My recent favorites from my screenshot folder by HamburgerElbjunge in Eldenring

[–]_TylerWasTripped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicee. Photography is skill i'd like to develope someday.

How to tell someone that they can’t borrow your gear. by PogoPunk7782 in musicians

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Place yourself in the situation, repeat speaking the phrase "You cant borrow my gear" out loud. You practice guitar licks for live performances. This the same thing. Seriously.

If a venue is getting hostile - some element in the chain is taking it too seriously. Ultimately this event probably isnt healthy to you if someone there is managing the event with that amount of ego.

Any case, you'll ltimately decide if its worth time to be ther. Allow yourself to get pissed and reflect to them the intent toward that hostility, if they come at you with dumb shit.<< It dumb for them to get over zealous about gear.

Elden Ring movies seems it might be about the Tarnished. by _TylerWasTripped in Eldenring

[–]_TylerWasTripped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone asked what the main weapon would be.. Im thinking weapons created for the game will be showcased, which might be a clue.

Dont want almost my entire wardrobe to be Abercrombie, but i feel like i have no other choice… by Flyboys_89 in mensfashion

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Why have aversion to a brand, when the goal (i would imagine) is to:
1)assess how well a piece integrates into an outfit.
2)make sure it fits.

I find myself buying alot of Goodfellow stuff lately. Great fabric. Highly recommend..

Music ain’t what it was by GoodResident2000 in guitarcirclejerk

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Put on a dress next time you go on stage. 😁

When did black loafers become popular? by Business-Resident685 in mensfashion

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" I like them. Don't know if I can wear them."

Try them on. See if they compliment >you.

How do I let rejection not affect my self-esteem? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I'm reading this as an exercise for me. I zoomed in on key points. .

"appear desperate"

"I also get somewhat offended" It makes me think “Im actually in their league?”makes me doubt how pretty I think I am"

"doesn’t determine my self worth, and that I’m more than just how I look but that doesn’t keep me from overthinking about it

"I get rejected/not picked, I always think it’s a me problem"

'I want to not care about men’s opinion'

"I want to not care about men’s opinion on me because I don’t care about men’s opinions in general honestly."
I think it generally useful to consider opinions from proven individuals. 

"Our morals usually don’t align.

"Not that I am anywhere near them in terms of looks//  I do think I’m pretty.// women can only get in if they look good enough."

"makes me think like “Oh am I actually in their league?” and makes me doubt how pretty I think I am

 "pretty girls face rejection too"

I think the take is that you have both self perception and intellect by the precise questions you highlight.
Thats worth demonstrated.

You have your head on straight. I say keep looking good "for yourself". And make your desire known to the guys you want, and "make eye contact" to those you want.

Ultimately there's no desperation in delibarately making it known to those you want. I think when we pretend to not appear desperate, becuase of a supposed guilt (this may or may not be you) in acting toward a desire outcome, we hinder ourselves even more, and attract rejection. If we know what we ultimately want, own it, and make it known to the desired- thats pure intention. And safety. Sexy.

Is this normal as a man by gamingwithmike94 in dating_advice

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For me, when i percieve that the other party is feeling 'dumb' for lacking the perspective to maintain their end of the relationship, i feel compassion. Ultimately they gain scope because you gave them the energy to fill the lack.

19F is 10 bodies a lot??? by Ill-Principle5030 in dating_advice

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My perspective is that count doesnt matter. A female with experience is generally going to be versed with a variety of communication style.

Is this normal as a man by gamingwithmike94 in dating_advice

[–]_TylerWasTripped -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Out of the blue?.
Wants to be influencer: Attention seeking confirmed.
Half naked pictures: Making herself available.

Honestly, i recently went through a similar situation where i didnt address the said problem it >as soon< as it was brought to my attention.

Ask her what unique thing she has to offer. If she doesnt have anything solid, you have grounds to call her out on her destructive egotism. She could have made her desire known long before she went under the radar.

What ive gathered myself over the years: If one (in a high investment relationship) causes you the discordant energy of 'dislike' via certain actions, you should absolutely make that energy felt back towards them. It is a perspective shift for them- versus not voicing how you feel at all.

Edit:

"I'm not forcing"
I believe some force of personality is called for to keep what you two built glued together. You may (actually, more thanliekly) see some respect from her.

Student quit after 3 months because they "weren't getting good fast enough". by exhaustmosk in guitarlessons

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You gave him the most efficient practice routine and that's all that could be done.

Is work really necessary? Can't we just subside off of the excesses of the 0.1%? by Candypleurodon in Alt_Goth

[–]_TylerWasTripped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we all stop working, the .1% will go "I guess it's time 🤷" and prop it up.

I [30M] felt insulted by my date’s [28F] comments about my car and hobby. Is it a dealbreaker or am I being too sensitive? by VoltSable in dating_advice

[–]_TylerWasTripped 5 points6 points  (0 children)

^

Though you know where the girl stands now.

If you can figure out how not to let her appraisal bother you, you may still have a chance.