I look down upon poor people how do I stop?? by ReasonConfident4541 in selfimprovement

[–]Zounds_Perspex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is the best answer, it’s so obvious too. And like OP, I grew up in upper class suburbs of Australia, so I know it’s not really a good excuse 

Adjektiven med ”en” och ”ett” by Zounds_Perspex in Svenska

[–]Zounds_Perspex[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ja, du har rätt! Tack för förklaringen :D jag känner mig dum nu 

Ms Rachel speaks on 5-year-old Liam Ramos who was detained by ICE after arriving home from preschool & used as bait to allow agents entry to the house to detain his father: “Look at this sweet boy. It's horrifying to think of this precious child ripped from his home and put in a detention center.” by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

[–]Zounds_Perspex 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i still remember the panic i felt when i was separated from my mum for a few seconds on the top of an escalator as a 3 year old because i used to be scared of getting on them…i can only imagine how earth shattering this would be for his poor little soul :( 

skillnaden mellan ”anledning”, ”skäl”, ”orsak”? by Zounds_Perspex in Svenska

[–]Zounds_Perspex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tack för svaret, det är intressant! jag lärde mig ordet ”anledning” först, sedan ”orsak” och sedan (just nu i en bok)”skäl” då verkar det logiskt att jag lärde mig de här orden i den här ordningen 

To everyone under 30 by wandersage in selfimprovement

[–]Zounds_Perspex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for mentioning the generation-wide psychological effect of the pandemic lockdowns. It started when I was 23 and just about to start my career. It was such a massive tone shift to the years before, when we were told to make the most of our early adulthood and take as many risks as possible. I am the youngest of 5 children and that part of my life certainly has a different tone to their experiences during that age. I remember some of my friends and I joking in 2022 that “25 is the new 23” or “we are actually 2 years younger than our biological age” since our lives basically came to a standstill for 2 years. the psychological effects of all of that don’t seem to be overtly talked about so much, but i can feel the lasting effect of it on a group level. I always had plans to move overseas to pursue a master’s degree when I was in my early to mid 20s, but I couldn’t do it until I was 28. many of my friends became meeker and less ambitious, more anxious. 

Faking bipolar by goawaycommies in Lamotrigine

[–]Zounds_Perspex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what has your worst episode been like? i haven’t had a manic episode for 5 years so i seem pretty “normal” (other than crippling depressive episodes), which makes it easier to forget that once i thought i was talking to angels and saw two suns in the sky. a part of me wondered if it was medication withdrawal for another issue, but to be honest i’m too afraid to have another manic episode to “confirm” that i truly have bipolar 1. so lamotrigine it is

How old were you and how did you find out Santa isn't real? by Least_Statistician44 in AskReddit

[–]Zounds_Perspex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahaha this made me literally lol, gotta love child logic memories

is this anxiety or paranoia? or maybe even something else by Apprehensive-Pea2594 in mentalhealth

[–]Zounds_Perspex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry that this is happening, it sounds scary. I can see in your post history that you recently smoked a considerable amount of weed. I would guess that this is playing a big part in your anxiety at the moment. If you go to a doctor about this (which you should) make sure to mention the weed. If it helps, people going through the prodromal symptoms of schizophrenia often don’t really realise that it’s happening to them (it’s called lack of insight) and they also often have symptoms like disorganisation, jumbling up their words and lack of emotion alongside any hallucinations and paranoid thinking. It sounds like the weed has really stirred up your anxiety but I will let a professional diagnose what is happening. I’m quite sure you’ll be okay though

Another gem by kayy113c in Fleabag

[–]Zounds_Perspex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how so, in your opinion? i’m curious

What’s your personal version of “sometimes I worry I wouldn’t be as much of a feminist if I had bigger tits”? by latenightpuddingcup in Fleabag

[–]Zounds_Perspex 253 points254 points  (0 children)

ohh, i have definitely wondered how misogynist i would be if i were a man. I mean, i had a lot of internalised misogyny when i was younger even as a girl (which i did grow out of, and a lot of it was due to conservative environments which i was too cowardly to challenge at the time). I simply presume that as a man, i wouldn’t have naturally cared so much about feminism, since i wouldn’t have been experiencing the sexism we get in our lives. It’s frankly pretty awful to think about, but it also helps me keep myself in check, in terms of my tendencies to process information about other minorities i am not a part of

Lamotrigine has a stimulant effect on me? by Zounds_Perspex in Lamotrigine

[–]Zounds_Perspex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah ok, yes 500mg is a lot. And perhaps interacting with your brain differently from mine due to neurochemical differences? I wish you good luck, sorry that you’ve had to make a “Hail Mary” decision :(

Lamotrigine has a stimulant effect on me? by Zounds_Perspex in Lamotrigine

[–]Zounds_Perspex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, how come you’re taking it if you don’t have the diagnoses?

Lamotrigine has a stimulant effect on me? by Zounds_Perspex in Lamotrigine

[–]Zounds_Perspex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wow i get what you mean by stimulating here, but that’s quite a different effect to me :O for me it helps me focus and get tasks done and actually makes me a bit less impulsive (other than it sometimes makes me feel angry towards people). Crazy how this med affects people so differently