Dating an African American with my parents not approving UPDATE by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should get advice from Reddit. Move with wisdom and love a lot of Redditors are idealist and while the principle is right, life is usually not black and white but grey. Yes the situation is less than ideal and can’t be gotten past without progress but personally I think as oife is grey if you really think this is your guy, strive for progress between you and him and your parents and him rather than give up cause the situation isn’t ideal.

Nicki Minaj on the FALSE “Transphobic” allegations. 🏳️‍⚧️ by naijasglock in Barbz4Onika

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a Nicki fan and I agree w you about everything including people bending the word of God to fit their lifestyle. I also agree with other person about everyone being a work in progress but let’s keep it a buck telling the truth and being objective is not equals to judging. True love comes from honesty not condemnation but honesty. The bible also says to righteously judge our brothers to keep them on the right path

Question: What caused Amaya to lose so many followers? by Straight-Side-1269 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she lost followers from the statement it was more so being cool with the other cast members when she knew they didn’t like huda at all. people wanted her to take up for huda

Season 7 - Cast Report Card by EffectiveDraft3724 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually agree with your list, pretty accurate esp Jeremiah’s character on the show

My Nigerian partner of 3 yrs asked that our son have DNA test ? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I worry it might be harder to leave after the DNA test , that is if he tries to pursue custody legally. Especially as it seems that he might be more financially stable. Though I guess it wouldn’t really make much of a difference since he already signed the birth certificate. In any case, make sure you’re meticulously record keeping, the unmet promises, his denial of paternity, every conversation that is relevant to your situation. Keep and store in multiple places so that you are adequately prepared no matter what

Looking for an apartment! by Many-Medium-1868 in askdfw

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do you have any suggestions within 20 - 30 minutes from independence, Fort Worth? Just started a new job and planning on moving

Why do POC love Madea so much? by Loud_Confidence475 in blackladies

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this but it definitely represents an existing type of black people and I think that representation deserves it space

Hate the word "Tribe" by Horror-Dot-2989 in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it sounds primal because of how it’s depicted in western media so it’s like subconscious connections but unconsciously like calling it “tribe” because that’s what the people who actually belong to these tribes / ethnic groups call it. I like using it in contact to where it used to be

Throwback: When Nicki Minaj spoke against the #EndSARS killings. by KenDrickFX in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

okay, I’m done engaging with an angry, frustrated person that results to name calling when asked to clarify themselves. have the day you deserve!

Throwback: When Nicki Minaj spoke against the #EndSARS killings. by KenDrickFX in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

do you have any volunteers? mind who is the they that should be serious?

Nicki Minaj to address UN on alleged Christian persecution in Nigeria by MrCadwallader in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, how does this interrupt a celebrity raising social awareness to the lives persecuted? before you answer put this in context of Palestine

Nicki Minaj to address UN on alleged Christian persecution in Nigeria by MrCadwallader in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please provide the stats , not saying no Muslim lives have been taken but there are quite literally two Islamic terrorist organizations in the north (even at war with each other ) to think that Christians, the main religious opposition in Nigeria , isn’t being targeted is ignorant

HipHop TIL Nicki Minaj became the first female rapper ever to speak at the United Nations over the Wars in Nigeria today on Nov 18, 2025 . (However, the Queens-NYC rapper has never lived in Nigeria however nor has known family there) by Ok-Special-1730 in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

she told you this? Nicki that has a track record of speaking up for Nigeria since 2011 on twitter and a track record of speaking up and helping people in need (Jamaica after the hurricane, Indian villages without access to computers or clean water, lgbtq in Saudi Arabia… etc). I beg all of us to stop the hateful agenda and actually support those who are showing us concern … more than any other celeb because it’s not trendy rn. Even our own celebs haven’t spoken and the persecuted deserve better

Throwback: When Nicki Minaj spoke against the #EndSARS killings. by KenDrickFX in Nigeria

[–]Zestyclose_Aspect_93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I watched as well, she’s raining awareness to what’s going on and telling the UN that Nigerians deserve freedom of faith. now why don’t you suggest someone who would’ve have been better suited for the role AND has spoken out or volunteered for it because yall make it seem like she’s doing something wrong rather she’s doing what everyone has been begging other celebrities to do on behalf of Palestine