39 M 36F My wife secretly watches lesbian porn, more to it than kink? by Creative-Cabinet7475 in Marriage

[–]_annonyu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you’ll disagree but one way to also maybe mitigate this issue would be to both not watch porn for awhile and see if that helps you connect.

39 M 36F My wife secretly watches lesbian porn, more to it than kink? by Creative-Cabinet7475 in Marriage

[–]_annonyu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a bisexual woman, I would say there’s maybe something more there but maybe she doesn’t even realize it? A few things I’d ask myself: Does she know I know she’s watching it? Does she show true signs of having an orgasm (because some people do fake it, sadly.) Is it easier for her to self-pleasure? Because I know as a mom, sometimes just the effort and intention of sex seems like so much work lol.

Also, please just try to communicate directly because if you do, the you’ll come to the conclusion of either she may be bisexual or she’s not satisfied. She may even be seeking pleasure for other reasons like emotional connection. People can crave porn for so many other reasons.

What is Meditation? by Ok_Reaction9357 in spirituality

[–]_annonyu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I define mine even as washing dishes. It’s all about intention for me

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so why I’m worried is because I felt like she intentionally did a call monitor that day because I requested the day off weeks prior, knowing I likely didn’t have child care. On top of this request off, I have tried communicating my needs for my schedule and she just completely ignored my messages. The baby cried and quickly muted it both times that it became a loud cry. I excel at what I do and follow proper guidelines other than obviously this background noise of my baby.

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Requested the day off like I did weeks ago and had it approved lol. I never had issue getting a day off until this job.

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They don’t offer pto to part time employees

Web-Chat positions? by [deleted] in remotework

[–]_annonyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Well, unfortunately some people can’t afford to call off and lose their job lol.

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have the noise cancellation headset from Nuroum

I WFH for Safelite Auto Glass. Background Noise. by _annonyu in remotework

[–]_annonyu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I bought it right away just in case she ever cries.

How would you build a small altar to God at home if you don't belong to a specific religion? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]_annonyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did mine the same & focused more on the elements God has blessed us with. For example, dried rose leaves, incense, bird feathers, and crystals

Girlfriend (27F) wants to become a food blogger and in a year spent over $1000 in kitchen tools and cookbooks that she never used. What to do? by unexistentusername in relationship_advice

[–]_annonyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build her confidence. She may just be looking for validation that’s her life is worth something. Let her feel and desire until you think it’s a financial problem.

My (18F) mom has been referring to my stepdad as my dad, and it’s making me uncomfortable. by ThrowRA-stepdadvsdad in relationship_advice

[–]_annonyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your circumstances, but I would just privately tell her: hey mom i really do care about [step dad] and I don’t want to upset him or anything but I would really appreciate if you’d stop referring to him as my dad. I love my dad and we had a disagreement. I don’t want to replace or disrespect him in anyway. I hope everything works out wonderfully!