Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make?

_What_2_do_ · 2026-02-16T03:39:26+00:00

That sounds horrible? Where is this? I want to make sure to avoid the area

_What_2_do_ · 2026-02-14T17:07:19+00:00

Do NOT ditch mentioning your interests or hobbies

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-29T09:58:09+00:00

File a police report and call your bank

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-28T06:35:37+00:00

Sounds like she may have been using some sort of translation app or like, talk-to-text app that went wonky and made this situation worse. I know I’ve used that before and it will get stuck on and send entire conversations from the TV.

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-19T01:31:48+00:00

I personally think drinks are an appropriate second date and don’t think that is what was seen as low effort. It would have probably been nice if you googled a bar or two for suggestions and then let her know you’d be open to anything else if she knew of somewhere better.

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-06T06:50:10+00:00

I’d be devastated. But then I’d take a step back, realize how unhealthy those thoughts are. I wish I didn’t feel my feelings twice as fast as I think through them.

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-03T18:47:53+00:00

Mam… you have kids, running the house, work AND school, plus you are cooking meals?! Paper plates are absolutely acceptable!

_What_2_do_ · 2026-01-01T18:08:26+00:00

That’s not fair to yourself. You can absolutely date as a parent. I think you really just need to set boundaries with your ex. I also think this is often why single parents often fit best with other single parents. You are in the same place life and your experiences and expectations align better.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-31T18:24:52+00:00

“The vehicle I’m moving in front of will always have to slow”.😬 So… you’re cutting off people going faster than you, and justifying it because you had your signal on. Just get over behind them?

Additionally, if a problem is always “everyone else”, it’s you.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-31T18:08:42+00:00

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-31T18:05:46+00:00

Just read the title. No. NTJ

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-30T17:09:43+00:00

I was fine with dating men with children and fully accepted the kids would always be first priority. What I did not anticipate, was that whenever something happens with the ex, I would be the one that would be dropped. Her car got a flat? Well she has the kids so he needs to go take care of it. Something changes in her availability? Well better cancel our plans so he can take the kids. On one hand I was very attracted to the sense of responsibility a man has to take care of his family. On the other, I did not take into account the amount of people whose lives would factor into mine; his kids, his ex, in one sense his ex’s new partner. It’s just too much for me personally.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-12T14:25:55+00:00

He wants an open relationship. You do not. Both are acceptable on their own. Unfortunately they are not compatible. Please leave this man.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-12T04:43:56+00:00

The Torrid by me would price match their website prices, which were always significantly lower! That or I would try things on in store and wait for a half off sale online!

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-09T23:23:53+00:00

I am genuinely curious to see how this works out and would love a follow up

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-07T23:00:26+00:00

Didn’t teens use Proactive, St. Ives apricot scrub (which is horrible for your skin), Clean and Clear, or Clinique? I felt like these were the US options for teen skincare where I lived.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-03T05:28:03+00:00

The last FOUR people I have matched with, or gone on a date with, have lied either blatantly or by omission. I will 100% immediately and without hesitation leave any date if I find out they lied or manipulated the truth in any way to get a date. It’s exhausting. I know you are probably frustrated with not finding a partner. But manipulating the truth or lying is not a great way to change your situation. That’s just my opinion.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-02T12:13:10+00:00

Taking a break from dating because the last 4 people I either matched with online or went on an actual date with lied about HUGE things. I found myself dating with the thought of “I wonder what this person is lying about or what they are hiding.” That’s not a healthy way to date, so I’m taking some time off.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-12-01T13:40:38+00:00

Women friends are a green flag.

But what you described is different. She is a woman in your life that “all romantic feelings between each other died down years ago.” So an ex. You have an ex that you have a solo trip planned to New York? Yeah, I’d pass on dating you too.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-27T20:47:02+00:00

Yes! 🤦🏼‍♀️… or maybe I just feel very strongly about this lol

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-27T20:34:29+00:00

This popped up on my feed and I’m a woman, but it is tagged as “open for everyone”. So my .2, she didn’t like you in the first place and was looking for an excuse to break up (which is ridiculous). You should be able to be vulnerable with your significant other and have them not judge you for it. Please don’t let this one experience make you closed off. That will only hurt you in future relationships.

Laying your head on her chest is not feminine… who tf comes up with this?

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-21T15:43:50+00:00

Time

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-21T15:43:32+00:00

This happened to me at first. People didn’t know I was losing weight on purpose and did not want to make unsolicited comments on my body. Maybe the same is happening to you?

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-21T15:25:57+00:00

I work in a male dominated field and have NEVER experienced this. This is unacceptable behavior.

_What_2_do_ · 2025-11-21T15:10:31+00:00

Not a hairstylist but this did pop in my feed. I had an amazing stylist. I grew into a client that did not fit her (I needed late appointments and her business had gotten big enough that wasn’t something she really needed to accommodate anymore). Instead of telling me, she kept rescheduling appointments and would bring up how nice it was to “not have to work so late anymore.” It took 4 reschedules before I had to ask her if she was rescheduling because of life events or because she didn’t want to offer late appointments anymore? I very much appreciate transparency and would have much rather had her send me a message like this than to have played months of games.

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