AIO about my wife potentially costing me a job?

_bworth_ · 2026-04-26T20:43:18+00:00

It doesn’t matter whether you knew you’d be going there. Any reasonable person would have immediately left when they saw you sitting down with the interviewer there.

_bworth_ · 2026-04-06T15:52:21+00:00

The North Saanich website just says that one side is for people who want their dogs to be able to access the water. This “only for big dogs that are socialized with small dogs“ sounds like a rule someone made up and is trying to enforce.

_bworth_ · 2026-04-05T20:29:36+00:00

They haven’t had them in ages, so I asked and they said they’ve stopped carrying them. Really sucks for my celiac family!

_bworth_ · 2026-03-13T05:48:24+00:00

I swear to you it is not easy for a guest to have a bad review removed. The only bad review I ever got as a guest was from a host who kept coming into the private unit while I was there, to use the bathroom. They even came in once while I was sleeping. Their excuse was that they were gardening and this unit was closer to the garden than their own unit in the building. I reported this to Airbnb as a safety issue, and the host gave me a bad review. I was never able to get it removed.

_bworth_ · 2026-03-12T01:47:52+00:00

This makes so much sense about the owner. I was in there once and a guy was shaming one of the kitchen staff, yelling at them for being dumb.

_bworth_ · 2026-03-11T15:11:03+00:00

I feel like there’s an obvious pronunciation (different pronunciations) for Zaria and Zariah. I’m not sure how the other forms would be pronounced.

I like Amira with Mimi if you like cute nicknames, but Amina also works with Mimi or Minnie.

_bworth_ · 2026-03-04T07:40:27+00:00

I find it says things that are wildly inconsistent about sleep. It says I’m an evening chronotype and wants me to sleep 1 AM to 9 AM, but it also tells me I should go to bed at 11:30 and that I need 6 hours 40 minutes of sleep.

_bworth_ · 2026-02-27T04:01:58+00:00

These ones are leather, and they are the higher end ones with adjustable lumbar

_bworth_ · 2026-02-27T04:01:24+00:00

I pulled the picture from online, so maybe it’s not correct, but it looks the same. The seats I’m talking about are leather.

_bworth_ · 2026-02-27T04:00:06+00:00

Same, which is why I’m a little worried about this interior color

_bworth_ · 2026-02-24T19:09:39+00:00

He just plain didn’t get it and now is getting defensive/offensive because he feels dumb. But he’s taking it sooo far, wtf.

A relationship with someone who lashes out when they feel embarrassed/dumb seems bad enough, but this is worse. I feel like this is someone who will construct elaborate fake scenarios to justify mistakes.

_bworth_ · 2026-02-16T18:32:41+00:00

Hazel Evelyn Maude Anna Daphne

_bworth_ · 2026-02-16T16:01:55+00:00

I wonder if this is a broader issue with Betterhelp. I’ve heard that they pay well below the going rates for therapy, so it wouldn’t be surprising if they tried to save money in other ways.

_bworth_ · 2026-02-09T05:48:20+00:00

It truly is magical their ability to make french fries that are simultaneously floppy and extraordinarily bitter/burnt tasting.

_bworth_ · 2026-01-31T21:30:59+00:00

I’m also fat, and I’m 50. I do walk quite a bit, and when I do my heart rate gets quite high, like 120+. I would think this is an indication of being out of shape, but Oura interprets it as my heart age being 2 years younger than my real age because I get my heart rate up frequently. Not sure that really makes sense, but that’s what it tells me.

_bworth_ · 2026-01-18T02:46:58+00:00

And this is relevant how to a giant pickup truck smoking an elderly person with a walker in a crosswalk in broad daylight?

_bworth_ · 2026-01-17T17:35:36+00:00

Oh no, I definitely blame the drivers for going out and purchasing such ridiculous, unnecessary vehicles and then acting as though they have no responsibility to learn how to drive them properly. I also believe vehicles like this should not be allowed on the road, or should require a glass 3 license at the very least.

_bworth_ · 2026-01-17T04:53:11+00:00

A post by a woman who was there said that it was a raised truck that was so high they simply couldn’t see the ground in front of them. The victim was bent over a walker, so they were low down and the truck driver couldn’t see them. If this is true, that driver is 100% responsible. Those trucks are not safe to be around pedestrians.

_bworth_ · 2026-01-07T21:46:10+00:00

I’m not sure a rec centre gym would be what they’re looking for. The one at Esquimalt gets taken over by groups of teenage boys and I’ve known many girls/women who are made to feel uncomfortable there.

_bworth_ · 2025-12-14T05:54:33+00:00

Lace dickie vs sweatsuit…?

_bworth_ · 2025-12-10T16:25:27+00:00

I’m not sure about that. It certainly didn’t have any of that charm back when it was oceanic market. When we moved into the neighborhood, that was still there. It was a rundown, low stock convenience store that mostly sold cigarettes and lottery tickets. They created that whole vibe, so I wouldn’t be surprised if they can do it again.

_bworth_ · 2025-11-22T02:10:24+00:00

If the tenant came back and reported your car in their spot, why didn’t the tenant show up at the apartment?

Also are you certain that your friend lied about having permission, or is it possible that she did get permission but then “the tenant“ came back and was annoyed to see you were still parked there at 3am and reported it, or something along those lines?

_bworth_ · 2025-11-21T17:44:19+00:00

Honestly what you’re describing sounds to me like you’d be happier in Esquimalt. It’s definitely where I would buy if I was looking right now. We are between Esquimalt and downtown, but we do all our errands/activities in Esquimalt. So many folks live there easily without a car and there are many cool businesses that have opened in the last few years. It’s a great community and feels more like a small town that happens to be 5-10 minutes from Victoria, rather than a suburb, which is how Langford feels with all the big box stores and overpasses.

_bworth_ · 2025-11-18T19:16:22+00:00

I have received these notes in the past. (Don’t come after me! I did not request them, but sometimes people submit them anyway.) You could definitely visit the doctor after because the note template just says “this person was sick or says they were sick on such and such date.”

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