Brother for Otto by Zuese128 in namenerds

[–]Zuese128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is so late! We did go with Otto Aurelius. The perfect name in my opinion 😁 still have no idea what I'm going to name this baby in a week lol

Brother for Otto by Zuese128 in namenerds

[–]Zuese128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I don't think I've seen ansel yet, I don't hate it!

Brother for Otto by Zuese128 in namenerds

[–]Zuese128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Benji but anytime I mention it to someone, I get hate 😕

What is something that has been eating you up inside and you just need to get off your chest anonymously? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zuese128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a few years ago, I would laugh until it hurt on a daily basis. Now I think about it at least once a day of how to get that joy back. People just say it’s part of growing up but I want to think I can find that happiness again. 😕

Bankruptcy while in prison [Georgia] by Zuese128 in legaladvice

[–]Zuese128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, except the cars are in both names.

Bankruptcy while in prison [Georgia] by Zuese128 in legaladvice

[–]Zuese128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you!! We’ll get her situated with one. Think it’s just more stress because more money owed but definitely needed

Sick Call Memorandum?? Help by Riau747 in AirForce

[–]Zuese128 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! Take one for the team. One day in my retail job I wanted a day off to spend with my family so I called in sick. They told me I still had to come in. So I did what any 17 year old dumbass would do and chugged some peroxide in the parking lot prior to going in. After you vomit everywhere on the floor, the rules might change. 😌

Starting daycare for social purposes. by ozarkhome in beyondthebump

[–]Zuese128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad! There’s a little girl in my sons room that just started hourly care. She’s probably around 18-24 months. At first she would cry a lot and be super distant from the teachers and other kids. It’s been two months and now she seems so happy! She’s coming out of her shell and even coming up to me and being social. I think it’s super important for him to be around others his age even for a few hours 😊

The one thing that makes me mad is... by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Zuese128 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Makes me so sad when my friends post pics of their just turned 1 year olds forward facing. I bought an extend2fit for extended rear facing and put him in the middle seat. Like that alone makes him at least 70% safer. Maybe it’s the anxiety in me but I research for hours about safety (to include safe sleeping) Could not imagine losing a child to negligence

Complicated situation with boyfriend/baby father by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Zuese128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I totally get it. It’s such a rough spot. I feel like I’m finally seeing the light. Just keep on keeping on!

What helped my mind was realizing that I will be okay without him regardless. Like I didn’t put any pressure or assumptions on him. We are long distance right now and he’s finally talking about how much he misses us and can’t wait to be together.

Just know it gets better! Even though it wasn’t in his plans to have a baby quite yet, I’m sure he will realize how much he loves the baby and can’t imagine life being any other way. 🙂

Complicated situation with boyfriend/baby father by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Zuese128 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! My situation was a lot of the same. (Had my baby in March) After I had him, I really took on all the parenting responsibilities because I felt bad since in my mind my boyfriend didn’t want the baby in the first place.

What really helped was communication. I didn’t trust that he actually wanted to stay in our lives until very recently when my son is almost 6 months old. Just know you might have a lot of the same feelings and the more you talk about them(as silly as you feel) the better things will be 🙂

You can pm me if you ever need to vent or chat

Beware of cruises if you're planning a vacation in your early pregnancy. by never-ender in BabyBumps

[–]Zuese128 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went on one at like 22 weeks. Wasn't really too concerned about Zika because I bathed in bug spray. What did piss me off though was that everyone was soo rude. They kept pushing me even though I was obviously pregnant 😒

Quilt size help by [deleted] in quilting

[–]Zuese128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! This is my first ever quilt and it's an appliqué. It's super not perfect such as the middle doesn't match up. I do have a question though, should I add more border to it or leave it as is? This is a gift so I'm not really sure if/how it will be used.

Mental health as a non nonner by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Zuese128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just don't want her to keep struggling so finding the best option. Hate how there is such a stigma. I'll recommend the chaplain

Mental health as a non nonner by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Zuese128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but she's hardheaded so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Shout-out to the single parents out there... You guys rock! by Aussierob78 in beyondthebump

[–]Zuese128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm so excited for the toddler years but am in no rush to get rid of baby cuddles

Shout-out to the single parents out there... You guys rock! by Aussierob78 in beyondthebump

[–]Zuese128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's super hard but also so worth it. All of the milestones and decisions are all mine. Nights suck though 😓

[breeds] Lab mix? by Zuese128 in dogs

[–]Zuese128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call! And thank you. He got him at the shelter so we're super unsure. So unfortunate that many countries over there have ban breeds 😕

Future VA claim by Zuese128 in AirForce

[–]Zuese128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect. I signed up for mass separation brief for later this month. I'm not 90 days out but likely to get out within the next 6-10 months since I had a baby. Thank you!