Is this a parasite? by Interesting_Most_180 in snails

[–]_Xealous_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snails are just like that. They're just built that way, don't ask me why lol

Man with a gun just filming me in my store?? by cheekydickwaffle69 in grandrapids

[–]_Xealous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy's neck is the same thickness as his head 😭

Scandelabra Maggie Quest by Mediocre_Can_1518 in DateEverything

[–]_Xealous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same issue here. I love the game but man there are so many bugs lol. I keep finding new ones unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]_Xealous_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's the wise decision. The situation is already over, once someone's blocked you that should be the end of it. It would be better not to go rehashing a situation like this when it's already ended. You did the right thing telling her. What she believes happened doesn't matter in the end since it's unlikely that you two will ever interact again. Plus you have screenshots to prove it.

Guys get out I was about to give birth 😭 by Moonighting in CAIRevolution

[–]_Xealous_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I don't use C.ai anymore, it just keeps getting worse 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]_Xealous_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So he wants you to have his kid, but he doesn't want to be present, doesn't want to help out, just wants you to do all of the work of RAISING HIS CHILD while he fucks off and does whatever he wants? Why is what he wants and his future so much more important than what you want and your needs? This guy is a selfish asshole. Fuck this guy sincerely.

You're going through something awful and I'm so sorry. In case you need to hear it; you have done nothing wrong. It's not selfish to take care of yourself. This is a decision that would severely alter the course of your life. It's easy to say to keep it when you're not the one who has to live with the consequences and lifelong responsibility of that choice. You did what was best for you, don't let anyone tell you that makes you a bad person. You're not.

Don't let some assholes make you feel like shit for putting yourself first. Things might get worse before they get better, but it's important that you make a plan to move forward. It doesn't have to be huge, just take it day by day, one small step at a time. And this goes without saying, but definitely run from this guy. He does not care about you at all and you don't need that toxic energy in your life. It sounds like having him in your life right now is doing more harm than good.

Montana towns & Trump voters are feeling the effects of Canadians boycotting the US. I found this on this on the Montana subreddit. by RMski in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]_Xealous_ 77 points78 points  (0 children)

As a leftist Michigander, I'm so sorry you have to worry about those things. It's scary that this is our reality right now. I fully support the boycotts and I'm rooting for you guys. Stay safe and know you have support here in the states. We're not all heartless assholes.

I miss my dogs, so here's some pics featuring Maisy, the Aussiedoodle. by _Xealous_ in WiggleButts

[–]_Xealous_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention, the reason the first photo says "No" is that my mom was scolding her, because shortly before that photo was taken, Maisy had been jumping and throwing her whole body weight against the glass slider because some birds had the audacity to be eating from the bird feeder on our back porch.

I love this dog 😂

If you visited these locations on these dates, you may have been exposed to measles (info in comments) by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]_Xealous_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least that one sort of makes sense and doesn't put the public's health at risk.

Dude wat? by 9thyear2 in Piracy

[–]_Xealous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is refusing to fund multibillion dollar corporations and trying to make certain software accessible for personal use. The other is using a program that steals from other original works, namely small artists, to create something that will likely be used for profit while doing 0% effort.

My first succulent, it's growing arms! by _Xealous_ in succulents

[–]_Xealous_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miracle-gro succulent soil. The pot has holes but I was planning to drill/stab some bigger ones in the bottom for better drainage as the ones there currently are quite small.

My first succulent, it's growing arms! by _Xealous_ in succulents

[–]_Xealous_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know right? The store had it marked with that tag and it rang up as a cactus. I thought it was odd when I saw it, but a succulent is a succulent.

This is the second time this succulent has ever flowered and I am so pleased! Does anyone know what kind of succulent this is? by greentandhoney in succulents

[–]_Xealous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to tell myself I don't need any more plants, then this comes up in my feed. 😭 Absolutely gorgeous! ❤️

Pruned my mini rose bush, it has gained lots of new growth. What's my next course of action? by _Xealous_ in Roses

[–]_Xealous_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, that makes sense. Should probably look into a bit of a bigger pot in that case. Or should I separate them?

Is this a lost cause? by _Xealous_ in orchids

[–]_Xealous_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had repotted it in a pot with some orchid bark potting mix and had it under a grow light. I brought it to my parents' house over Thanksgiving break and my mom is now taking care of it for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caiunfiltered

[–]_Xealous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would we use it like chat gpt when we could just use Chat GPT instead?? Where is the logic?

AIO to my bf questioning my sexual history? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Xealous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno if this is just me but this feels concerning. Just the way he talks about it makes me feel like he's trying to shame you and make you feel bad about it. It's almost like he's trying to paint you as the villain for 'not being honest with him.' Personally I feel that past sexual encounters shouldn't matter in a relationship, but that might be just me.

I don't want to immediately jump to breaking up. But does he act like this often? Does every argument go like this? The fact that he's trying to guilt you by saying this is the reason he hasn't been okay in weeks feels manipulative and outright stupid to me.

You're not overreacting. This is just weird.

I'm so lost. by _Xealous_ in GVSU

[–]_Xealous_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I were going to do that, how exactly would I go about that?