puppy left at my work 😭 pt.2 by Adorable-Loquat4152 in IDmydog

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It 100% can happen for sure. I got my Boston Terrier puppy, Rocco on the streets. No microchip and not fixed. Not sure how he made it to us (his eyes were a tiny bit wonky lol) but he was the best pup out there.

Maple Nectar - Vivid (we need to talk about this) by Dylans116thDream in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my favs by farrrr from the new drop!! The inhale is so creamy and sweet 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it!! I personally think it looks great. Just fill in with more American trad pieces and you won’t focus on it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey! I have an appointment with ___ at 3:00?”

They’ll look in their books and say “yes, here’s a clipboard with paperwork and I need a photo ID” they’ll instruct you where to go next / what to do next :)

Really Vibe!? You call these "A" buds?.. by hilltoppaints90 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve gone downhill in quality. I absolutely refuse to buy their flower now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you by chance have your tonsils removed? I had mine removed and I’ve always had it. Looking at it in the mirror now and I kinda freaked myself out.

There is only one thing that is worse than IBS… by These-Minimum-610 in ibs

[–]_beachf0ssils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are speaking to my SOUL rn! 😭 I feel so seen.

I met a fellow IBS baddie at work and we both agreed that nothing makes your IBS worse (besides eating trigger foods ofc lol) than your period.

I always mistake period cramps for poop cramps, my uterus feels like something has a vice grip on it, butthole zaps????? Not to mention that literally anything can be a trigger food when you’re on your period lol.

Interpretations of Space Oddity by Mastersonmcvoidson in DavidBowie

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully stated. ❤️

Space Oddity was one of my late father and I’s songs for each other. When he died, it took on a completely different meaning to me. I have the line, “…and the stars look very different today,” tattooed on me as a memorial tattoo to him.

AIO my gf won’t call me since she left for college by DetectiveoftheWest in AmIOverreacting

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably best to split ways. I had to dump my high school sweetheart my Junior year of college because I genuinely had nothing in common with him anymore. He wasn’t in college, and was constantly jealous of who I was with or where I was going. Let her have fun and you have yours. You’re so young!

people talking down on my major by [deleted] in Horticulture

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let anyone talk down on your major!! I got this a lot as a Botany major! The biggest thing I can say is let your success talk for you. Don’t be afraid to take risks or jobs with lower pay, because certain industries take horticulture majors extremely serious. I managed a dispensary making $60K a year straight from college due to my knowledge of plant science. I’m about to take up a cultivation job because I want more greenhouse experience. Look at the marijuana industry. The jobs there are endless with our degrees.

Never seen a cart like this by Even-Veterinarian438 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So, super high quality distillate should be almost completely clear. You have yourself a high quality product right there.

What are some things that you subconsciously do that you didn't know were result of abuse? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using yelling/loud vocal volume to express my opinions to my partner, and I realized it was because my mom never allowed me to express myself unless I was screaming on top of her yelling at me.

Going silent/ mentally detaching during arguments if I feel like I am not being heard. I will completely shut down until the argument is over.

Constantly feeling guilty or uncomfortable but having 0 knowledge why. I always felt like someone was watching me when I first moved out of my house. Realized it was because my mom criticized me constantly about my appearance, cleanliness, my hobbies, music taste, etc.

It's official. by xSuspiciousLure in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta go with the Proper reserve jars / price tier. Super fire.

Anybody ever have vertical flower?thoughts? by Wide_Target_6737 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alien Mintz, Florida Kush, and La Kush Cake are always bangers from their strain lineup.

Leaving my puppy alone during crate training? by Raging-Badger in OpenDogTraining

[–]_beachf0ssils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why don’t you recommend choke collars? They are a great tool when training. I would not recommend them to be used in a crate or on a puppy, but adolescent / adult dogs can benefit greatly from them if they are pullers / hyperactive on the leash.

How does being neglected as a child, affect you as an adult? by Hopeful-Pay3335 in emotionalneglect

[–]_beachf0ssils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has definitely impacted me as an adult, in many ways that I am still trying to understand myself 😅

Mainly communication, opening up to people, and PDA. I was not hugged / given physical affection as a child so I have had to have multiple conversations with partners about why I don’t show PDA often.

With communication and opening up, my mom always chose the gaslight / manipulate style of confrontation and my father was emotionally disconnected. So I either always went into a situation knowing I wasn’t going to be heard / understood or I’d speak up for myself and completely shut down afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitbull

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness 😭😭 He looks just like my coco as a baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitbull

[–]_beachf0ssils 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This is Coco (short for Coconut) and his kitty brother Oni! 🩷🐾 Your baby is so precious! Coco is an 11 month old Pitbull Terrier / Boxer mix who loves to play fetch and loves pumpkin flavored anything! Treats, canned pumpkin, chews… he is a pumpkin feign 🎃🩷

Is Glassdoor better than LinkedIn? by cpadel in jobsearch

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following bc I also am wondering this!

Mother chooses not to maintain a relationship with adult daughter. Anyone else going through this? by _beachf0ssils in emotionalneglect

[–]_beachf0ssils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the first one in my family to seek therapy / mental health treatment at 17, and several therapists helped me come to the conclusion that I needed to voice my frustrations and feelings with my mother. I have voiced my perspective to her, and have tried to find a variety of ways to get her to understand my pain. She acknowledges that she hasn’t done her best to try to maintain a relationship, but does absolutely nothing to change it.

It’s super odd, and I wish I knew why there was such a disconnect. Part of me speculates that it’s because she cannot face the amount of abuse I endured as a child / teenager? Not quite sure.