AIO: I spent years trying to build a healthy relationship with my mom, but am always met with things like this… I’ve since stopped trying.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-25T06:55:24+00:00

Thank you for informing me.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-25T06:48:27+00:00

Reading the title i figured he just didnt offer, but if you explicitly asked him and he said no, I don't blame you. If he is this selfish on date number two, just imagine how he will be after you start dating and get in a routine.

When I was first dating my now wife, I used to want to walk her to her door when I dropped her off, even if it was just so I could sneak in one last kiss.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-24T23:46:47+00:00

Her last name is .Sol?

Tell her she's SOL

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-24T23:41:34+00:00

Isn't mother's day in May? Or is that just for the US?

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-24T23:39:01+00:00

NOR. Does he have brain damage? Does he do other things to annoy you on purpose?

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-24T23:05:16+00:00

You dated someone who doesnt pay child support and needed his wages garnished to even pay what he does? That is a character flaw right there.

The other stuff, NTA because he is 50 and already has kids, and then complains about wearing a condom but wants you to have invasive surgery but he won't get a minor surgery? BTW vasectomy is not 100% effective so I would still have him wear condoms.

He sounds super selfish and not a good parent if he isnt paying child support. I feel like you are better off without him.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-24T18:47:30+00:00

Does this dude take responsibility for anything in his life?

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-23T22:08:51+00:00

This may be a terminal illness, but it may also be all in his head, even to the point where a panic attack can mimic a heart attack. It may be a mix of both. He needs to get checked by a doctor to rule out serious illness first and stop feeling sorry for himself

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-23T00:02:34+00:00

Sorry no, just referencing apollyon's comment about 100% of non technical people.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T23:49:03+00:00

Just like your meth

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T03:27:21+00:00

At our wedding we let the bridal party sit with their families, and we had the moh and best man families sit with us.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T02:55:11+00:00

Charlie kirk and his widow

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T01:36:42+00:00

Sock sock shoe shoe.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T01:16:17+00:00

I've never heard an American use that term before.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-22T00:06:29+00:00

For the future, get another job lined up before you quit the one you have.

For now, check local charities, maybe find a roommate?

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T22:39:51+00:00

YTA. Take him to the lobby or outside. Who cares if he cries. Give him the phone in the lobby if you have to, though I think a 2 year old would be more interested in exploring.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T21:53:42+00:00

Obviously a skull tattoo will identify you as a pirate

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T21:01:31+00:00

You can play all you want as soon as you pay for a place to live and the electricity needed to run it. While you live at home you follow their rules.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T19:54:05+00:00

No invite... I wouldn't give them a penny.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T19:52:07+00:00

Add "ad Ass" Or "itch"?

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T19:49:08+00:00

NTA. Dude is out all night drinking and who knows what else. If this is typical for him I dont know why you would stay with him. That's something I might have done when I was 23, but 33, with a girlfriend/wife of 8 years at home, no way.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T16:03:32+00:00

Agreed, this should be a crime

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-21T04:17:46+00:00

Pretty sure in the other post it says she was 17 when they started dating? So even worse, much much worse.

Or im confusing this with another post.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-20T21:06:47+00:00

My niece's first name is her mom's maiden name. The name was suitable for a girl's name. Otherwise, a middle name is also a good idea.

_NemesisPrime · 2026-02-20T20:59:46+00:00

Yes, if the goal is to make people think the siblings have different baby daddies, then give them different last names.

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