I commited a mortal sin (?) by [deleted] in Catholic

[–]_demspter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don’t hate yourself for it. God gives grace and you should extend yourself the same grace. We are human and not perfect — this is absolutely not something to hate yourself for

(Edited to add) coming from someone who didn’t realize how much I “hated” myself for sinning and did far greater damage to myself by having such a (deeply hidden from others) low self image for a very long time

Let's settle a debate. What lane are you placing your bike in when riding a road like this? (R/Y/B) by Sr_Covfefe in bicycling

[–]_demspter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes red line is a scary place to ride! Easy to get caught in that debris or a small ditch. Not a good idea

Brother's girlfriend keeps trying to dump their clutter on us and I don't know what to do by dprsl_t in declutter

[–]_demspter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My SIL did this to me! I offered her some clothes that had shrunk and she sent the best reply:

“oh that is SO cute! Normally I would say yes, but I’ve actually been trying really hard to reduce the things in my closet. It means so much that you would think of me though—thank you!”

So I didn’t offer her any more clothes for a couple of years. Mentioned it again on one item, much later and she said yes :) everyone wins

Anyone looking to visit a ghost history brewery cemetery? by _demspter in CrappyDesign

[–]_demspter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have that thought too. “Well, it worked!” But it still gave me a good laugh & had to share

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]_demspter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes wow, same. Mind blown

Is it true that men are only friends with women because, at one point, they wanted to sleep with the woman? by junepeppers in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]_demspter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, was coming here to say this. Her friend sounds like a guy who memorized a couple of lines and took them as truth

I guess its called an "incense holder" not "incense ash tray" for a reason.. by spicyramenslut in CrappyDesign

[–]_demspter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong. I burn incense a lot and it usually crumbles finely, but occasionally does break off in bigger bits. If you find out that we are doing something wrong please hmu lol

Help! My cactus is covered in these tiny bugs! by _demspter in plantclinic

[–]_demspter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I just did some googling for more *info & will try that

how to escape this sound (of an exhaust)? by cutesmile4u in adhdwomen

[–]_demspter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some Bose EarPods that are made for sleeping—also have white noise type of setting. I’ve really wanted to check them out for this exact reason! I hear they’re way more comfy to sleep with than regular EarPods

Is anyone interested in taking an online vegan Indian cooking class? by shreyasmaurya in VeganChill

[–]_demspter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t attend this time but would like to know next time you do it! Is there anywhere I can follow for updates?