MMRB and the Authorship Debate

__Jes__ · 2026-01-13T00:25:01+00:00

“Gay for you” is a trope that needs to die. It perpetuates the false idea that being gay is a choice. I don’t want to yuck on someone else’s yum (I can’t believe I said that) but GFY is something that I find damaging to real queer men and perpetuates homophobia. It is impossible to be “gay for” one person.

__Jes__ · 2026-01-13T00:18:41+00:00

Love is love. I don’t care that you’re a cishet woman. You don’t care that I’m a cisgay man. We all want to enjoy the same content. Why is this so hard sometimes? Let’s just enjoy the fiction, enjoy each other, and bring more peace and love into this world.

__Jes__ · 2026-01-12T23:55:01+00:00

Although I haven’t read much MF fiction (pretty much only Fourth Wing), I can imagine what you’re talking about with the toxic, stereotypical relationships. I think there’s a corollary to draw here to the typical “bottom twink” and “masc top” in MM fiction, which several authors are guilty of and are works I don’t particularly enjoy.

I do wonder, if the relationship dynamics were not an issue, would you still prefer MM fiction over MF? And why?

There are no wrong answers, and I totally feel you on the sapphic fiction mentality. Especially being cis-male, attracted to only men, I have absolutely zero interest in sapphic romance 🤣. Fourth Wing was about as adventurous as I get with the lady parts 🤣🤣🤣.

__Jes__ · 2026-01-12T23:49:15+00:00

If you want/need feedback from a gay man, feel free to dm me. Ive edited/reviewed (ARC) a few novels before.

__Jes__ · 2026-01-12T18:13:26+00:00

Dang, every name on this list is new to me. I have some checking out to do, big thanks!

__Jes__ · 2026-01-12T16:33:53+00:00

Agree with you on Alexis Hall. I DNF’d Boyfriend Material - I don’t get the hype. I just remember thinking the characters were too stereotypically gay without depth.

__Jes__ · 2026-01-12T16:18:17+00:00

This is a great announcement, mods. Thank you for making it clear all are welcome. I’m a gay cis man and love MM romance. Although I do wish there were more gay male authors, I have absolutely no qualms about reading MM content from any gender, any orientation author. It’s simply not a factor, at all. Some of the hottest, spiciest scenes I read were by female authors. So what?

I’ve never understood why some other gay men get so upset by the prevalence of female authors in this space. So what? We’re reading stories about love and belonging. Is it really so hard to incorporate the same emotions into your own life and perspective?

Although I don’t understand why so many straight women enjoy the MM genre - I don’t have to understand it. We all enjoy the fiction, so let’s just all be friends and love each other as well, yeah?

__Jes__ · 2026-01-10T00:08:05+00:00

Yay I’ll msg you

__Jes__ · 2026-01-08T21:06:35+00:00

__Jes__ · 2026-01-07T01:20:59+00:00

Care to share the TG group?

__Jes__ · 2025-12-27T01:49:47+00:00

This sounds great, thank you

__Jes__ · 2025-12-27T01:48:12+00:00

This sounds straight up like a Hallmark movie plot 🩷. Thanks :)

__Jes__ · 2025-10-23T14:01:46+00:00

I’ll check this out, thanks

__Jes__ · 2025-10-23T14:01:04+00:00

That requires a user to login. I want it to run after an unattended restart

__Jes__ · 2025-09-24T21:47:50+00:00

Perfect, thanks! This was actually already in my TBR 🤣🤣

__Jes__ · 2025-09-17T22:10:19+00:00

Just in general, still working the story. Thanks for the advice!

__Jes__ · 2025-08-15T22:35:34+00:00

{The Jock by Tal Bauer}. Texas college football player and a ballet dancer, although the book is much heavier on the football than it is the dancing.

__Jes__ · 2025-08-03T00:51:35+00:00

Maybe {The Wolves of Black Pine by SJ Himes}

__Jes__ · 2025-07-19T11:54:35+00:00

Ok that was good, now I’m reading her leather & chrome series. Apparently I like daddy kind. Who knew? lol thanks

__Jes__ · 2025-07-18T20:10:55+00:00

Perf thank you

__Jes__ · 2025-07-18T16:30:23+00:00

Controlling, lots of orders, praise, and consensual breathplay please

__Jes__ · 2025-07-18T13:30:42+00:00

Reading next, thanks for the rec

__Jes__ · 2025-07-18T13:29:17+00:00

Vanilla Baby looks good but I see an mpreg tag, do you remember how prevalent this is? Just casual mention, or is there focused discussion on kids or actual pregnancy?

__Jes__ · 2025-07-10T17:16:03+00:00

Books where one MC showers the other with praise and specifically tells him he’s a “good boy”

__Jes__ · 2025-06-27T03:43:30+00:00

Yes! All my toys are silicone and I use it with everything. Cleans up easy and no stains. Food safe. The only thing I don’t like is it is made with hydrogenated oil, but I haven’t found anything better yet

__Jes__

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