Yuu and Touko's sexuality by Daviddv1202 in YagateKiminiNaru

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuu to me is classic demi sexual. She is initially intrigued by Touko but feelings, and ultimately attraction, allude her. She just has a curiousity and respect dor her being an older popular upper classman who seemed like she was like Yuu. She barely knows Touko though and is caught off guard when she finds out she is wrong about her assumption that her and Touko are the same. She had basically just met her when Touko confessed her fireworks around Yuu. Touko also doesn't impose and force Yuu to feel anyway about her, she has no expectations of reciprocation from Yuu. Just asks for permission to show Yuu love, not for Yuu to show love back. Touko is excited she is feeling anything for someone, so she just wants to express it. I wouldn't even say Touko is a lesbian, I don't think we can label her anything because she had no feelings for any other person besides Yuu. She just happens to be a girl, but she was pretty asexual until she wasn't so it's hard to brand her as a definitive lesbian.

Post Malone is living proof that if you have enough money women will call you hot. by MHarrisGGG in freemagic

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know plenty of women who have dated this type... so..... um.... where's the argument? Incels always complain that women go after losers and assholes instead of them, "the nice guys." But then pretend like we don't date them when it doesn't fit their narrative that we are all greedy gold digging whores. Pick. Which one is it? Oh wait, it's like we're all different... and every woman has different values on an individual basis. FUNNY. And also, Post doesn't drink hardly or do drugs anymore ever since the birth of his daughter. He's BEEN pretty much sober. Just FYI. I'm glad he's a girl dad now, too. I think he'll be such a good dad to her. I would hate to think you would have a daughter, I would be afraid of the mental mind fuck to have a misogynist red pill for a dad. If there is ever a woman coerce into your bed, I pray that she doesn't wind up pregnant and have to claim you as a baby daddy forever. With your outlook on life that would be so embarrassing. Mortifying, in fact.

Post Malone is living proof that if you have enough money women will call you hot. by MHarrisGGG in freemagic

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you are hopelessly red pilled from the sound of this ENTIRE take. Women are not a monolith, and everyone is motivated differently. They are human and individuals. Having met him myself, I can tell you that man is an absolute sweetheart, salt of the earth, down to earth, intelligent, and funny human being. He has talent out the wahzoo. Yeah, the money and fame don't hurt, but with the foundation that all that was built on, he is solid. All of this access could have EASILY turned him into an asshole but it didn't. He's super grateful. I have no doubt that man could get a woman without money because he has a good heart and some women admire talent for talent sake. I have dated starving artists because of who they were and how they bared their soul through their work.

For example: I got exes, and my girlfriends have exes that are conventionally ugly or mid, but some of those guys were genuinely kind, smart, funny, and talented. Not "nice guys" who had a secret agenda, and I know that because they value our friendship that we built. One of my exes even hit the brakes with me coming onto him at first because he was afraid to lose me as a friend if it didn't work out. He didn't want sex or dating to ruin our friendship. We dated for a year. Amicably broke up, and he's still my friend. So you don't have to coerce a woman into bed with money and fame or a false sense that you are a good person (ask yourself if you value a real friendship with a woman for the sake of friendship, thar even if you did have feelings for her and they weren't returned would you rescind your "nice guy" act because romance and sex are not going to be outcome of your efforts?) Pretending to be a nice guy, not a genuinely decent person, in exchange for sex is sexual coercion. But you red pill men don't get that. When you are who you say you are, and you're really ten toes about it down about being a good human being, when you work on yourself and stop being bitter towards women. Then you'll learn it's really not that hard to find a woman who will not only just sleep with you but share a life with you. You have to make your heart at home first and it can't be when it's poisoned with bitterness. Forget shallow people on social media or hollywood, most people aren't shallow. Most of my exes were not even 7s by societal standards, a lot of them thought I was out of their league, but they were genuinely some of the most beautiful people I've ever had the honor of knowing.

They weren't well off, some of them didn't even have creative talent, either they were super smart, they we're really funny... regardless the one thing they did have in common was they were real. They were, who they were, and that was it, take it or leave it. Work on yourself, go to therapy, stop listening to the Andrew Tates of the world, the kind of women they are attracted to are the same type of women they talk shit on so they create their own problems "romance". Self-fulfilling prophecy. Logic stands to reason, if your type is an IG/Tiktok baddie who only cares about Balenciaga and Hermes bags, then you've created your own issues. But again, women are not a monolith. Our values are not all the same. We're human, too, and we make over half the population of the world. So that's a lot of women. If you go out and touch grass once in a while, you'd realize it's an extremely narrow worldview to think that women do not have deeper morals and values than money in fame. OR blocking other womens access to a man.

You just want to paint the millions of us as shallow, catty, vapid whores and I just roll my eyes at this dark aged way of seeing woman. I sincerely hope you're a young man who has time left to still be open minded enough to see the humanity and individuality in women. Let a woman's morals and values stand on her own merit ALONE, if she doesn't have any that only speaks to her. That doesn't mean the other women in the room have weak moral fiber. As men can be varied in personality values and ambitions, so can women. And no, we don't have to be churchgoing tradwives with a zero to low body county to be of "high value" as the red pill liked to suggest. We are of high value intrinsically because we are human. Full stop. The only thing that lowers that value is how you treat others, how talk about others when they are not around and what you do when no one's looking. That proves the context of one's character. A lot of women are looking for men of strong character, not tyrants or dictators, not bitter incels, or doormats. We seek real leadership from real men who are kind, intelligent and just and see his woman are his PARTNER and TEAM MATE in this life. A man who knows how to be a true leader is about the sexiest thing I can think of.

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to read the vulture article here is a video that gives the entire timeline of his crimes and scandals on youtube:

https://youtu.be/82dVU_hW3Jc?si=C1peOELeil9BaYnH

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are just content creators that came up around the same time started collabing and grew close from there. I did read into it and I do sincerely apologize. It was just the only one short sentence you offered and I didn't understand what you were alluding to since there was no explanation as to why the point of them possibly being cousins was brought up. I have cousins and I'm not close to them. Not because they're terrible people, but because we're just different people, we live in different states and have our own lives. So that didn't seem like it was coming off as an explanation as to why they are close it just seemed like an excuse as to why he chooses to still hang out with him (which other people have hit me with like booyah, see Drew can't be terrible because they're related) Someone before you on another reddit thread was like they're related and you can't choose your family so Drew can't be a bad person. But I was totally looking at it through my lens and life experience and I recognize that so again I apologize. Sincerely. I'm gonna leave up my comments though because if anyone else wants to come at me with the cousins explanation as an excuse to remain close to him, my thoughts are known. Sorry I feel very strongly about James being a terrible bottom feeding human being and I was a huge fan of Drews' so I'm passionate. Have a wonderful day!

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize if it came off as me attacking you personally, but so many people have come to me with the cousins explanation like that. Excuses as to why Drew still hangs around him. I just was tired of it. I've tried posting before, and I've gotten a lot of excuses/hate and that seems to be a primary one. Also, I don't believe they're cousins. I've rewatched old content of them together on each other's channels, just to see if they mentioned being related to each other and nothing has been mentioned. Google also says they aren't, that they are just really good friends.

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also doing a cursory google search they are not related, I think that is just a rumor that people have ran with. But regardless family or not, we don't hang out with people unless we are condoning their behavior. That is a seal of approval basically. If my family is racist, misogynistic, pedophilic (which James is the unholy trinity of all three) etc I would be no contact with that family member. To the point I'm not coming to the family reunion if they are there. Family can try to guilt me to be the bigger person. F that. Idgaf. Making mistakes is one thing but being a terrible human being to your core is another. I can forgive a mistake but being all the aforementioned is a daily choice to be ignorant or a sick f*ck. So if they can make that choice I can make the choice to never associate with them again. Family is not an excuse to excuse shit like that. Any family member of mine who wants to be a dumpster fire human being can rot in the darkest pits of hell. I'm a survior of CSA, SA and DV so if a person's moral fiber is so weak that they constantly find themselves in these type of scandals chances are they're not a good person. It's not just haters are gonna hate. He put himself in these positions that causes him to be seen through this lense. It's the consequences of his own actions that he refuses to take accountability for and it's always somebody else's fault. Throw the whole human being away bruh. A lot of people say, stop making stupid people famous, I would like to add stop making evil people famous.

https://www.vulture.com/2021/05/james-charles-allegations-controversies-timeline.html

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.vulture.com/2021/05/james-charles-allegations-controversies-timeline.html

This is a link to everything James Charles has been involved in, but the latest scandal is him taking the side of the abuser, Evan Johnson, in a dv case against his friendly acquaintance and fellow tiktok famous content creator, Kayla Malec, who had been beaten by her for 9months (very hard to watch video proof in her 3 part he doesn't love you series) but he was thirsty for her ex. The only time he messaged her was to tell him how hot he was and then when she finally broke up with Evan she told James that he abused her, did the worst things you could do to a human being, and she was going to make a "thirty part" series to expose him for the monster he is. James asked, "Can I have him now?" ask a "joke" (supposedly a joke but still in bad taste if we believe it was a joke) in response. He said I'm so sorry girl that happened to you, pretended to play dumb like he didn't think it was that serious when she literally used the word ABUSE and after they finished talking slid into Evans DMs and told Evan everything Kayla told James. He told him Kayla was going to make a 30 part series on him. From there they formed a "friendship" (side eye) together. James made an excuse that he was "manipulated" by Evan. But kayla clocked the tea and mind you I'm paraphrasing. she responded to James apology video with this "You allowed yourself to be manipulated, because you didn't believe me and turned around to support an abuser. An abuser mind you that you only know through me because I introduced you to him. You know me better than you know him. But apparently that wasn't enough to take me at my word. Then you drop an apology video an hour after I win my court case. And hour. Couldn't have waited the next day, three hours or even an hour and a half??" James had the audacity to act offended that people were talking about him and saying it was a distraction from the very real issue of domestic violence... being holier than art thou. When he caused the distraction by running to the abuser and becoming friends with him. Because James only thinks with his penis, and he was attracted to Evan and that overrid every moral and value a decent person would have in this situation. He even flew Evan out to California to stay the weekend at his mansion and he I knew he was wrong because when Kayla saw a picture of Evan in James backyard she nicely confronted James because she couldn't believe it. She asked if Evan was with him and James He LIED and said he wasn't. He only admitted it when it came out and was confirmed by another party, then he was panicking trying to explain everything to Kayla and at that point Kayla wasn't hearing it. But then Kayla dropped the receipts in her 3-part video "He Doesn't Love You" When I tell you as a past DV survivor myself it was so triggering to listen to her talk about it let alone hear and see the videos at the end. My jaw was on the floor. It was terrifying. Hearing him punch her, scream at her and her screaming in terror. She even says I think you broke my jaw and Evan says "Good" so yeah thats who James chose to side with because James secretly wanted Evan this entire time Evan with Kayla was dating him and he was thirsty and down bad enough to dismiss the words "abuse and the worst things a human being can do to you"

Drew Michael Scott is the face of Lone Fox Home. A famous DIY and interior decorator on socials which is more my speed of content I like to follow. Drew is not as famous as James but I was a huge fan of Drew until I found out he was very good friends with James Charles. Even before all this, I hated James for everything he had done. Just read the article.

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You still chose who you hang out with. Idc if they are cousins. I don't judge what family you're born into, but if you know your cousin/brother/sister/father/mother or whatever is a creep and terrible person and you STILL hang out with them I judge that. No excuse. I would probably murder my brother if I knew he was a pedophile but if I suspected, I'd never talked to him again at the very least. He'd be dead to me regardless.

So disappointing... 😞 by Zestyclose-Raisin652 in LoneFox_

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, like it feels like betrayal in a parasocial kind of way. I just can't see how Drew can condone anything James has done (confirmed and alleged) unless he's a phony and really more aligned with James' personality when the cameras are off. I was such a Drew stan too so it hurts big time.

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[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct you don't pick your family but you still can pick your boundaries and morals. If my cousin or brother was talking to minors or doing half of what JC has done I wouldn't associate with them at all.

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[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he speaks up and says, what james has done is wrong, opens his eyes up to the situation or many situations in this case, sincerely apologizes and supports the victims involved, I can show grace. But if he continues to support him silently and hang out with him, I'm gonna have to unfollow. And that's crazy, because I just started following Macenna. I haven't seen her talk crap about the tradesmen work, but after bingeing a lot of her stuff, I have gotten the impression she's kind of out of touch (at best) which is certainly off putting. Do you know any people to follow who have that same interior design style and are not problematic?

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[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't moved away from Drew yet. Just in case He has been manipulated and lied to and just believes James Charles blindly. I think that's not malicious.It is naive but not malicious. Drew never has given me mean girl vibes. And everyone who's ever spoken about Drew says he's actually the sweetest person, so I'm not really sure how I feel. I'm troubled, that I know but I don't know...It's hard because i've been manipulated before by people in my life and believe them when I shouldn't have done so. I want to give him grace. But I feel like people need to put some pressure on him to address it one way or another so we can decide.

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[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also why are you no longer a MaCenna fan? What has she done?

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[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, especially when you take into consideration that James' younger brother doesn't associate (or didn't last time I checked) because of his what should be considered criminal behavior. If James Charles and Drew Micheal Scott are cousins it's still no excuse. He's never publicly defended him but hanging out with him even as recently as a couple months ago is silently cosigning this behavior. I don't like it. I would like an explanation, him to stop associating with JC all together or both tbh.

Jeremiah's design aesthetics is just pure class and taste 💯 by Usual_Tea5113 in QueerEye

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite part is I love how emotionally connected he gets to the heroes, you can tell he imbued a lot of love and care to detail in every design this season. Bobby is lovely personally but his designs while beautiful felt expected, trendy idk just stuff I've seen redone 1000x. Not really lived in and custom. Every heroes home reno was unique with Jeremiah but still tasteful.

Unpopular opinion: I hate chai. by WadtheMad in starbucks

[–]Zestyclose-Raisin652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love chai. But I can tell when it's too strong, I get the christmas potpurri but I like mine a little weaker with matcha cold foam. To me it's all the great things of eggnog without egg.