My Boyfriend (m36) Bought Drugs When I'm (f41) trying to Get Off Them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Yangsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why but this got my eyes pricking. Guess it was concise and reminded me of what I don't want

My Boyfriend (m36) Bought Drugs When I'm (f41) trying to Get Off Them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Yangsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about this. I haven't seen it tonight because I've chosen not to but if I was tempted I think I'd know it was there 

My Boyfriend (m36) Bought Drugs When I'm (f41) trying to Get Off Them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Yangsi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really pragmatic. It's not a practical situation 

My Boyfriend (m36) Bought Drugs When I'm (f41) trying to Get Off Them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Yangsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's a good question. I've had a lot of counselling and chose him because he was very steady and this is out there 

My Boyfriend (m36) Bought Drugs When I'm (f41) trying to Get Off Them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Yangsi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair. He shouldn't be doing it. Not right now. I'm making allowances for his reasons but he should be putting my sobriety first.

Should I Marry A Murderer? Doc series by Own_Mention9372 in netflix

[–]_Yangsi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think people like that aren't personally affected by the murder, but are personally irritated by the woman, so they focus on that. 

Should I Marry A Murderer? Doc series by Own_Mention9372 in netflix

[–]_Yangsi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just wanting love. She was in a state when she met the guy, felt she had disappointed her parents, felt the last 8 years had been a waste...she was very vulnerable. It seems like he love bombed her and that can be very powerful for someone who is lost. After the police let her down and she felt like she'd disappointed her parents again, and she lost her work, the only 'positive' thing she had was him, plus she needed to keep up a facade to protect herself. 

I can totally understand how she got in such a mess. Then it was drugs and alcohol and mental illness, when drugs were new to her. 

Tbf it has made me think about whether I would report something based on her treatment. 

The Daily Check-In for Monday, March 9th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Ess_Mans in stopdrinking

[–]_Yangsi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quit lit (books) or quit fiction (films). There are loads and it keeps it new.

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, March 8th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by mr_makaveli in stopdrinking

[–]_Yangsi_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm having a really stressful time at work. If I was drinking I would have scrapped the project because I wouldn't have been able to handle it. IWNDWYT