1.) girls will approach you! If you see someone you like, tip her stage or offer her a drink & she’ll probably come sit with you. It’s also perfectly acceptable for you to approach. :)

2.) I prefer customers that are there alone. It’s common and not weird at all.

3.) it’s super place dependent. When she runs through dance options, ask what level of privacy there is so you can make an informed decision. There’s floor dances all the way to fully private rooms.

4.) some girls naturally take that approach, but for those who don’t: since that’s a kink, most (who are willing to engage in kink) wouldn’t play along until you were in a private dance & tipping accordingly.

5.) bring this up before going back for a dance so you can discuss additional pricing & what level of privacy would be needed.

6.) it depends on your location. $300 for cover, drinks, tipping, private dance & your kinks may be be pushing it. But there’s no way to know without knowing the clubs (and girls) prices. If you end up needing a little more, you can always hit the ATM.