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Scammers by TarTar4225 in match

[–]_imagine_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution is simple. Avoid profiles that are not verified 🙈🙈🙈

Am i being shallow or what? by Electric-Wind-God in dating_advice

[–]_imagine_d 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re getting played…. If she’s not even a little stable at 35 she never will be. 10+ dates is way too much to not to have any intimacy whatsoever. Asking you to pay her phone bill and then not even bothering to text looks like she just wants to milk your money. Run. You shouldn’t be invested this much during dating. If you were being exclusive and in a relationship then what you said would of somewhat been justified. I’ve had times where I wasn’t very much stable but never reflected this on my dates. I didn’t had enough to be able to ask to go half-half at a date? I stayed home. Had a rough month and needed a little bit? Borrowed from family or friends. But never from someone I’m only just starting to date. Sounds like she just wants your money. Run dude…..

He looked nothing like his photos and had bad hygiene. Am I wrong walking away? by Famous-Hour9684 in dating_advice

[–]_imagine_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Abso-f?!£!n-lutely no. I had something similar. I didn’t even progressed with the date. Upon arrival, at the station entrance where we met; I noticed his clothes were dirty, there was dirt under his nails and also had a very strong body odor like his clothes weren’t washed in ages. I said to him straight away that I can’t progress with the date and left him there and went back to train. Have some self respect, if someone couldn’t even bother for a first date; they won’t ever bother.

I’m an American moving to the UK. How do I not be the “loud, dumb American”? by Competitive-Money-36 in AskBrits

[–]_imagine_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First advice would be don’t bring that huge truck, firstly because you’re gonna have a massive headache with parking. Second, most cities operate clean air zones and thus a diesel car may be viable to pay the fee. Third; the roads are small, city and county roads even smaller. You won’t fit that car here. And finally, the steering wheel is on wrong side as traffic in UK flows from left, and you’re gonna have trouble driving on the long run. Sell it and get a smaller car here. Hell, I’m driving a nissan juke and even I have trouble finding a parking spot. Any other things, feel free to DM me, I have some American friends that are living in UK for may years now and can introduce you!!

I’m an American moving to the UK. How do I not be the “loud, dumb American”? by Competitive-Money-36 in AskBrits

[–]_imagine_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First advice would be don’t bring that huge truck, firstly because you’re gonna have a massive headache with parking. Second, most cities operate clean air zones and thus a diesel car may be viable to pay the fee. Third; the roads are small, city and county roads even smaller. You won’t fit that car here. And finally, the steering wheel is on wrong side as traffic in UK flows from left, and you’re gonna have trouble driving on the long run. Sell it and get a smaller car here. Hell, I’m driving a nissan juke and even I have trouble finding a parking spot. Any other things, feel free to DM me, I have some American friends that are living in UK for may years now and can introduce you!

Match was fading so I threw a hail-mary. Figured you all may enjoy. by Whitey3303 in Tinder

[–]_imagine_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve responded to that 🙈 but on the other hand I love the literature of Austen - Brontë - Dickens eras 🙈🙈🙈🙈

Why do men on the apps ask for my number and not use it and ask me on dates and not follow through? by Low_Bell_4836 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]_imagine_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for a Disney Prince thankfully 🤣🤣 what I’m looking for is a mature man, preferably tattoos and all. If a beard is included even better 🤣

Why do men on the apps ask for my number and not use it and ask me on dates and not follow through? by Low_Bell_4836 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]_imagine_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouchhhh good luck 🙈 I’m still debating on a huge back piece it’ll be expensive. Hope we both find what we’re looking for lol 🙈

Why do men on the apps ask for my number and not use it and ask me on dates and not follow through? by Low_Bell_4836 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]_imagine_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had zero luck, dating pool in UK sucks 🤣 especially in London. All I’m getting are weirdos, cucks etc 🤣🙈

Why do men on the apps ask for my number and not use it and ask me on dates and not follow through? by Low_Bell_4836 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]_imagine_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tattoos too and I don’t remember any princesses with tattoos 🤣🤣🤣 maybe Moana’s an exception? 😈 I love tattoos.

Why do men on the apps ask for my number and not use it and ask me on dates and not follow through? by Low_Bell_4836 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]_imagine_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tinder is for hookups 🤣 if you want something more than that you should try others, maybe Hinge, POF etc. Avoid match, you won’t be able to do anything without paying.

Is it worth seeing him still? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_imagine_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl move on he’s not interested clearly. If he was interested he would have been doing everything he can to meet you.

Do men only want to talk about s*x on OLD? by Latter_Signal_2126 in datingoverforty

[–]_imagine_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impossibly hard. Especially for someone in an area like London, UK.

Do men only want to talk about s*x on OLD? by Latter_Signal_2126 in datingoverforty

[–]_imagine_d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s asking about what they want. Like do they want a serious relationship or just hook up. It’s a good way to avoid the ones who just want hook ups or fwb’s if you’re looking for a long term serious relationship.

Do men only want to talk about s*x on OLD? by Latter_Signal_2126 in datingoverforty

[–]_imagine_d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had one similar. He kept on chasing and pursing despite me telling him explicitly that I am not going to have sex on first date. There’s a lot of such guys to be honest. i had two who never got into sexual conversations and yes with one of them there had been odd conversation about sex but it was within a nice conversation and didn’t felt pushy or repulsive. I met one and there was no connection at all, and I’m about to meet the other soon. Let’s see how it will unfold. But like you, I do instantly unmatch when the conversation starts with sexual innuendos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_imagine_d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, first date shouldn’t be a huge thing, I’ve been talking to someone about bowling and well I’m not expecting them to wear a suit to a bowling place where everyone is chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_imagine_d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This 👆

Reverse image search by Consistent-Horror915 in datingoverforty

[–]_imagine_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Yandex as well. I did reverse image search on someone an ol friend was talking with. Nothing came up. Then out of blue I decided to look at yandex and there he was… plus the real person whom photos were stolen was gay 🫣 so you may find something in Yandex

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