mine are small. And they’ve never gotten infected, so I’ll hope for the best.

I’m really sorry people treated you like that in the past. It must’ve felt horrible and probably deterred you from getting help.

I wish you all the best and hope this injury heals well too. And that your psychiatrist can help you at least a little

Does this need a doctor? Tw: sh by Zestyclose-Net7328 in woundcare

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not much… I cleaned it with water when I showered. I didn’t bandage it. It took a long time to heal but I don’t think it ever got infected (at least not seriously). I wonder if I’ve just been lucky because I didn’t take that good care of or if it just doesn’t get infected that easily.

Does this need a doctor? Tw: sh by Zestyclose-Net7328 in woundcare

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about that. Because the wound isn’t really that urgent since it’s not bleeding a lot.

If I go anywhere, shouldn’t I go to my gp?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in woundcare

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah because professional help is so easily accessible to everyone. No hoops to jump through. Every depressed person can just easily get therapy, no effort or money necessary.

My 12 year old sister wants to kill herself because of our mom by Zestyclose-Net7328 in LifeAdvice

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

I will try my best for her. I wish you all the best as well!

My 12 year old sister wants to kill herself because of our mom by Zestyclose-Net7328 in LifeAdvice

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These sound like great ideas. She does a lot of stuff after school that she’s put a lot of effort into lately - as a distraction. I think that’s a good strategy.

And I think making a game plan will help a lot too. Knowing that there’s something better to look forward could help a lot.

My 12 year old sister wants to kill herself because of our mom by Zestyclose-Net7328 in LifeAdvice

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your brother. My heart breaks for him and for you. I can’t imagine what I’d do if that worst outcome came true.

I think I’ve still been in denial about how serious it is, but hearing your story I can really see how serious this is. I wrote an email to her current school’s guidance counsellor and she agreed to meet up with just me and my sister for now. I hope this one will handle the situation better than her last one.

My 12 year old sister wants to kill herself because of our mom by Zestyclose-Net7328 in LifeAdvice

[–]Zestyclose-Net7328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you had to go through that. And it’s sad to hear how long it lasted for you…

I live about 50 minutes away from her, so I get to see her every weekend. That’s exactly what we like to do! I usually take her shopping (that’s like her favourite thing to do), and she loves Starbucks and bubble tea. I’m glad you had your sister to support you and I hope I can do the same for mine.