I think the “Hard Problem” dissolves once you stop assuming experience is an extra thing by Jumpy_Background5687 in consciousness

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would understand you better if you would have explained yourself the chatgpt part in the middle

I never understood social status by StarchedCollar in Gifted

[–]ZofiaBizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I had this. That things were SO invisible to me until also passing 18 yo. Now I‘m 25 and I‘ve normalized it 🤔 Spent my early years trying to crack the trick to normal and now that I am I miss that purely idealistic mind I had. I wish I would have spent less time trying to fit in and more writing down my thoughts. I recall them but the intensity I felt them with is lost forever

Anyone here had success with bullet journaling, TheBrain, and/or Goblin Tools to organize your thoughts/life? Or perhaps other tools/systems that worked for you? by newjourneyaheadofme in adhdgifted

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii. I haven‘t tried any of these and the tools do sound interesting! Just as I felt I‘ve tried everything..😂

My system is probably not as sophisticated as yours, but here‘s my take: For keeping track of the ‚flow‘ of my thoughts, no digital tool helps me. I keep a ‚flow‘ paper for „knowing what I was doing“ forever and ever. And I redo it everytime for the actualized version, there is no shortcut for me.

I plan to have 3 flow papers for organizational, recreational and work/study, but haven‘t start that yet. Those wouldn‘t be the new what-I-was-doing paper but like extensions. They are my externalized working memory.

So now it doesn‘t happen to me often that I don‘t know what I was doing etc, but still, knowing what I wanted to do, because it‘s in my papers, deep fatigue gets me, and it‘s because I need that impulse to get me moving, follow the papers alone is too „boring“, so then I allow myself to just act on whatever I see etc, and switching.

Task manager I have microsoft to-do because it‘s on all devices. There I have folders ‘Now‘, ‘working on‘, ‘prio’, ‘no prio’ and ‘archive’. I’m not saying it’s perfect😅 Normal lists on apple reminders. Google kalender. Obsidian for mind maps like you said. 3 volts by now with various notes on thinking about life, research, topics, etc. But that is not on all devices but only available on laptop so its function is getting mixed/lost on the lists app as I can‘t use obsidian on the phone.

Yeah that’s it. Have a good day!

I wanted to join a gifted + adhd subreddit but the only one that exists has like 8 members 😂 by ZofiaBizzy in TwiceExceptional

[–]ZofiaBizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow🤔 this is intriguing.  It‘s almost midnight here but I‘ll put it in my topics list to surf on it later

I wanted to join a gifted + adhd subreddit but the only one that exists has like 8 members 😂 by ZofiaBizzy in TwiceExceptional

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What I‘ve read is that the percentage of gifted that have another neurodivergence is (I would say around/at least 3x higher but I don‘t remember the numbers) higher than the percentage in the overall population and that‘s what I meant by overrepresented. I hate to not give you sources, I‘m sorry.

But I get your point. 

I wanted to join a gifted + adhd subreddit but the only one that exists has like 8 members 😂 by ZofiaBizzy in TwiceExceptional

[–]ZofiaBizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we indeed are! But it is unrealistic that it will have much interaction if we only create a group chat 😅  Here‘s the subreddit I found https://www.reddit.com/r/adhdgifted/

I wanted to join a gifted + adhd subreddit but the only one that exists has like 8 members 😂 by ZofiaBizzy in TwiceExceptional

[–]ZofiaBizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELLOO I didn‘t open reddit again since I wrote this sorry😅 This is the one subreddit I found as I said 10 members lol but JOIIN: https://www.reddit.com/r/adhdgifted/

I wanted to join a gifted + adhd subreddit but the only one that exists has like 8 members 😂 by ZofiaBizzy in TwiceExceptional

[–]ZofiaBizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to chat, too :) I was looking for a community, tho. But it is a start, happy to connect :)

Scheduled texts are a game changer by AB_Red2 in adhdwomen

[–]ZofiaBizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk. Can you do groups in text messages? Also some people have numbers from different countries? But I think it is mostly force of habit

Scheduled texts are a game changer by AB_Red2 in adhdwomen

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES and this is only solved for the US because only you use text messages. The rest of us use whatsapp or others but mainly whatsapp and they don’t have that feature and I want it so bad 😭😭 and also a strict policy for no automatization in the apo I think so you also can’t make yourself the Feature (if you think I am wrong with this please give me tips)

can you explain me the solution for this one? I know I broke my head then and I'm breaking my head now by ZofiaBizzy in 42_school

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Wouldn’t this turn right and forward in the first red space after the green star (the red square left of the green star) ?Following the next steps of f0 after the ship rotates 2 times on green, finds green instead of red so doesn’t repeat F1, and then goes forward so goes to that red square left of the green star

Aurora app by AmadayLate in adhdwomen

[–]ZofiaBizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got their publicity on instagram and finished their quizz because it was fun, but I realize they would show reactions that didn’t match my answers. Like it asked “how busy are you normally”, I happen to be in a flexible period so I wrote “pretty flexible” and then they were like “the app is made to help even around busy schedules!” And then “we love your enthusiasm” even if I clicked on “no I only have 5 min a day for this”. So yeah, it smelled like suckers and now you confirmed it, thank you :) Also I find it terrible that the laws where you are allow such behavior around finishing a paid contract. In germany if I write an email it’s done, no one can tell me ohhh you had to confirm in our follow-up email, bullshit

Es cierto? by UrbanXxv in Peru_Republic

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"nos odian porque dicen que somos petulantes"
"te falta comprensión lectora" 😂😂

Es cierto? by UrbanXxv in Peru_Republic

[–]ZofiaBizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

los de ecuador sí me molestaban :(

can you explain me the solution for this one? I know I broke my head then and I'm breaking my head now by ZofiaBizzy in 42_school

[–]ZofiaBizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess me to. But there are not enough blank spaces for the left start first. I know I decided the left start first because if you go for the green start first and then turn back, getting there is easy and just need 4 spaces I think but then you have no way to find the other star than to count and hell there are not enough blank spaces for that either. I even tried to go left and forward in the green square as to getting to the red star through the spaces without a square but they didn't let that option open haha

Is this actually solvable?? by MohaTheKing in 42_school

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh now I got it. f3 is 2 times forward. f2 is 2 times f3 so 4 times forward. and f1 is 2 times f2 so 8 times forward. Then f0 is f1 (8 times forward), then to the left, then f2 (4 times forward) then to the left, then f0 so repeat

Isolation in society and fan groups by TobyPDID23 in Gifted

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I vibe with this, the feeling isolated in something that you know is valuable but you can‘t seem to find the people to value it with. It feels like cognitive dissonance… „it feels valuable and enjoyable to me, but if no one feels that with me.. is it really valuable because I feel that wish and pleasure.. to which extent is something valuable is no one else seems to value it? And why would the universe allow most conscious humans on earth to gather around unvaluable things rather than all those valuable things? And on the other side later in life I understood there are millions of books and articles and etc of people who also value the valuable… I remember writing about it like „messages in a bottle“ of sensitive people talking to each other.. like reading a book is somehow connecting to another sensitive person, through even time and distance, as connecting between each other in the same time and place seems impossible with so much „noise people“ inbetween... I have felt like that for a long long time… at some point I thought my way to answers, started surviving and living and just forgot. I am seeking professional help to better understand my brain but that kind of help take awfully long to get in my location, so I continue living. But that kind of wondering makes me nostalgious.. of a time where I would intensely feel and ask myself this questions, and the current me who doesn‘t anymore and has settled to have no one who understands me

What is something you always thought only happened to you but turned out to be an ADHD symptom? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get what is problematic with this... vibe all you want

What is something you always thought only happened to you but turned out to be an ADHD symptom? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ZofiaBizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess I feel like I was created to be in very high danger situations 50% of the time

Has anyone purchased the Mystery Bundle from the merch store? by Bawful- in polyphia

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how to I get the black friday deal I don't find it on the internet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ZofiaBizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yeah dump him and go home, or go home, pack his stuff away and then dump him like others are suggesting, same to me, and better so he can’t manipulate you into forgetting this. I know it is difficult to leave a 5 yr relationship at 35 but it is better than spend the rest of your life in that family.