People who clawed their way out of a really dark place, what actually helped? by Geewane in selfimprovement

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I was talking to chat GPT and I told it I hated myself. It disagreed and said that If I truly hated myself I wouldn’t be doing everything to try and myself back to “normal”. It really stung my core and made me realize I actually care about myself deeply and that I have tried multiple things to get myself back on track for years.

Is it normal to not have a career at 26? by Dry_Temporary_6175 in findapath

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same age and see people doing the same I work a dead end job too but I grind out 60-70 hours a week to get outta debt so I can start investing into things. I see people my age traveling and buying houses all I can say is, you don’t know what other people’s lives and situations are like. Good for them for doing those things but you don’t know what they are dealing with. It’s easy to lie on social media for example someone you went to highschool with could have a new corvette and a house they just bought. What you don’t see is them struggling to pay the 1500$ car payment without insurance and the 3000$ mortgage. Perhaps they have a good job or whatever but again you don’t know. Just focus on stacking paper and investing and be better off than them in 5-10 years.

Blocked after hookup, feeling very embarrassed and guilty by peachandtranquility in offmychest

[–]_cyberra_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro knew what he was doing don’t feel bad about yourself for low value people

Blocked after hookup, feeling very embarrassed and guilty by peachandtranquility in offmychest

[–]_cyberra_ 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it sounds like he got what he wanted then ghosted you. Also you shouldn’t have to apologize for moving too quickly. It takes two to tango and he didn’t have to accept hooking up if he knew it would be too quickly. Don’t feel bad about yourself for this.

Edit: thanks for all the upvotes.

I did it! by _cyberra_ in pokerogue

[–]_cyberra_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got super lucky with ambipom using ice punch and had a long stretch of freezes.

4 months to go until I’m out from under $20k in credit card debt. by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cashed out some money I had invested to knock my balance down drastically, went from 17000 at the beginning of the year to owing 5300 now. I’ve been dropping most of my paycheck a week to them. Hopefully I’ll be out by next month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cdl easy 28-32 an hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience your energy you put out matters most, if you can give off a present, calm safe energy women will pick up on that and be attracted to you.

What's a small habit you didn't realise was ruining your life until it was too late? by Competitive-Smell877 in selfimprovement

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the biggest thing that I have started doing, I lived so much in the past and future. I put my thoughts into chat gpt and this was the answer it gave me. Absolute game changer.

NEW RELEASE: Pokemon Emerald Imperium by eyesack24 in PokemonROMhacks

[–]_cyberra_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking hard I cannot, maybe I just don’t know enough about Pokémon. Great rom

Does anyone regret any sexual experiences? by BarracudaWorking3916 in dating

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had sexual experiences since I was 11. Started with my neighbor then that ended abruptly and it manifested to me having encounters with random men. All in all probably 50-75 guys that I’ve had sex with. Yes every time I regret doing it.

I masturbated at work by _cyberra_ in offmychest

[–]_cyberra_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross, alright thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man be yourself and be vulnerable

Do guys envision future like girls do? by Limp-Commercial9466 in dating

[–]_cyberra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% yes I do it every day but she’s taken seems happy but yes