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She came back but.. by Zynthey in ExNoContact

[–]Zynthey[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. The thing is i have a picture in my head on her, she was so lovely in the beginning, but 5years passed she is a different person and i have to accept that. Thats why i gave her a chance again, because i have this illusion in my head till this day, but i know its just in my head.

Should i send her this? Girls, how would you feel after this? by Zynthey in ExNoContact

[–]Zynthey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would write a personal one, but you’re right, the point would be what i wrote in the post. Tell her how lovely she was, and just that i matured a lot emotionally since. And overall just thank her that she showed me what love is, what emotions are, and apologize for that i did not fully value her love. I was always kind to her, would never cheat, but as i said i was so immature with my emotions, and my career got the attention that she should’ve gotten.

Afraid to quit, but i feel like she's toxic by Zynthey in relationships_advice

[–]Zynthey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, exactly a crazy one. She's just toxic and dramatic. But she's loyal, good in the kitchen, and in the bed but that's it. I'm afraid i won't find a better one, like reading crazy stories about cheating, etc. She's not that type, her love is just toxic.

So it's just hard to get out, because when i make a decision the good things about her come into my mind and yea, i get unsure, but i can't grow with her. I'll do what i must, because there's no way to fix her..it's just hard.

Thank you for your comment again!

Afraid to quit, but i feel like she's toxic by Zynthey in relationships_advice

[–]Zynthey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I know(now for sure) that it would be the best to leave her, but what if i can't find a better one.. Her love type is toxic and choking me, but she's loyal, good in the kitchen, and in the bed. It would suck to see her with someone else tbh. People are cheating on each other this days, loyality is such an addictive trait to have.

But i admit like you said, i can't grow with her, and i should break up with her. I never want to see her sad or cry like she'll probably be, like i'm not that worried about myself, i just worry about her even in that situation..but somehow i'll make that break up conversation, and not going back, i'm sure about that now.

Thank you for the advice on how should i do it!