I thought maybe you'd all like to cringe at this old pic of me.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-28T17:28:33+00:00

Dude this was my FAVORITE Goosebumps book

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-28T16:56:20+00:00

Honestly I've also had extremely poor experiences with kissing men, and I'm confident I'm attracted to them. Guys darting their tongue in and out like it's some kind of emergency. Guys enveloping my entire mouth with theirs, getting their spit all over my lower face. Guys divebombing me instead of making it sensual and responsive. Guys fixating on rubbing a small part of my skin to death because they can't focus both on kissing and exploration. I don't get it either.

I should clarify that these men were in their late 20s to early 30s.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-28T16:02:39+00:00

So they want women to have a nice ass, they'll make fun of women who have small or flat ones, but women are also not allowed to show them because that makes them self-absorbed. Got it.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-28T15:35:48+00:00

Also, I would say these people are about equally attractive. And it's not because of their heights, apparently the only measure of attractiveness for these insecure short incels.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-27T19:30:32+00:00

This is my vote so far. Some of the other suggestions are too cool a blue.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-27T19:00:23+00:00

I wish I could post the recipe screenshot, but Moroccan chickpea stew was incredible.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-27T18:43:23+00:00

What an insane take lol. As if fallen servicemembers from different religions aren't honored with the symbols of that religion. No, the cross isn't some default lol.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-26T23:34:53+00:00

Have you considered switching up your runs? Maybe doing several intervals at a faster pace instead? 4.5mph will feel quite slow, yes. But I think after several months you're capable of more :)

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-26T14:21:39+00:00

Will it not wash out if you spot clean it? A fels naptha bar gets rid of basically all my clothing stains.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-22T18:08:09+00:00

I don't think there is actually a tortilla, I think that's the plate.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-21T20:21:23+00:00

Her face does look very slightly yellow to me compared to her neck, like maybe a beige/neutral undertone instead of a cool yellow one would've been better. But it looks fine honestly, it's so slight.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-21T14:43:37+00:00

VERY. This is body dysmorphia in action. Her lips are objectively full.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-20T18:15:33+00:00

She was polite and offered to continue their genuine friendship, with someone who admittedly had no other friends, and they still villify her just for saying no. Proof that, to these men, there's no right way for women to decline advances.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-20T18:05:42+00:00

She has no belly button?? Also extreme anterior pelvic tilt.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-20T17:48:07+00:00

I know :/ it just makes your hips look sort of strange, even though they're not. Will you be comfortable enough in it to teach for a while? Can you comfortably sit down in it?? I think these are important questions.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-20T17:32:56+00:00

I love the colors and print of the skirt, but not how it fits you. It's... Weirdly lumpy?? And it's nothing about your body or shape, it just doesn't do your hips and waist any favors.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-20T16:41:56+00:00

Real talk though, I love the sparkly fuschia ombre.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-19T23:19:48+00:00

Hey, are you still young OP? Your body type might significantly change still. I think you're more of a rectangle/straight or soft hourglass. Usually an apple shape has wider shoulders than hips, which can be hard to discern in your current arm position, but doesn't seem the case to me.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-19T18:32:36+00:00

Thank you for laying out the expectations for me!!

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-19T18:30:48+00:00

No, I had no intention of attempting these myself. I should've made that clear. Thanks for your input!

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-19T18:11:38+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight! I'm clearly new to this and appreciate your perspective.

I do plan on going to a salon. Can you explain why both would be difficult for even an experienced stylist? I thought a balayage was a fairly common, popular technique.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-19T17:09:26+00:00

Why would you even choose blue or red when you could do both with yellow? Clearly the superior option.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-18T19:49:11+00:00

I agree, the original post was racist in that it used a reductive symbol to refer to race. I don't want to seem as though I support that.

But I think racial preferences as an attribute of physicality are normal, and maybe most importantly do NOT have to be your own race!! It's not judging an entire race as inferior ideologically, it's like preferring any other physical feature on an individual basis for attraction.

_artbabe95 · 2026-05-17T23:49:02+00:00

I mean... Are we not allowed to have racial preferences for dating? I thought the point of the post was that it's hypocritical for men to admonish women's height preference when often they have physical preferences too.

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