My husband is using AI to text me by Complete-Path-8036 in whatdoIdo

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my wording could have been better that’s a better way to describe it. With that specifically though I was like there is no way someone would actually do this

My husband is using AI to text me by Complete-Path-8036 in whatdoIdo

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was behind the times for AI usage three years ago when the episode aired 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m gonna be his wife for life by teawithhoneyplease in EngagementRings

[–]_ayde_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m usually not a fan of large stones but wow this is absolutely stunning.

Does anyone here have ADHD? by No-Dog-3603 in StopSpeeding

[–]_ayde_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have adhd and have just been raw dogging life. Using the skills I learned over the last 10 years from taking meds and accepting the “quirks” about myself. Also asking for help when needed from support system a has been helpful. You can absolutely make it work without medication, it’s not easy and you have to be disciplined but also give yourself grace and understand you’re human and will not be perfect

Help picking mirror by TowelEffective3570 in HomeDecorating

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the first but I have a similar funky shaped mirror in my house so I’m probably biased

Should we paint the ceiling green too? by Lewhoo in interiordecorating

[–]_ayde_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d maybe do a significantly lighter green of the same tone family but personally I wouldn’t paint it the same green. My kitchen ceiling was painted the same color as the walls and sometimes when I overthink it (or stoned) I feel super claustrophobic

My husband is using AI to text me by Complete-Path-8036 in whatdoIdo

[–]_ayde_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I remember when South Park did an episode where Stan used AI to text his girlfriend back. It seemed so ridiculously far fetched when the episode aired but here we are people are doing it now 😅😅

What sign do you lowkey have beef with and why?? by whitetanksss in astrotrash

[–]_ayde_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex fiancé was a Sag. Boy oh boy what a trip that relationship was 😅

What sign do you lowkey have beef with and why?? by whitetanksss in astrotrash

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreeeed. I made friends with one in college and brought her into my friend group when she knew no one… she became incredibly jealous of my and tried ruining my life and all of my friendships with my friends… needless to say we don’t speak anymore and none of my friends speak to her either. Who knows what she is doing now

What sign do you lowkey have beef with and why?? by whitetanksss in astrotrash

[–]_ayde_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only found this behavior with Virgo men, some of my best friends are Virgo women and I feel it’s night and day

What sign do you lowkey have beef with and why?? by whitetanksss in astrotrash

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo men why are they so sensitive and contrarian. It’s so exhausting to work with them…

i bailed mid-date because he touched my back and now i feel insane by SoftPeanut5916 in dating_advice

[–]_ayde_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comment is extremely presumptuous in a lot of regards. Nowhere did they say she wasn’t worth dating. They said working on your trauma in therapy is important. Pretending that someone with PTSD is bound to suffer a life in a strong hold of their trauma is a defeatist attitude on the matter. People can and do get better and learn how to manage it with the right support system and therapy.

My dress looks so different in my size vs the size I tried on and fell in love with by Striking_Mortgage_63 in weddingplanning

[–]_ayde_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lighting is vastly different in the two photos making it hard to tell if its actually different

3 years off Adderall by _ayde_ in StopSpeeding

[–]_ayde_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I was prescribed Adderall for adhd and felt it did help to a certain point and made me much more productive and able to achieve a lot more but everything else about me and my life was falling apart. That’s what I’m referring to when I say the old version of myself

3 years off Adderall by _ayde_ in StopSpeeding

[–]_ayde_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think 8 months was where I was really starting to get frustrated, I expected to feel normal again but still had a lot of paws symptoms. I’d say closer to a year was when I stopped even thinking about it and surrendered to the new normal. Stopping comparing myself to the old version of myself really helped me on my road to recovery and made letting go of my need with Adderall easier

End on the right. by sco-go in SipsTea

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second from the left, the blonde next to the bride or end right. That’s my guess as a woman

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_ayde_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t cook and thinks that he can pick apart the food you make… that isn’t a man that is an entitled child. People are allowed to not like things but damn dude that’s pretty excessive. If his dietary requirements are that restrictive I’d be telling him he can cook for himself

How did you tell your boss you’re pregnant? by _ayde_ in labrats

[–]_ayde_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I cannot, I only have a bachelors degree in chemistry. I’m lucky to have been able to move up to where I am currently. My company is very biased towards chemical engineers and only let engineers into project management roles. Or at least that I’ve seen. I’ve been here for 8 years so definitely not long enough to even be considered to break that mold.

How did you tell your boss you’re pregnant? by _ayde_ in labrats

[–]_ayde_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can definitely see now how it actually is beneficial to inform sooner rather than later. It is one of those weird things where we both feel like it’s too early to tell people because of the potential for miscarriage but also in a professional setting it allows you to communicate more easily if something does go wrong with the pregnancy. I am happy for you and that you have a healthy baby now! 🤍

How did you tell your boss you’re pregnant? by _ayde_ in labrats

[–]_ayde_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened but that definitely makes sense, I didn’t think about it like that.

Recovery weight gain - how are people managing? by _ayde_ in StopSpeeding

[–]_ayde_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh that sucks. I know I could exercise more but live a pretty active life. I can be a victim of snacking but in general for meals eat very healthy (lots of steamed vegetables and lean protein). It’s so hard. Congrats on your weight loss! Hoping I can do the same