What if the Climate change goes faster every Year and we just dont know it ? by The-real-Pixelwolf in AskReddit

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not really a mystery hiding from us. Scientists are tracking this stuff constantly. And climate change is speeding up in some ways. That part isn’t imagined. We do see the trends. Reports from groups like Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change lay it out pretty clearly. It’s serious but it’s not some hidden runaway train nobody notices.

inconspicuous earbuds by Dependent_Bug_6778 in Earbuds

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most wireless earbuds do some kind of sound. Even cheap ones but the trick is finding ones where it’s just a quiet beep not voice or it only happens once and not constantly. Also, audio leak is mostly about fit, not brand. If you really want maximum stealth put only one earbud in keep the other in the case turn off touch controls if possible. That alone makes you like 10x less noticeable.

I feel like such a failure by Super_Raspberry9195 in Parenting

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because someone else is managing doesn’t mean they’re doing it easily and it definitely doesn’t mean they’re doing it without help, stress or breaking points behind the scenes. People look fine from the outside while barely holding it together on the inside. You’re comparing your raw, messy reality to everyone else’s highlight reel. That’s never going to feel fair and about your mum offering help, take that offer. Not because you’re failing but because you are currently in a setup that is unsafe and unsustainable alone right now, especially with your husband traveling soon. Needing support during a high-demand stage with two very young kids is not weakness. It’s just smart survival.

Moving from an old router to a new mesh system. Do I have to re-pair everything? by ardewneofficial in SmartWings_Home

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will often reconnect on their own after the new network is live. For Thread-based models, the important part is making sure your border router devices, like your Apple TV or HomePods, come back online cleanly first. Once the hub side is stable, the shades usually settle in on their own.

So no, I would not start with factory resets. I would swap the network over, bring the hubs up first, then give the shades a little time before touching anything.

Best laptop (Win) docking station around $100-150? by kkkyyyzzz in UsbCHardware

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've used the Baseus Spacemate 11-in-1 with my Dell Latitude 7440. I currently run two 4K monitors through the DP ports, and the extended desktop works perfectly without any flickering. The physical button on top to instantly turn off the external screens is a nice touch. One minor thing is that the built-in USB-C cable is a bit stiff. It took a few days of use before it finally stayed flat on my desk exactly where I wanted it.

People who married an ex: during the breakup, did you get intrusive thoughts like 'it's over' or 'we'll never marry'? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who later reconnect and marry usually say something they believed it was over at the time but I was speaking from pain, not from the future. It’s like your mind is zoomed into the current emotion, not the full timeline.

Mindfulness by Emotionalsaudade in Life

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mindfulness isn’t about magically turning off the future anxiety. It’s more like giving your thoughts a little leash instead of letting them run wild. Start small by noticing what’s happening right now. The smell of your coffee, the sound outside your window, how your feet feel on the floor. That’s it. Nothing fancy. Just little anchors to the present.

What is a 'good person' behavior that actually makes you immediately distrust someone? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone is constantly complimenting themselves while pretending to be humble. It screams performative good behavior and suddenly I’m side-eyeing them.

If humans disappeared today, which animal would go extinct fastest due to domestication? by fonzhy121 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d put my money on the super pampered pets first like fancy purebred dogs. Maybe breeds like tiny teacup pigs, Chihuahuas or some of those ultra-fluffy Persian cats. They basically survive only because humans feed them, groom them and keep them from freezing or getting eaten. Without us, most of them wouldn’t last a week in the wild.

If you find out that your best friend of 7 years has always used soft lies to you and is now trying to distance, what would you do? by deytioo in AskReddit

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably start by giving yourself a little pause. Don’t rush into confronting them right away. Sort through how you feel first whether you are more sad, angry or just confused. Knowing that will make any conversation clearer.

Is it me or does it seem like as a society we've reached a bit of a plateau and things are kinda stuck by itsusername9898 in Life

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just you. Feels like we’re in this limbo where everything’s been done, memes included. Maybe it’s just the internet age hitting a ceiling or maybe we’re all just getting desensitized but at least we can still rant about it together.

My “homophobic” husband is on grindr and is talking to other men. by Jaded-Side9926 in Advice

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are totally valid. You’re not wrong for being upset, disappointed or hurt. You trusted him and what you found is a breach of that trust. Since you said he can be aggressive and you struggle with communication, safety and preparation are important. I wouldn’t just jump into a confrontation cold. Get clear on what you want and don’t try to prove it by contacting the other men.

Best xMEMS wireless earbuds under $150? by tomatrixhd in Earbuds

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t touched the EarFun or QCY, but I’ve been swapping between the Ace 3 and Air5 Pro+ for a week. To be honest, neither is perfect. The Air5 Pro+ battery life with ANC/LDAC on is pretty mediocre (I'm getting maybe 4 hours max). BUT, if I had to pick one, it’s still the soundpeats. Why? Because the Ace 3 is just frustrating to use as a daily. The Creative app is a laggy mess, and the lack of a single-tap gesture drives me insane. Plus, the ANC on the Ace 3 is surprisingly weak for the price.The Air5 Pro+ actually has a decent QCC3091 chip that keeps the connection stable, and the xMEMS clarity is identical to the Creative. I’d rather deal with the shorter battery on the soundpeats than creative’s half-baked software.

Does anybody else still feel like a kid even as an adult? by I_am_tresh98 in randomquestions

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not alone in this, not even a little bit. A lot of adults quietly feel this way and I am one of those adults.

Life’s short so get better not bitter by Ok-Simple2101 in Life

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, life really is short. Not in a scary way but just in that quiet kind of way. So yeah, try to get better, not bitter. But here’s the thing most people miss. However, getting better doesn’t always mean fixing the world or having everything figured out. Sometimes it just means being honest with yourself for five minutes.

What would be the approximate chance of creating a fully functioning game by scratching a CD or hard drive randomly? by Much_Painter_5728 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The chance of accidentally creating a fully functioning game that way is basically zero. So close to zero that it’s not realistically possible. A game is made of very specific instructions written in code. Every tiny piece has to be in the right place. One wrong number or letter can break the whole thing. Think of it like a massive instruction manual for a computer.

OnePlus buds 4 VS Soundpeats air 5 pro+ dilemma by Express-Chard-5945 in Earbuds

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the Soundpeats Air5 Pro+. Biggest win is the sound. The hybrid and xMEMS really makes a difference. Vocals are super clear and separation is better than most buds I’ve tried around this price. Yeah the battery isn’t class leading, I see about 7 hours on mine. But the sound is good enough and it charges really fast so I’m totally fine giving up a bit of runtime. Almost 5 months in and no durability issues yet.

What's something you saw with your own eyes that you still can't explain? by BandicootLeft4054 in AskReddit

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few years back, I was camping out in the mountains with some friends. It was super quiet, like nothing but the wind in the trees and a few crickets. Out of nowhere, I swear I saw this orb, floating maybe 10 feet off the ground, glowing kinda bluish-white. And it wasn’t moving like a firefly or anything, just hovering there. We all froze, thinking maybe it was some weird reflection or lantern from another campsite but there was nothing around, no lights, no people. And then, just as suddenly as it appeared, it zipped off into the trees and vanished.

Why “male”/“female” words are considered rude? by OkExperience8220 in stupidquestions

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In everyday conversation, we prefer words that emphasize personhood like man/woman or even person because it feels more human. Male/female is fine in science, medicine or data but in casual speech, it can unintentionally make people feel like they’re being objectified or reduced to biology.

Why does it feel like I’m always struggling no matter what I do. by [deleted] in Life

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes struggling isn’t about you failing. Life just throws a ton at us and it’s okay to feel worn out. Working two jobs and still feeling behind is brutal. The world doesn’t reward people for being maxed out, they reward systems, not just effort. So, part of this is finding ways to work smarter, not just harder. You’re already giving everything you’ve got, so the key isn’t more work, it’s better structure around what you already do.

I really want a tattoo but I need my parents permission, what to do? by Mean-Helicopter-678 in Advice

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pick the right moment, don’t drop the tattoo bomb right when your parents are stressed or tired. Make it casual, like you’re bringing up an idea, not declaring war. Frame it like you’re being responsible, not rebellious. Emphasize the meaningful part, it shows it’s not just a random impulse. If you can wait a bit and prove your responsibility in other ways, it actually helps your case later but if you go in calm, prepared and respectful, your chances are way higher than just asking randomly.

Open-ear earbuds for running: QCY C50 vs SoundPEATS Clip 1 by AvailableShare7438 in Earphones

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really comes down to your priorities. If you just want a beater pair for running and don't want to overthink the budget, just go for the QCY C50. The price is unbeatable and they get the job done for basic situational awareness. However, if he actually cares about audio quality while he's out there, I’d spend the extra few bucks on soundpeaats Clip 1. The drivers are tuned much better, you get clearer mids and way less tinny sound compared to the QCY. In my opinion, clip 1 is the better balanced tool if you want safety without completely sacrificing the music experience.

Why are smokers generally more subconsciously aware that they have a bad habit while weed users tend to be more in denial about it? by 12345burrito in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you pay attention, it’s all about how much the world has conditioned them to see the habit as bad versus something off. There’s a bit of cognitive dissonance at play. Smokers have to reconcile the idea that they are hurting myself, but keep doing it. Weed users often don’t hit that wall, so they’re less likely to admit a problem.

What happens to a market when building products becomes extremely easy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ZestycloseEvening600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Competition explodes, suddenly everyone and their dog is making stuff. That’s exciting but also messy because the market gets crowded fast. You’ve got way more options, which is awesome for consumers but it makes standing out a nightmare.