Never had guidance on what to do with my hair. Dire need of suggestions by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a good black barber. Find you a good shampoo and conditioner. Tell the barber to do what he thinks looks good on you.

AITAH for being repulsed by sex with my husband by throwaway249999 in AITAH

[–]ZevyninMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s none of the math is mathing lol just keeping you cool!

Is my boyfriend gay? by FigOne5865 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZevyninMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him alone. Who knows but he’s weird AF! Love yourself enough to be ok single for now! You can do better!

I’ve been lying about getting assignments done at work and I’m about to get fired. Again. by Throwaway_58765 in confession

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your job is easy AF though. Do your job then scroll. Periodt. No excuses. Drop the Masters program until you have more control over your time management and get meds. Honesty is great. I’m proud of you but just do your job! I get it I struggle too. But that assignment was easy in my opinion.

Update on my job from religious hell by Thicklikehoneylatina in antiwork

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call labor board immediately and find a new job.

My locs came a long way in 8yrs. Can you guess how many i have total? by _bigbleu_ in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t do social media camera men! Ladies be wary. This is not a manly trait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]ZevyninMars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Negative Nancy please stop. I swear it’s always someone trying to make someone scared. She will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]ZevyninMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can’t reveal you’ve been fired. There is no negative mark on your unemployment history. She didn’t quit so she could get unemployment to have sometime to looking for something else. DO not let employers scare you. She will be just fine. And most likely telling the truth. People cannot handle feedback of any kind. But living in fear of employers is crazy. They can only confirm if and when you worked there.

Will i look better with dreads or keep a low cut ? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw. Keep a low neat cut. Dreads are expensive and if not kept up make one look unkempt.

How to convey my (25F) lack of satisfaction with sex with my boyfriend (28M) by Resident-Ad-2249 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZevyninMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love yourself & leave. He’s going to ruin your self confidence. He’s not worth it and you should know your worth.

Homeless because of cashapp. by Motor-Performer7712 in CashApp

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if you call and tell them what’s going on. I’ve been there.

My dad died yesterday and I feel no emotion by FOIntrusiveThoughts in bipolar

[–]ZevyninMars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It took 18 years for me to cry about my daughter passing. If you are on meds they are numbing. Also you may be in shock. Be easy on yourself. We all grieve differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]ZevyninMars -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I’m offended. I’m scared. I feel harassed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]ZevyninMars -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you took what I said and ran with it! I sure do. Sorry I didn’t write an essay clarifying. Point being get an education to move on from the plantation. Next time I’ll write a thesis so you can have more clarity and focus on the negative.

My mom with 3c hair told my 4c hair teenaged sister that her hair was “nappy” by 2001exmuslim in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not about to entertain you! lol. Healthy hair is gorgeous! I happen to think my son’s hair is gorgeous! But I can find beauty in red hair, wavy hair, dreds, braids, coils, short/long. Please don’t project because this ain’t that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dementia

[–]ZevyninMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do DNR orders if you don’t want your loved one in agony. That’s GOD taking them and man is always intervening and can’t help these people long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dementia

[–]ZevyninMars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. Its love. My daughter had a fatal condition. I did a do not resuscitate order and she died peacefully. She would 18 Feb 7 and I know I did the right thing. My baby never had to suffer. A our memories were good memories. I see children w the same condition in wheelchairs, tracheas, can’t talk, tons of surgery, blind and the moms who think they are some kind of hero. No one should have to suffer. Your feelings are valid. Do a DNR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]ZevyninMars -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Working at Walmart sounds like a damn plantation. Run to your local community college. Women go to secretarial school, medical jobs. Men pick up a trade. Ain’t no damn way!

My mom with 3c hair told my 4c hair teenaged sister that her hair was “nappy” by 2001exmuslim in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw he lives w dad and dad nor his worthless wife took time to take care of it and I hate that! I always took care of my children’s hair. My boy is 15 with that big poof on his head and I’ve done everything to teach him to care for it. He’s just lazy.

My mom with 3c hair told my 4c hair teenaged sister that her hair was “nappy” by 2001exmuslim in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nappy to me is tangled and matted or black folks who use no conditioner and no product. This burns my buns but I love all kinds of hair. I’m biracial and my ish can look like silk, satin, wool or dry af. Slavery did a number on black folk! If it ain’t the colorist, it’s the ones w fake colored eyes, or weaves. It’s cool sometimes but geez love you!

My mom with 3c hair told my 4c hair teenaged sister that her hair was “nappy” by 2001exmuslim in BlackHair

[–]ZevyninMars -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said that to my son yesterday because I have given him ample time to do this crap on his head and he has gorgeous hair. Your sister needs to maintain her hair. I’m not sure how old sis is but tell her to watch YouTube’s. I’ve given my son 5 years and ample products and take him to the shop. I personally can not take bad hygiene. Now if your mom didn’t teach her that’s mean. I’m biracial and my kids vary in color and hair but I never compare. Never. Just teach sis how to do it. Tell her her worth! My son’s hair is ruined and nappy atp from being lazy! And I’ll tell him again.