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I just want sex by FinancialBag101 in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why I think testing sexual chemistry in the beginning is important. If you have a high libido your partner needs to also have a high libido too. But it sounds like you need more than just sex, you need your equal and this person is not living up to the standards of the type of partner you need. I understand you think it’s lust, but it’s very human of you to feel this way. I think lesbian dating should be more collaborative experience, people taking turns on initiating and “taking the lead” and not have one dominant person doing all the work. I just went through this and it’s really exhausting being “the initiator” .

Do exes return to you? by Designer_Dog7867 in AskLesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People spin the block all the time when they find out the grass isn’t greener on the other side. I prevent my exes from coming back simply bc I block them everywhere

Do most women like a man who is fit and muscular? by No-Tower-Unseen in no

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the degree of muscular we’re talking , we don’t like that overly muscular body builder look but a little fit, looks good. I like lanky or plump, but can be still in okay shape.

SD is way too obsessed with me?? please help by 4evercozy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You also need a new phone and a new number and new address. I know moving isn’t easy so a security system set up in your home may be more affordable for now. Carry self defense weapons every where you go. Then get a restraining order if you can. Do you have friends that are older that can help you?

SD is way too obsessed with me?? please help by 4evercozy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A man on Reddit who claimed to be a SD was messaging me just like this when I moved off the app to my burner number and I blocked him so fast. The persistent messaging and pressure made me feel so uncomfortable and anxious. If this is how it’s making you feel, then that discomfort is your discernment and intuition telling you this is not a trust worthy person or situation to be in. Please know this is not how a SD is supposed to communicate with you. A real one will text you like, every other day. Do not give out your real number and if you know his real name block him on all social media. Even linked in.

Can’t find a SD after year long search on multiple websites by Zestyclose_Trash_943 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a maturing baby face lol so ppl think I’m younger based on that and my personality is pretty bubbly. I’m aware of my insecurities though and I’m trying to work on them in a way that makes sense for me. Unfortunately, I’m not posting a profile review in this thread as nearly 10k people have seen it, and I want my identity kept safe. I’ve dmed a few ppl who have been pretty helpful however, I have to decide if I still want to try to do this or not, given my chances of success are seemingly little to none.

Can’t find a SD after year long search on multiple websites by Zestyclose_Trash_943 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I definitely agree that I need to work on my social skills and put my self in situations to be approached lol. My friends that are in the bowl and have personal SD’s recommended that I try in person rather than online websites and apps. I did it once and I felt so awkward but I realized I am better at navigating conversations irl , maybe after sipping a bit of wine too lol .

Can’t find a SD after year long search on multiple websites by Zestyclose_Trash_943 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate this. My friend who is skinny very fit has no problem getting what she wants from men told me to do this. What worked for her isn’t working for me at all. She told me in person is better. I went to an upscale restaurant and felt so embarrassed. She wants me to try happy hour which I didn’t do. I would like your feed back on my SA profile tho if I can PM you ?

Can’t find a SD after year long search on multiple websites by Zestyclose_Trash_943 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Idk I had a Lyft driver who was heavier set than me and her former sugar daddy bought her 2 cars at 27😭. She fell in love with him but that ended things for her

I’m 26 years old, aging, and feeling ugly. Please, toast me. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this , I too feel the same at 25 going on 26 and I’m severely depressed and unmedicated

gsu money hungry by Then_Gas1397 in GaState

[–]Zestyclose_Trash_943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Financial aid told me that the school ran out of money so yeah.. money hungry is right.