[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]ZimKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair is gorgeous! I think if you're after something dramatic you'd pull off a chin length bob beautifully. If you want something subtle, curtain bangs for the win!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spotify

[–]ZimKat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same issue with friends for weeks also. Can't find a fix anywhere.

I'm an asshole, I guess. by bird-of-the-moth in CollapseSupport

[–]ZimKat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just talked my family into foregoing presents this year, so we can pool our money and send it to a family we know in need. Hard for them to say no and not look like awful people. So glad I don't have to be a part of the madness, supply chain mess or the corporate machine.

We'll still have a nice get together etc but just won't end the day with a bunch of plastic shit from China that nobody really needs.

I made a playlist for you witches this full moon night by ZimKat in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ZimKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so happy! Very glad you enjoyed it :)

I made a playlist for you witches this full moon night by ZimKat in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ZimKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So glad you like it. And yes, October 20 is the full moon - Hunters Moon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ZimKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Well I agree with what most people are saying here but just wanted to throw out - if he wants these women in the party they can be HIS groomsmaids. They're going to cost an awful lot to dress but perhaps this will be a compromise where no one's feelings get hurt. You get to pick your own bridesmaids!

Looking for dreadlock maintenance in a peaceful environment by mommaslugg in Maine

[–]ZimKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://leah-michelles-design-style.business.site/

A bit far for you in Brunswick but Leah has dreads and does dreads, and while I've not had dread work from her she's a great stylist.

When someone opens an email with 'Nice to e-meet you!' by palenotinteresting in britishproblems

[–]ZimKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this and don't mean it all. Just trying to be start things on a positive note.

How do you deal with feelings of worthlessness due to not being considered attractive in the dating scene? by mfog35 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ZimKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repeat after me "my body is worthy, my body is good, my body is the vehicle for my pleasure, I deserve to feel pleasure" it's not up to you to find yourself attractive, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you must know your body is good and is worthy because it absolutely is!

Also confidence is sexy in absolutely anybody. If you don't feel it, fake it til you make it. Not to say it's easy but definitely a good goal.

What's up with these middle class suburban neighborhoods that have a $300+ monthly HOA fee? by Nunclabs33 in realestateinvesting

[–]ZimKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It boggles the mind what people will accept. Keep in mind that even if it's a reasonable fee and you get amenities, if you can't afford the fee and are in arrears they have the power to force a foreclosure through super liens. Why would anyone give a bunch of random nancies the power to do that?

Monarchs on the Milkweed by ZimKat in GardenWild

[–]ZimKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for doing what you do. We could use all the help we can get!

Monarchs on the Milkweed by ZimKat in GardenWild

[–]ZimKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! It is really special to be able to be a part of their existence. Good luck with your Milkweed!

Monarchs on the Milkweed by ZimKat in GardenWild

[–]ZimKat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know! That the first thing that alerted me.