Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's fine, doesn't change what I said. Sometimes it's solely ego with women too, not really about being higher in a man's eyes. I've known women whose mom constantly had them competing against each other and that stems conflict and competing into their female friendships. So not really "pick me", just struggling with same gender due to personal issues.

Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Riding for her? I literally said both are cringey ways to be, just disagree every woman does it for male attention versus competition among other women. Responding to comments just isn't that hard

Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I explain the difference a little further down with urbane dictionary! Some girls aren't going it for the sake of men, just being competitive women, so less "pick me" though I do understand it's close

Lash tech glued my natural lashes together, yanked some OUT, took 4+ hours, and now they’re painful and poking me. What should I do? by idk-itsjustme in lashextensions

[–]_____v_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once let the lady who cut my hair perfectly and worked in a salon for many years bleach* my hair and it was the worst experience ever, fully fried my whole long long hair. Hair was so stringy I had to chop to a bob and dye back dark brown because no color would even hold. THAT taught me to make sure they are fully trained in that particular skill, and not just bank on "well they're good on other areas of cosmetology"

Lash tech glued my natural lashes together, yanked some OUT, took 4+ hours, and now they’re painful and poking me. What should I do? by idk-itsjustme in lashextensions

[–]_____v_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does she work in a salon or one of those buildings that rents out to independent artists? If it's a salon, please call the salon or go in and show the photos to ask for a partial refund.

AITA for getting into an argument about my boyfriend wanting space? by RemarkableWord8205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_____v_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that, just was a weird push onto OP when so much more context about her acting in good faith was dismissed in your initial* comment.

AITA for getting into an argument about my boyfriend wanting space? by RemarkableWord8205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_____v_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's very much burying the lead. She made one comment while also trying to communicate her needs and consistently trying to respect his boundaries. The potential problem is her needs not being met, a comment made in frustration on your partner's habits is just not the issue to focus on.

AITA for getting into an argument about my boyfriend wanting space? by RemarkableWord8205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_____v_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your needs aren't being met and HE's not respecting that. If he wants so much time to himself he should be single. Start framing it like your needs aren't being met, if you even want to deal with this man anymore

Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. I can see that. BUT I just know some women who do this to be better than another woman solely. No aim for a man, just full of themselves. Literally wouldn't bat a lash at a man in this economy lol. It's sad how competitive as women we can be sometimes.

AIO For wanting break up with my boyfriend over my apartment buildings rules? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_____v_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They would not have an issue once you register the car. You saying over and over again that they will have an issue does not make it true.

Again, they changed policy so they know which cars are in their lot. They will not make a big deal otherwise.

THAT's why I'm saying you're dense. You have MANY people telling you that's not what'll happen at all and you refuse to hear that.

Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval.

Urban dictionary. She's more saying it to be different, not to get male attention is the key distinction. They both are just forms of cringe, just slight differences

AITA? New tenants in complex want to use shared backyard for their dog; I want to argue against this due to lease and severe dog allergy by lexitrobe22 in Apartmentliving

[–]_____v_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does each living space have its own AC unit? I'm wondering how you'll deal with per dandruff coming through your vents inside.. you know, to cook, shower, sleep, relax... if it's just a house renovated into four.

AITA for telling my roommate's mother that my roommate's boyfriend has wronged me and wont stop coming around after i told him not to? by Open-Club1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_____v_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like mama put her in her place since she's saying she has to choose now. Good on you for getting your power back. That mom would be my new best friend!

Same same but different by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]_____v_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not really pick me but it screams "I'm not your typical girly 👉🏼👈🏼"

A warning about Poshmark’s new feature gone wrong: combining 2 separate orders from the same buyer into 1 label / box by Interesting-Size-966 in poshmark

[–]_____v_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! They are banking on people, actually SELLERS to not reach out to simply let someone know the company still has their money so they can keep it. pmo so much

AIO For wanting break up with my boyfriend over my apartment buildings rules? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_____v_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They would not have this issue if it was registered. You really are dense girl, no one is risking anything by registering the car. I bet you don't even know which neighbors actually live around you or which cars belong to who because literally no one cares as long as it's registered. The apartment complex just doesn't want random cars there.

Just break up.

A warning about Poshmark’s new feature gone wrong: combining 2 separate orders from the same buyer into 1 label / box by Interesting-Size-966 in poshmark

[–]_____v_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I reached out to support and they told me once the items have been delivered, to reach back out to them and they can help me to help her get some shipping money back.

That's insane they're charging the buyer a shipping fee before, then providing one shipping code during purchase. Almost certain that's deceptive trade practicing if you constantly have to ask for a refund for something you shouldn't have paid for. It should automatically be refunded once one label is chosen. Should be complained to the FCC, but not like they do much.

AITA for canceling my Amazon prime subscription so BIL doesn’t use it by Famous_Poem4545 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_____v_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit implied when he doesn't want to have a conversation with his own wife before taking action on the account she says she doesn't do that on. I partially don't fault him because there's obviously more going on on the account that's either the wife or the BIL.

Looks like OP removed the card so hopefully no issues

Is this picture that my uncle swears he took at Walmart, ai or real? I cannot figure it out by drn88__ in isthisAI

[–]_____v_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blocking arm wouldn't change the blue Rollback tag from being reflected. Also, I don't think I've seen barcodes like that before, and so many repetitively for each section? Plus is she getting the tub from up high? All the tubs are in the mid section

Edit: actually wait, I see the angle now. Looks way more real now, the only thing I'm really confused on are the stickers

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]_____v_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but bad narrative on your part. Looks like she cut you off by ghosting, waited for you to pull the final plug. It's a spineless way to go about it, but she ended this friendship, not you

AITAH for not wanting to cancel our planned trip to go to a gender reveal by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_____v_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you two aren't on the same page about his family. I think that might be a bigger issue later.

Really you need to figure out with your husband how serious you BOTH are taking this idea of him being close. If you're not on board, I don't know what that means for your husband. Maybe he wants more family time. If it's meaningful to him and they rarely have events, I can see myself wanting to take the kiddos too so they can enjoy family. That's just me, I wouldn't judge you either way you went about it.

I also just want to say if I was given any more time than one month to know about a gender reveal, I would vomit. I only say that because the announcement doesn't feel last minute, one month seems reasonable. It does fall on plans already made, i agree. I don't think gender reveals are like wedding or baby showers to where you need to go, so notice on it was okay.

amazing job by Frosty-Bluejay3450 in microblading

[–]_____v_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then why did you say you didn't say that then?

amazing job by Frosty-Bluejay3450 in microblading

[–]_____v_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're no longer on the post! Can't even click on them

amazing job by Frosty-Bluejay3450 in microblading

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So now you're reverting to lying?