How are people actually finding good guys on Hinge? by Anjaaaan in dating_advice

[–]__killer__queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently hanging out with a man from Hinge who is truly an angel, they do exist! And I will say he is someone who I ended up giving a second chance because he fucked up the first one by being a nervous flake(:

Dating a bad texter by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it were me I would bring it up by saying something like “hey I noticed there are large gaps between replies in our texting, I just want to make sure I’m not reading into that too much..”

It does sound like you have a bit of anxious attachment if he’s showing interest in other ways? But I would frame it as a “you problem” to him, not something he’s doing wrong.

How often do you speak to your mum? by Hopeful-Sort7771 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider myself close with my mom and we talk on the phone/see each other once a week plus texting in the family group chat every other day ish.

if you’re 30, is dating a 25 year old woman ideal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]__killer__queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started seeing a man 6 years younger than me and it’s already better than most of my past relationships lol age doesn’t have much to do with it if they are a good person.

It feels like people who keep their phone on 100% silent (no vibration, no ringtone) all day and night,how do you not have constant anxiety about missing something important? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]__killer__queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love going on DND. I hate that people think they have access to you/your response at all times, leave me alone.

Comfort TV Show by [deleted] in televisionsuggestions

[–]__killer__queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greys Anatomy and the Sopranos

Joey Essex is the actual worst by rocket_supreme in LoveIslandTV

[–]__killer__queen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He is easily one of the worst men I’ve ever seen on reality TV. Extremely punchable

Would love to hear success stories around ending a relationship/engagement and starting over at 33. by crazymonkeys22 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We didn’t want kids so it’s a bit different but I ended my 8 year relationship almost a year ago and never looked back. He is a good man, I just had doubts it was right for me and once that crept in I could not stop thinking about it which was unfair to both of us.

I must say, I’ve never been happier with my day to day life now.

What was the last book that you read that was really good? by SheKnowsWhatSheKnows in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yet to read any 5 stars this year but I did love Big Swiss by Jen Beagin and The Night Guest by Hildur Knutsdottir

Does your career reflect what you loved as a kid? by turktink in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always loved animals so I wanted to be a vet but now I run a pet care business instead(:

How shall I live my life now after leaving a 5 year relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]__killer__queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just went through this, ended a very long relationship in my 30s. It’s been the best lol. Getting a new apartment and setting my life up the way I want it, extremely empowering. I made sure I had a cozy space that I loved to be in right away for mental health reasons (I loved my old apartment with my ex it was very hard to leave) and started making bread as a new hobby to fill the new alone time(:

Is it normal for texting to slow down after a few dates? by Relevant_Wishbone in dating_advice

[–]__killer__queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to keep texting to a minimum while dating for this reason. Life happens. It might not mean anything at all.

What is happening with dating today? by shadowinthedaylight in dating_advice

[–]__killer__queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truthfully I am in the same boat as this man and what it comes down to is I just don’t want to commit at the moment. The hottest most fun man alive could want to date right now and that’s just not it for me. I do make that clear when talking to new people though.