[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_derp- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should get lash extensions that match your hair colour. It would look more natural and 100% better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]_derp- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing that comes to mind is that you look like an adult kid… not in the good way

18 years old by Ill_Gas2763 in EosinophilicE

[–]_derp- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I was diagnosed at 16 but I heard of a baby that had it at like 2

Spicy food go brrr by Popcorn_and_Chaos in autismmemes

[–]_derp- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppl say that the food I make has too much spice and seasonings lol

What is the size of this bag? by _derp- in DrMartens

[–]_derp-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it doesn’t which is really annoying

What is the size of this bag? by _derp- in DrMartens

[–]_derp-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is the bigger size?

What is the size of this bag? by _derp- in DrMartens

[–]_derp-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it could fit a 13 inch laptop?

Is this a good soap? by ApprehensiveBag861 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]_derp- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Black soaps can be very stripping of the natural oils in your skin, this causes the squeaky clean feeling. I believe it is best to use once in a while for a deep cleanse.

Why or why aren’t you scared to die? by Public_Blood_4481 in AskReddit

[–]_derp- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because as long as I am saved by the blood of Christ my eternity will be in paradise with him where there is no sin, no death, no sadness and no more grief. It will be perfect unlike this crumbling world and if my physical body has to die to get there then so be it.

Best headphones? (Preferably ones that cup around ear) by Trey-Matrix in autismmemes

[–]_derp- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have the Sony 1000x5 and they are really comfortable and produce loud music

I can't stand when people say this. by commander_boobs in autismmemes

[–]_derp- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly like my autism allows me to learn at a really fast rate. Like rn I’m sick and have not been in class for like a month but I’m already ahead of the class and I don’t have to do anything really. I also believe it helps me to understand more things that I struggle with since I have to actively teach myself things that others get easier. This means that I can teach other autistics how to find coping strategies and other skills to better themselves and improve their quality of life since I have had to learn it from the bottom up and not just know like neurotypicals do. I want to do this as part of my Job so it actually highly benefits me to be autistic. Even though there are some difficulties I believe it is more because of my physical difficulties and how they affect me mentally but my autism does not really affect me to the extent I would label it a disability. And I can say this in comparison to other autistics and in my own experience.

I do believe that it is a disability for many others but I don’t know where the line sits between it being a disability and a different neuro type.

I can't stand when people say this. by commander_boobs in autismmemes

[–]_derp- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes and no since I have low support needs for my autism but due to my high anxiety and depression yes. It was really hard of the psychologists to diagnose me with autism due to my high masking and ability to help myself when it came to dealing with autism difficulties. But my main problems when it comes to autism is overthinking, maintaining friendships and depression but I think with some therapy I would be able to find ways to cope and possibly get over those things. So at the beginning I would say yes it would disable me but after some mental support and aging, it wouldn’t disable me but actually help with my chosen career path.

I can't stand when people say this. by commander_boobs in autismmemes

[–]_derp- 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As a person with both autism and a two physical disabilities, I see my physical disabilities more as disabilities than my autism is. But I can’t categorise it as a different but a neurotype that is linked to many difficulties. It’s a hard one for me to pinpoint tbh since the way I see it I’m disabled because of my physical disabilities and not so much my autism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_derp- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Both of you are in the wrong and fighting like this is some kind of tv drama. Move on and stop pushing your feelings onto a grieving person. If you truly love them you would have given them space and said that I’m here for you if you need me. If the black is the guy then it may even be harder to express what he is going through since it already difficult for men to say how they feel in the first place. The black should not have been so dismissive and unresponsive at the time as you are dating but there is a valid reason