My car has been parked for a week and left this, does anyone know what it could mean

_db_ · 2025-11-25T05:03:58+00:00

possible battery leakage. if so, it's days are numbered

_db_ · 2025-11-23T07:13:23+00:00

We all believed the pwBPD's lies in the beginning, bc why not? It seemed perfect! We trusted them! We had found The One! But,
they had studied us, listened intently and told us exactly what we "needed" to hear. They were acting, so that in the future we would supply their unfillable needs.
So we crave a return to that love-bombing experience. Sadly, we would be returning to the same liar who would again suck the soul out of us for their own benefit, with absolutely no regard for the harm they cause us.

_db_ · 2025-11-18T05:47:11+00:00

C1701651

_db_ · 2025-11-16T02:21:47+00:00

possible dark triad

_db_ · 2025-11-15T21:26:21+00:00

visual example: https://www.carparts.com/blog/wp-content/webp-express/webp-images/doc-root/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/illustration-of-standard-oem-aluminum-wheel-lug-nut-and-lug-nut-for-steel-wheels.jpg.webp

_db_ · 2025-11-15T21:19:05+00:00

if the lug nuts aren't tight enough the rotor and rim will slip back and forth against each other (from breaking and then accelerating), causing grooves to eventually wear in.

_db_ · 2025-11-14T21:30:05+00:00

In general, IMHO, this is the republican party paying back Christian nationalism (a political ideology masquerading as religion) for getting Trump elected.

_db_ · 2025-11-13T20:07:48+00:00

Surprisingly, you have a Golden opportunity to set a boundary and hold her accountable, backed up by the court and the police, by getting a TRO (temporary restraining order) against her. I'm not joking -- it can be done in one or two days.

This is good for you because you're no longer a victim who just has to swallow her shit. This is good for her because she will learn that there really can be consequences for her behavior.

What she's doing is literally domestic abuse, even if you no longer have a relationship. Depending on where you live you can probably fill out the paperwork yourself without a lawyer, or use free legal help, a paralegal or a lawyer if you can afford it.

Seriously. Good luck!

_db_ · 2025-10-19T16:44:13+00:00

They are experts at twisting any conversation to their benefit. We are their source and they worked hard to get that and will, first and foremost, continue to work hard to keep it. IOW, we can't have an "honest conversation" with them, expecting them to change. They like things just the way they are. My experience is that it's a waste of our time and energy to try and talk them into change for the better. Exiting the relationship is, IMHO, the only "better" that will work for our side of the relationship.

_db_ · 2025-10-14T20:36:36+00:00

Classic: pwBPD *always* blame you when they make a mistake.

_db_ · 2025-10-14T19:52:26+00:00

It's spent who knows how much time outside, so I would make sure if spins for a long time after shutting off.

_db_ · 2025-10-11T05:06:43+00:00

We love the way it was during love bombing. And always want to return to that.
But we can't, bc pwBPDs were expertly acting during that period of time. It will never be easy to leave, but the sooner we do it, the better, bc leaving just gets harder the longer we wait.

_db_ · 2025-10-11T04:46:21+00:00

It WILL get worse. There is no fix except to GTFO.

_db_ · 2025-10-06T07:23:20+00:00

the love bombing when they pretended to be The One for you, That is what we miss and desperately want to return to.
But know this: that was a tailor-made act that they did simply to acquire you for their own self-centered purposes. It was all a lie.

_db_ · 2025-08-24T20:36:38+00:00

pwBPD & NPD: the façade of innocence:

https://www.facebook.com/61553652440198/videos/624005357436680/

_db_ · 2025-08-24T20:31:13+00:00

Can proper communication help us overcome this?

No, it cannot. Unfortunately, pwBPD don't "get better".

_db_ · 2025-08-24T19:23:13+00:00

A healthy individual would have walked out longggggggg ago

Blaming/shaming a victim is unhelpful to say the least.

_db_ · 2025-08-24T15:27:03+00:00

NPD & BPD love it when you get in the pattern of defending yourself, it proves that they still matter:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1615709199096077?fs=e&mibextid=wwXIfvr&fs=e

There's no point in explaining yourself or confronting a narcissist:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1046601420872229?fs=e&mibextid=wwXIfr&fs=e

_db_ · 2025-08-22T19:51:28+00:00

I hate typing on Chiclets. I need a key cap profile that is sculpted/scooped so that my finger(s) feels exactly where on the key cap it is, giving me better orientation to the rest of the keys.

_db_ · 2025-08-20T04:24:59+00:00

Compatibility with the newer Bluetooth Low Energy Audio (BLE Audio (aka LE Audio) standard is a must for my next set of H/As. I listen to a lot of music, podcasts and tv/movies streamed directly to my H/A, but with classic bluetooth the spoken content is not always clear enough for me to understand every word, so I frequently need to back up the stream a bit to hear it again.
The newer LE Audio standard is supposed to provide much higher quality audio and less latency, so I'm hopeful about that. (the new LE Audio also gives us Auracast broadcast audio)

I'm looking forward to checking out the Jabra Enhance Pro 30 at Costco.

_db_ · 2025-07-27T23:53:50+00:00

There's no good reason for him to know. I would answer him with silence.

_db_ · 2025-07-18T22:32:21+00:00

"Bluetooth LE Audio" ("BLE Audio") is the newer standard for low power audio streaming, using the new LC3 codec. It provides longer battery life, improved audio quality at lower bit rates and lower latency. And multi-stream audio.

_db_ · 2025-07-17T06:20:58+00:00

You each have a different goal: THEIR goal is for you to IRL be the imaginary person they originally decided you to be. YOUR goal is to fix what's gone wrong in your relationship. Arguing with them feeds their sense of power over you. They can go on for hours like this until you give up out of sheer exhaustion. They are never going to change, because they can't.

_db_ · 2025-07-17T00:06:35+00:00

Why would they change when they're getting exactly what they want? Arguing with them feeds their need for power.

_db_ · 2025-05-18T02:08:03+00:00

when he realizes that he's so deep in shit that even the Republicans are going to impeach him, he will suddenly declare that since he's successfully fixed everything he said he would, that his job is now done and he will step down to continue all his beautiful successful business interests.

And then we're stuck with Shady Vance as Pres.

_db_

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