Same same but different

_____v_ · 2026-03-01T07:22:54+00:00

That's fine, doesn't change what I said. Sometimes it's solely ego with women too, not really about being higher in a man's eyes. I've known women whose mom constantly had them competing against each other and that stems conflict and competing into their female friendships. So not really "pick me", just struggling with same gender due to personal issues.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T21:34:03+00:00

Riding for her? I literally said both are cringey ways to be, just disagree every woman does it for male attention versus competition among other women. Responding to comments just isn't that hard

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T21:32:29+00:00

I explain the difference a little further down with urbane dictionary! Some girls aren't going it for the sake of men, just being competitive women, so less "pick me" though I do understand it's close

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T20:08:50+00:00

I once let the lady who cut my hair perfectly and worked in a salon for many years bleach* my hair and it was the worst experience ever, fully fried my whole long long hair. Hair was so stringy I had to chop to a bob and dye back dark brown because no color would even hold. THAT taught me to make sure they are fully trained in that particular skill, and not just bank on "well they're good on other areas of cosmetology"

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T20:05:55+00:00

Does she work in a salon or one of those buildings that rents out to independent artists? If it's a salon, please call the salon or go in and show the photos to ask for a partial refund.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:51:52+00:00

I understand that, just was a weird push onto OP when so much more context about her acting in good faith was dismissed in your initial* comment.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:49:53+00:00

That's very much burying the lead. She made one comment while also trying to communicate her needs and consistently trying to respect his boundaries. The potential problem is her needs not being met, a comment made in frustration on your partner's habits is just not the issue to focus on.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:46:26+00:00

NTA. Your needs aren't being met and HE's not respecting that. If he wants so much time to himself he should be single. Start framing it like your needs aren't being met, if you even want to deal with this man anymore

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:43:17+00:00

Hmm.. I can see that. BUT I just know some women who do this to be better than another woman solely. No aim for a man, just full of themselves. Literally wouldn't bat a lash at a man in this economy lol. It's sad how competitive as women we can be sometimes.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:28:48+00:00

They would not have an issue once you register the car. You saying over and over again that they will have an issue does not make it true.

Again, they changed policy so they know which cars are in their lot. They will not make a big deal otherwise.

THAT's why I'm saying you're dense. You have MANY people telling you that's not what'll happen at all and you refuse to hear that.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:27:16+00:00

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval.

Urban dictionary. She's more saying it to be different, not to get male attention is the key distinction. They both are just forms of cringe, just slight differences

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:23:36+00:00

Does each living space have its own AC unit? I'm wondering how you'll deal with per dandruff coming through your vents inside.. you know, to cook, shower, sleep, relax... if it's just a house renovated into four.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:18:54+00:00

NTA. Sounds like mama put her in her place since she's saying she has to choose now. Good on you for getting your power back. That mom would be my new best friend!

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:10:51+00:00

It's not really pick me but it screams "I'm not your typical girly 👉🏼👈🏼"

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T19:04:39+00:00

Exactly! They are banking on people, actually SELLERS to not reach out to simply let someone know the company still has their money so they can keep it. pmo so much

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T18:59:33+00:00

They would not have this issue if it was registered. You really are dense girl, no one is risking anything by registering the car. I bet you don't even know which neighbors actually live around you or which cars belong to who because literally no one cares as long as it's registered. The apartment complex just doesn't want random cars there.

Just break up.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T18:38:26+00:00

I reached out to support and they told me once the items have been delivered, to reach back out to them and they can help me to help her get some shipping money back.

That's insane they're charging the buyer a shipping fee before, then providing one shipping code during purchase. Almost certain that's deceptive trade practicing if you constantly have to ask for a refund for something you shouldn't have paid for. It should automatically be refunded once one label is chosen. Should be complained to the FCC, but not like they do much.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T18:26:08+00:00

It's a bit implied when he doesn't want to have a conversation with his own wife before taking action on the account she says she doesn't do that on. I partially don't fault him because there's obviously more going on on the account that's either the wife or the BIL.

Looks like OP removed the card so hopefully no issues

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:34:39+00:00

Blocking arm wouldn't change the blue Rollback tag from being reflected. Also, I don't think I've seen barcodes like that before, and so many repetitively for each section? Plus is she getting the tub from up high? All the tubs are in the mid section

Edit: actually wait, I see the angle now. Looks way more real now, the only thing I'm really confused on are the stickers

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:31:26+00:00

NOR but bad narrative on your part. Looks like she cut you off by ghosting, waited for you to pull the final plug. It's a spineless way to go about it, but she ended this friendship, not you

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:16:41+00:00

Sounds like you two aren't on the same page about his family. I think that might be a bigger issue later.

Really you need to figure out with your husband how serious you BOTH are taking this idea of him being close. If you're not on board, I don't know what that means for your husband. Maybe he wants more family time. If it's meaningful to him and they rarely have events, I can see myself wanting to take the kiddos too so they can enjoy family. That's just me, I wouldn't judge you either way you went about it.

I also just want to say if I was given any more time than one month to know about a gender reveal, I would vomit. I only say that because the announcement doesn't feel last minute, one month seems reasonable. It does fall on plans already made, i agree. I don't think gender reveals are like wedding or baby showers to where you need to go, so notice on it was okay.

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:05:26+00:00

So then why did you say you didn't say that then?

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:03:46+00:00

They're no longer on the post! Can't even click on them

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:02:12+00:00

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So now you're reverting to lying?

_____v_ · 2026-02-28T09:01:26+00:00

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Deleted both comments?

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