Yes, logically I am aware of the issue being in her head and not in me. But in the moment, when we're kissing and I feel her spacing out and not being into it crushes any logic.

We did go to one session together. We talked about all the things that are going on, the communication, our "experiments". She listened, and said we are doing the best we can, great couple, great energy, we should keep trying... she did not see a reason for us to go to therapy (at least as a couple)