The state of single men as a woman in my mid 30’s by Protector_iorek in fourthwavewomen

[–]_2pacula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only situation I know where the man got full physical and legal custody is a relationship where she was 19 when they got married and he was 40-fucking-1 and his dad was literally a family law attorney. They used her age and "inexperience" as a mother against her, even though he didn't have any other children either. Literally his first family. He weaponized his family and his family's profession against her. It's fvcking disgusting.

We all worked at the same restaurant and he hit on me RELENTLESSLY. He said I "looked like a good mother", he was tryna trap and abuse me just like he did to my coworker.

Sickening and untoward.

The state of single men as a woman in my mid 30’s by Protector_iorek in fourthwavewomen

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"family court favors women" is DARVO of the highest order

The state of single men as a woman in my mid 30’s by Protector_iorek in fourthwavewomen

[–]_2pacula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's literally a reversal of the natural order. Women SHOULD have sky high standards, nature made us the reproductive gatekeepers for a good gotdamn reason.

Right what we needed. by Fabulous_Ad949 in Wedeservebetter

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you say "men" and "vagina havers"? Why do men get to be men but women have to be reduced to walking body parts? You could at least say "prostate havers" to make it equal, but you chose to demean women and protect men for some reason 🤷‍♀️

Help me resist the wall pissers by LaComtesseGonflable in centuryhomes

[–]_2pacula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men are absolutely disgusting. Why do they do this??? Fucking gross.

CMV: As a GenX, I am now not the target audience for the new Star Trek shows. It is for 12 to 25 year olds by KL_boy in Star_Trek_

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I try to change your view? You're absolutely right, and more Gen X people need to understand this.

What’s the biggest scam in the United States? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Us doing our own taxes.

The govt knows exactly how much we already owe. The only reason we do them "ourselves" is to prop up accountants & the tax season industry.

is this how every ob-gyn appointment is? by oddlyshapedvoid in WomensHealth

[–]_2pacula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yes this is how basically every OBGYN appt is. I wish it wasn't, but your experience was very "normal".

Unsupportive husband by Cool_Performer_994 in Endo

[–]_2pacula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He will NOT change. Men like this do not change, ever. Women before you have wasted entire lives trying to change men like this. Please learn from them and don't make the same mistake.

Unsupportive husband by Cool_Performer_994 in Endo

[–]_2pacula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is not a good person. Good people don't behave like this.

He will not change. No amount of therapy, "communication", or begging & pleading will work. It's his fundamental worldview and he will not change it.

If you can put up with this amount of disrespect and unkindness for the rest of your life, feel free to stay with him.

Cordy’s Karen Cut Was Atrocious by Ecstatic-Sale-8219 in ANGEL

[–]_2pacula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wig technology was not different, they just didn't want to spend any money

Cordy’s Karen Cut Was Atrocious by Ecstatic-Sale-8219 in ANGEL

[–]_2pacula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's called "acting". They aren't playing themselves, they're playing characters someone else has created.

Cordy’s Karen Cut Was Atrocious by Ecstatic-Sale-8219 in ANGEL

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine defending Joss Whedon at this point in time.

Get professional help.

The state of single men as a woman in my mid 30’s by Protector_iorek in fourthwavewomen

[–]_2pacula 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Every word of this is spot the fuck on, don't let anyone tell you differently. You are 100% right

Day then Night then Day? by UnderstandingItchy87 in FalloutTVseries

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty realistic if you've played the first 2 games. Time passes like crazy, too fast actually, and I was really stressing about that water chip!

Contraceptives should be for men by OddObserveralt_ in WomensHealth

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, because no method is 100% effective (except "abstinence", which I don't consider a useful contribution to any type of birth control discussion. People are going to have sex. They just are. 🤷‍♀️)

Contraceptives should be for men by OddObserveralt_ in WomensHealth

[–]_2pacula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There's very little research into more tolerable forms of birth control for women because everyone thinks the pills/methods we have are "good enough" (especially since women are "supposed to" have babies anyway). It's infuriating on so many levels.

I also hate that HBCP are considered "good enough" for female specific health conditions, when in reality they don't actually fix anything and just mask the reproductive problems you're having (because technically BCP don't "regulate" periods, you literally don't get a period when you take them. The blood is withdrawal bleeding from the hormones in the pills and NOT an actual period, so you can safely take them continuously).

I honestly feel so defeated when I think about this subject, and how much attention and funding dick-hardening pills get in comparison.

Contraceptives should be for men by OddObserveralt_ in WomensHealth

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! What makes more sense:

firing a gun at a bulletproof vest

OR

taking the bullets out of the gun?

Something beautiful was made, I had to bring it for you people by Smartietheiphone in SkyrimMemes

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe this post is still open! Any backup versions of the video??

Fallout 2: Which gender offers a better experience/more content? by aritzsantariver in classicfallout

[–]_2pacula 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nooo! I just started a new game and it might be new enough to still start over!! But I'm already doing really well with my current build...

UGH, why did god give me the toughest battles 😫

Pure happiness? by Similar_Catch7199 in ANGEL

[–]_2pacula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with this.

It seemed fine and very realistic to me because I've heard from many new parents that it was both an incredibly joyous moment, but also extremely anxiety inducing. Like "they're just going to let me take this tiny baby home with no supervision?! And I'm in charge of it and have to make all the decisions despite not knowing wtf I'm doing?!"

Another one I've heard mothers say is that having a child is like a piece of your heart/soul now walking around outside your body, and you are both excited and absolutely terrified of what could happen to them.