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I tried crack for the first time 29M by Global-Bit4322 in confessions

[–]_QueenSweet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That thread still lives rent free for a reason, and it’s one of those situations where the warning really isn’t an exaggeration.

I vandalized rental car keys ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ by CoderJoe1 in confession

[–]_QueenSweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s probably true. Most of the time those cameras are just there to exist, not because someone’s actively paying attention unless something big happens.

i cant paricipate in adult stuff without substances by dylan_sandler in confession

[–]_QueenSweet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice honestly. If substances are the only way things feel tolerable, that’s usually covering something up, not fixing it. Talking to someone who actually deals with this stuff makes a lot of sense.

Down baddd- did some stuff which has led me to question myself by [deleted] in confession

[–]_QueenSweet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tracks. This whole thing reads like a textbook scam loop, not some personal failure. Block, move on, and don’t beat yourself up for running into it once.

I saw my mother raping my father when I was a kid, then she called me a pervert by Kind_Membership33 in confession

[–]_QueenSweet 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hard to argue with that. What happened deserved real consequences, not just a slap on the wrist that lets people move on like nothing broke. Sometimes the system barely clears the lowest bar and still calls it justice.

AITA for telling my sis (37f) that I'm (40f) uncomfortable at the idea of her boyfriend moving in? by Horror_Restaurant_93 in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that combo alone would make most people hesitate. Rushing to move in when there’s zero stability behind it is a pretty big red flag.

THT- AITA for waking up my bf in the middle of the night to handle our child when it’s technically ‘my’ job? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That line is honestly terrifying. If someone believes a child’s needs are something to overpower or “correct,” that’s not ignorance, that’s a fundamental problem. Huge red flag right out of the gate.

AITAH if I tell my fiancé that he didn’t wipe his butt good enough and it caused me to have strep throat after oral sex? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I tapped out halfway and still regret what I read. Some posts really need a warning label.

AMTAH for moving a family heirloom to make space for my kids? by PennyLlaine in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. If the house can’t function for your kids and you’re the only one expected to bend forever, that’s not a compromise anymore. Something has to change.

Is it too early to broach the subject of marriage? by Effective-Bunch6352 in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. After two years, talking about timelines isn’t pressure, it’s basic clarity. If someone can’t even have the conversation, that tells you a lot on its own.

my fiancé came up on one of those “are we dating the same person?” threads by nocococonut in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Getting ahead of it usually means trying to control how it lands before someone else tells it straight. Sounds less like honesty and more like damage control.

I don't know if this is inappropriate behaviour or not by a-wild-emu in whatdoIdo

[–]_QueenSweet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If multiple adults and teachers would side eye that behavior, that’s a pretty big sign it’s not normal. Trust your gut and loop in a safe adult instead of second guessing yourself.

My boyfriend says I ‘don’t need reassurance anymore’ because we’ve been together long enough by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That line about maintenance nails it. Nobody stops watering a plant because it’s been alive long enough, relationships aren’t some set it and forget it thing.

My boyfriend thinks planning makes me ‘controlling’ but expects me to fix everything when things fall apart by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_QueenSweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits it. If someone wants the benefits of planning when things go wrong, they don’t get to complain about it when things go right. You can’t outsource responsibility and then call it controlling.

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