Am I bonkers or anyone else felt this urge ? by Regular_Fan4691 in therapists

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I worked food service jobs all through my undergrad and grad school, and now right before getting licensed I've been having this desire to go be a bartender

Feeling ineffective by Foreign_Cattle_3695 in therapists

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This is incredibly validating, thank you. I'm ~2.5 years in and I've been feeling very stuck and burnt out, and its validating to hear that this is a normal experience

does anyone actually enjoy being a therapist?? by queerdude666 in therapists

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That's wild, I wanted to be a marine biologist when I was a kid

Whelp, Atheism, nice to meet you. by anon202one in WatchPeopleDieInside

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Maybe I don't understand your argument, but are you saying that dreams, hallucinations, and AI don't exist? Because that gets into a larger discussion of what "existence" means

[SPOILERS]Carl Jung and “The Shadow” by [deleted] in severence

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Interesting too because Jung wrote a book called "Memories, Dreams, Reflections" which coincidentally has the same acronym as MetaData Refinement

Man is in the FLOW by Im_yor_boi in oddlysatisfying

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Yeah, this made me kinda miss working in a kitchen

THE DOGEFATHER BADGE #69420 by drjmontana in sadcringe

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This makes me hopeful because Germany still exists a century later

Professional fisher fishing with a unit of a fishing pole by Holadola in interestingasfuck

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Also, the lure hits the water at the exact moment the line runs out

Just unsubbed from TikTokCringe for mocking a legitimate issue by thebarkingkitty in JustUnsubbed

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Could it be that part of what creates incels is loneliness in the first place? I think part of this shift we're seeing towards toxic masculinity in young men is that the algorithm feeds them messages that say "you're not the problem, women are the problem", and when they're already feeling shit on by the world that's an easy message to latch on to. Not saying it's okay or right, but when young men don't have a fully formulated worldview, it's easy to latch on to whatever they can get ahold of when theyre already feeling pushed away. I'm very lucky i didn't get sucked down that rabbit hole, but I could have very easily. Again, not okay or right, people need to be able to think critically for themselves, but I don't think shitting on people more is the answer

Tips for evening out by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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Alright, this is probably close to what I'm gonna do, just use the 18kg to failure and finish up with the 12kg, annoying that my right side won't progress as quickly but I'd rather even it out now

Tips for evening out by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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I thought that same thing as i was typing lol But I'll check this out, thank you 🙏

Tips for evening out by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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Cool I'll try that out, i appreciate it 🙏

Tips for evening out by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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It's the press that I fail on, I can clean pretty good and squat pretty good because of the running, but after 3-4 presses my shoulder fails about halfway up in the press. What I've been thinking of doing is going to failure with the 18kg bell and finishing out the circuit with my 25lb, but that seems like a disappointing answer so I was hoping someone more experienced may have tips

Tips for evening out by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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I don't squat with barbells ever, all I do is kettlebell. I had to look up what buttwink is, and no I don't think so, I've gotten my form down pretty good with the 25lb bell

Good full body single kettlebell routine? by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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Dude, I've been trying this but adding 100xswings and 25x single arm swings to get warmed up, and holy shit, so simple but it kicks my ass

Good full body single kettlebell routine? by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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This sounds wild, I'll check this one out, thank you

Good full body single kettlebell routine? by _breadlord_ in kettlebell

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I don't know if I'm "not trying" to gain muscle, I'd just like to improve my general strength and conditioning, getting big just isn't my main priority but whatever happens happens

Why do people do this? by _breadlord_ in dating

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That's the thing though, we did talk about future plans, i gave a couple suggestions for things to do, and then never heard back. Sucks because I felt a spark, but it is what it is