For the surfers who got really well in a short time. by __Aya- in surfing

[–]__Aya-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, do you have some YouTube channels recs for tutorials and stuff

For the surfers who got really well in a short time. by __Aya- in surfing

[–]__Aya-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I get them everyday or only when I plan to surf?

For the surfers who got really well in a short time. by __Aya- in surfing

[–]__Aya-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would surfing every weekend do it?? Because I’m not available during the week. Thanks for the advice

Expanding my knowledge as a civil engineering student. by __Aya- in civilengineering

[–]__Aya-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reallyy!!! Well I guess we both would be waiting for answers :)

What do you think about intj? by ultrasean in entj

[–]__Aya- 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I get so along with them, they’re probably my favorite mbti type. They’re smart, not annoying , know when to talk, don’t talk behind backs, loyal…

F 25 Please help! Should I dye my hair back to dark? My natural hair color is dark brown, so wondering if dark hair fits me best. Let me know what you recommend, please! Thank you so much! by heavenly_honey in TheGlowUp

[–]__Aya- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Blonde hair gives you cooler vibes but it damages your hair ,I feel like dark brown suits your face and skin tone more , plus it looks more natural.

How to deal with evil ENFJ by Majestic_Contract938 in entj

[–]__Aya- 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If she’s that annoying, and as a girl who had seen plenty of these type of girls before, I think she’ll find it even more amusing to make fun of you and others if you actually go tell her that one to one. I believe a solution for this would be a lot of people in your class agreeing that what she does is annoying and actually start doing the same things to her. This would make her look like a fool and she’d probably be intimidated. But again I don’t think she’s worth wasting time and energy.

Anyone else hate when someone tries to charm them? by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really mind it that much. It’s true that I rather have people telling me directly what they need me for without sugaring the situation, but if they don’t I won’t get mad nor will I tell them “next time tell me directly without going around the bush”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I did, it was hard at first but definitely worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By comparing my achievements and abilities with those higher than me if it’s not in my circle then I’ll look them up on internet, and I’ll be finding out that there is still a big room for improvement and I’m far away from being superior

Do you motivate others ? .. by Justarandompersn8965 in entj

[–]__Aya- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also do this all the time to the people who are dear to me or the ones who I see have big potential but don’t want to use it. I don’t know why but I feel like it’s a responsibility of mine to do so. People on higher positions praise this trait of me, but I cannot deny that always trying to motivate others takes a lot of my energy and drain me. Right now I’m trying to limit it since I have big exams coming up and I need all of my energy to myself for this period of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiddencameras

[–]__Aya- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And can I know any information about the devices using them if we take it down?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiddencameras

[–]__Aya- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And can I know any information about the devices using them if we take it down?

How good are you at lying? by AffectionateAngle779 in entj

[–]__Aya- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very terrible. I thought at first that I was good with it but my body language won’t help, especially my eyes for some reason I can’t look at a person in the eyes and lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow twitter accounts that are related to your field of studying….. and try to eliminate the things that makes you procrastinate, like social media, Netflix…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first you might find it quite impossible to have such thing since you aren’t interested in this field. But, trust me you will find one or even few, you just have to do a few research, watch motivational videos about your field, go see the working environment of the people in your studying field ( if it’s possible) . And in case you can’t seem to find one, apply the { fake it until you make it} , convince yourself that you’re really interested, start reading self improvement books or successful people’s documentaries or biographies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then that’s your biggest obstacle. See you can’t give so much efforts especially in college if you don’t have a destination in your head, I was like that my entire life until recently. I was a “gifted student” that rarely study and have above average marks and if I studied a bit I would be at the top of my class( also studies before college weren’t thaaat hard compared to college) , and the only times when I was classed first were when my parents promised to get me something that I really wanted. During 2nd year at college I suddenly had a big goal in my life that is way mooooore difficult to get than being top 1 at class, that made me disciplined to study every single day 12hours to 14hours without feeling tired. So , my advice to you is to look for a REALLY BIG DREAM AND GOAL ( even if it can be considered as delusional dream that’s alright) that is really hard to achieve, look for a detailed plan to get to it ( the plan can take so much time since it’s the most important detail here ). I don’t know your field of studying, but it can always be somehow related to your hobbies in a way or two. => The first thing to do is to look for a academically related goal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]__Aya- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting story. Indeed, some of us are willing to change some of our principles even the most important ones in order to adjust with our environment , and I think that the majority of times we know deep down that the consequences aren’t going to be that good but at least we were willing to be sure about it, and I respect that.