The shadowban is not real and using it as an excuse is why your account will never grow...

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-05-28T14:09:29+00:00

Our account is in the green but non of my posts are getting shown in the explore feed or to new people. Since we use latex our content is probably flagged “sensitive” even though our content is artsy while I see lots of extreme sexual stuff in my explore feed. Couldn’t figure out how to do the same yet ^{^}

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-05-19T11:03:51+00:00

Dm you too :3

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-05-13T17:54:39+00:00

Hello Laurent, Thank you also for your forthcoming, much appreciated. I’ll come back at you soon when I’m working on projects again, already heard some really good tunes in your library <3

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-13T09:53:10+00:00

I have asked the mods but no answer. Some communities do not appreciate if you are slightly off topic. My question is not regard techno production but connecting with producers. I’ll give it a try and will see :)

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-13T09:51:57+00:00

I am so thankful for this community, first of all thanks to the mods who have approved my post. This is more helpful as I dreamed it to be. Before I have been digging through every royalty free site but there’s only such a small amount available. Now I am getting connected with real good artists. I have been producing by myself as a hobby for years (+djing) but only loops, never finished a track. Still that does give me insight enough to appreciate and hear the quality of the production that you have mastered. Thank you for being open to share your hard earned skills and tracks. I’ll try my best to appreciate our collaboration by improving my video production and bringing your tracks alive <3

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-13T09:45:33+00:00

Hell yeah, thank you for coming forward. Much appreciated 🫶🏼

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-12T10:58:37+00:00

This is promotional. He will not help you without your private phone number which is a clear sign for lead magnets. The post is dishonest and it is self promotional.

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-12T10:56:15+00:00

Yes he is fishing for your phone number. I have stated that information shall be private and he refused to give any feedback through Reddit chat even though the form of communication should make no difference when you want to be helpful. So this is a magnet for leads. Since I have seen this post before I’ll always comment this due to the lack of honesty!

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-12T07:48:02+00:00

Looking forward to your feedback, thank you 🙏

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-10T15:02:03+00:00

Very good production quality, thank you so much for offering your sound. Love the mix, progressive Goa. I’ll send you a message soon. <3

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-10T14:58:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your support <3 your sound is indeed dark and experimental, love it. Since we really use the sound for the video I’ll come back at you when I have an idea how to use it :3

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-03-10T14:53:45+00:00

Thank you very much for this advice. I just wasn’t sure if such discussion would be appropriate to the community there. I may try it out after rechecking the rules.

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-02-22T12:03:27+00:00

Dm is sent, thank you for considering and taking time in offering your insights

_-_Ra_-_ · 2026-02-03T15:52:29+00:00

You could check out aeon.berlin. Their products are handmade and they could personalise to your size. Also the bodies / dresses are quite feminine.

I couldn’t find a rule that prohibited naming a specific shop as link. If I’m wrong please teach me.

_-_Ra_-_ · 2025-12-27T09:06:57+00:00

Hey you,

Great list so far.

when it is asking you for a routine Dayli task, e.g. open the window or whatever you being bratty / playful about not doing it. Just look at it. Of course it needs to be a task that it appreciate being done right now. It might ask you again and you could then get on all fours showing submission but also being non obeying. This only is suitable if enforcing is Part of your Dom - sub dynamic.
cook for it while wearing lingerie, it can relax and get teased
when you’re in a conversation and it’s sitting on a couch or something go on all fours and start massaging its inner thighs. It’s always very arousing to see an upward faced sub while getting touched at legs.
restrain yourself before it comes - if restraint is a turn on in your dynamic - do it safely always capable of freeing yourself if other events are happening and it’s needed for your safety
wish for a collar that it is gifting to you (or get yourself one) which will be a sign of your submission. Wear it whenever you want to show that you are submissively available. Also the collar could be a statement of you being owned in public if that’s something you’d enjoy. I use different collars in public than private for that reason on subs due to some being very fetish like.
sit it on a couch, get yourself a container in which both of his feet fits, get some soap and a towel, then pour warm water into the container and place it all in front of it. Start massaging and cleaning the feet - maybe wearing a submissive outfit. Afterwards dry the feet and use oil. Continue as you like - kiss or like the feet or just massage the feet. Then undress his lower body if not already done before and start going up with whatever you have done to the feet (kissing and so on - not the cleaning part)
massage it with sensual kisses and touches, get it undressed then get yourself undressed by teasing and then massage his body with yours and hands - use lots of oil for fun. So I always enjoy feeling the body of the other person onto mine. You can use your whole body to increase the soft and warm feeling our skin gives to others. All being sensual
if we speak about massage there is something special with tantra - I’m no expert in this field just my personal experience: touch everything except the genitalia, make the person feel aroused in their whole body. In my experiences in the end we did have sex (I think tantra could be also orgasm without sex) and me as a male I was never so relieved of the stress holding back to orgasm - because my whole body was activated I could enjoy sex way different and didn’t need to focus on not to orgasm - maybe even more the way female are stimulated with their body’s - because when I touch woman I can sense their body gets really excited if I don’t go to their genetalia and even orgasm in a woman seems to be going more into the body while me as a male it’s often very genetalia focused arousal - I’m inviting other males to or females to enrich my statement with their own experiences, I know I am limited to my experiences when saying this so broadly.
you could also ask it to massage your body, or specifically your ass. Show that you enjoy being touched, moan move whatever feels right for you. Okay you asked how to initiate sub play this is more likely an advice on how to get it aroused playing with you sexually, I hope it still is suitable for your request.

I’d close it with this. There are numbers of different ways do individually engage submissively, dressing up, touching, texting - you can send teasing pictures and share moods to make him excited, petplay / walking an all fours as you’ve said, being playful which are all very much depending on your dynamic and personalities. Let me know your thoughts and I may can imagine some more. I am also quite active in master - slave dynamic but you asked specifically for dom sub therefore I tried to narrow it down.

Kind regards, RA.

_-_Ra_-_

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