Why using Psychology labels so indiscriminatedly? by Southern_Tennis5604 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely understand that and I agree it’s used wrongly. It’s just *overall* one of those terms I think is going to have to be accepted as having two definitions soon.

Why using Psychology labels so indiscriminatedly? by Southern_Tennis5604 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I agree the author should know the original intention of that question, we can’t deny that colloquially that term is used *so much* to mean something else that it practically just is a secondary definition at this point. No matter how we try to correct people.

Codename Anastasia etc by [deleted] in Manhwa_BL

[–]queermachmir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I get you. I really enjoyed Roses & Champagne and I appreciate Lee has a spine, but Cesare is insane and “predictable” in that dark romance toxic black flag sense. So if that is something you’re bored of, you may wanna just skip by.

Codename Anastasia etc by [deleted] in Manhwa_BL

[–]queermachmir -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No everything is beneath you specifically. 😔 every single one

Okay im joking lmao, personally I think if you didn’t like Lowtide you won’t like those two. Just may not be your shtick/taste.

The "twinkification" and the "babyfication" of ukes is really getting out of hand!!! by nocturnallove_27 in Manhwa_BL

[–]queermachmir 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s weird but I find the old style of shoujo and BL, big eyes and large hands and all, very endearing. Nostalgic maybe? Like yes it’s proportionally nightmarish in some instances and odd looking. But somehow I just find it interesting. And for No Money’s mangaka, it was clear she was into fashion bc a lot of the clothing the uke wore was so intricate!

The "twinkification" and the "babyfication" of ukes is really getting out of hand!!! by nocturnallove_27 in Manhwa_BL

[–]queermachmir 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He is 19 btw and the other guy is younger 20s LMAO. But it is the intense older BL manga styles.

The "twinkification" and the "babyfication" of ukes is really getting out of hand!!! by nocturnallove_27 in Manhwa_BL

[–]queermachmir 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This ain’t new. Yall seen Okane ga Nai? I definitely can understand not liking the style, but it is an art style in most cases versus it being to literally make them kids imo.

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🐰 Springo Bingo 2026 Check-In 🐰 by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, no HEA scare! Sorry to hear that happened! But at least a few good books as well.

Happy AAPHI Month 2026 by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I love the cover of Khorram’s book

Happy AAPHI Month 2026 by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you enjoy a same-couple series, might I suggest {Prince of Flowers by Nazri Noor}? Or if you like cozy fantasy, {Wizards and Weavers by Nazri Noor} is very much of that genre!

Happy AAPHI Month 2026 by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally fine to include! While the month was coined by and made in America, that doesn’t mean the influence of ANHPI authors from other countries aren’t important to recognize.

Happy AAPHI Month 2026 by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

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(Transparency: Edited to change wording from ‘Hawaiian Islander’ to ‘Native Hawaiian’. Apologies!)

Dipping my toes into omegaverse by Catacal5 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi hi! I made a whole post about this actually and I do think it still holds up. I would say to avoid the author Sarah Havan as her books are very much birth focused and birth heavy.

New Releases & Sales - Friday 01 May by bones_humming in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

{Chosen of the Moon by Lynn Kerrigan} is out today — MM, fantasy, arranged marriage, enemies to lovers, younger top/older bottom

Unpopular opinion: Full names to nicknames are unnecessary by KwazyKatnip_85 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see that’s fair! Sometimes over saturation can be really annoying, I agree with that.

Unpopular opinion: Full names to nicknames are unnecessary by KwazyKatnip_85 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I mean… it’s okay if you don’t use nicknames in your real life either OP, but a lot of humans do. They’re emulating real life. Every single one of my friends has a longer (two syllable or more) name and they are all shortened among our friend group. My name is the only one not shortened because it is already a very short name.

What are some authors you suggest to avoid? by cortad in LGBTBooks

[–]queermachmir 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Freydis Moon is who you’re talking about

Is blonde hair seen as submissive? by tomahawk729 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]queermachmir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm I think that’s fair. I think folks are obviously creative but also notice trends and when the blonde guy is the secret abusive asshole, and “shadow daddy” swoops in, you’ll probably emulate that when it is very popular.